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[Kpossible]

Finally I've found somewhere to vent and unload.
Our wedding is in April and as it is getting closer I almost wish we had have eloped, not only family stress as my parents won't be attending our wedding because my partner is of a different religion. Disgusting when you think about how family's could be broken apart because of religious difference. From this to stress financially and trying to lose weight. All just getting me down and tired which cause arguments between my Fiancé and myself - who proud to say never argue.
Well. Last weekend we had our hens/bucks weekend. Not only did I have to deal with a full capacity house of my siblings visiting from interstate, but also there disorganization and uncleanliness too. An utter lack of respect for our house, just gets under my skin at the best of times. Well my hens went well apart from the fact that my younger sister who lives with us proceeded to tell my older sister (MOD) that I (in private) said she was acting like a ***** and doing my head in. Gooood. However my younger sister sees she did nothing wrong in repeating what I had vented to her. Every sisters argue. I was just having a moment. Apart from this the hens was fine.
Now the bucks. I did try not to worry as I have trust for my fiancé. Then I find out he had to get 10 kisses from different girls try picking some up and ended up using amphetamines. Which I find out half a week later because he didnt want to upset me by telling me. Stressed at the max

In saying all this. A lovely friend of mine today gave me a gift voucher for 1 hr relaxation massage at one of the top spa resorts around town. At least I have some helpful friends. Now should I book in now or a couple days before wedding - when my family plans on staying with me again. Cos I'm sure il blurt out the word ***** again lmao

[Salayia]

I hope you enjoy the massage! I'd do it closer to the wedding. Trust me... by then, you'll REALLY need it!

As for your parents, I'm sorry they're not attending the wedding. That stinks that they can't put their beliefs aside to support their child. I hope they come around.

As for your FH doing drugs and getting kisses. I know I wouldn't be OK with those things either. Some people wouldn't mind some "harmless" kisses from strangers, but I probably wouldn't like it either. And the drugs - that's not something that I'd be OK with either. I'd definitely try to have a conversation with him about that if it really bothers you - like, is that something he does all the time, or was that really a one-time thing?

Good luck with your wedding planning! I hope the rest of it goes well for you!

[gwenshack]

Sorry things have been going awry. You're right - sisters have their moments of frustration. I'm glad you have friends looking out for you and a massage sounds perfect.

I wish your hubs to be hadn't given in to the friend pressure and done those things at his party. I hope that he realizes how stupid that was.

[Kpossible]

Thanks girls. Yea he does. Too much alcohol and opportunity. He regrets it so much I can tell. I am glad he told me. We try and communicate about everything, so maybe after a few special date nights il go easy on him lol

[gwenshack]

Originally Posted by Kpossible

Thanks girls. Yea he does. Too much alcohol and opportunity. He regrets it so much I can tell. I am glad he told me. We try and communicate about everything, so maybe after a few special date nights il go easy on him lol

I think that's smart. We all have our wild nights.

[Salayia]

Originally Posted by gwenshack

I think that's smart. We all have our wild nights.

Not me, Gwen.

[barbaracollins665]

Originally Posted by Kpossible

Thanks girls. Yea he does. Too much alcohol and opportunity. He regrets it so much I can tell. I am glad he told me. We try and communicate about everything, so maybe after a few special date nights il go easy on him lol

Good to see that finally you have get your solution.

[WebLady]

Sounds like a lot ... glad you and your FH are working it out. Hope everything else works itself out too

[pandavision]

In 50 years, you will look back on all this and laugh with your soul mate about it all while you sit in relaxation on your porch of your beautiful home drinking coffee.