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Old 04-22-2012, 03:27 PM
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So I am planning to get married in June of 2013. My future husband asked me to make a breast augmentation surgery before the wedding
I really really want to get my BA before that, but I'm still currently saving up for it. I was planning to get my surgery in late December of 2012 . This would be about 5 months before the wedding

My question is, will this give me enough to drop and full and everything before the wedding? Also, I want my hubby to be able to umm...not need to be gentle with them on the wedding night if you know what I mean haha, will I be healed enough for this? Or should I try to get surgery earlier?? I'm generally a quick healer but I don't want to risk it too close.

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Old 04-22-2012, 04:36 PM
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I have no experience in this department. I'm wondering, however, why your fh wants you to get a boob job. I don't have anything against it, but I think that is something that you should do for yourself and nobody else.
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Old 04-22-2012, 05:03 PM
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If you were already planning to do it, I can see why you and your FH might want to get it in before the wedding. However, I hope he didn't just come out and ask you to have a boob job for the wedding :/

I am not really experienced with this sort of thing, but I would talk to a Dr to see how much time you would need to recover and all.

Planning a wedding and a big surgery like this is bound to be stressful too.
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Planning a wedding and a big surgery like this is bound to be stressful too.


I can't imagine going through surgery just a few months before getting married! Planning a wedding is stressful enough, but throwing surgery on top of that, especially if you're just doing it for him and aren't into it for yourself as much, then yeah - that'd get pretty stressful.

But if you're wanting the surgery for YOU, and not just because he wants you to do it, then I'd definitely talk to a doctor about it to find out how long it takes to recover. But either way, that's going to be a very stressful time for you even without having surgery. I'm not sure I'd do it that close to the wedding. Good luck!
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i had a talk with my fiance and we decided to make the surgery after the wedding.anyway ive found some breast enlargement pills. Have anybody tried on of those methods?I really want to have my breasts full and firm.

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Old 04-23-2012, 08:52 AM
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IMO, if you are that worried about your breasts I would get some good boob cups and call it a day. Especailly before the wedding. There is no way I would have wanted to dael with surgery before my wedding.

I have never heard of those pills before, but I am guessing that they don't work.
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Oh...I didn't experience that too. But I don't wanna do any surgery to make my bra big. I never heard of the pills. I suggest that you should know the pills clearly before you take it.
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Hard to say, but (in my opinion) better do it earlier. Just in case
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The pills don't work. You might as well take $50 and set fire to it for all the good the pills do. As for Surgery, a friend of mine had hers done and it took two months to heal.

I had Surgery three months before my Wedding which took two months to get over. My Surgery was more for health reasons and not vanity. And given the choice i would have gone in afterwards to feel more myself. But mine was more of an emergency rather than to make myself look good.
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