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Old 04-12-2012, 03:16 AM
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We are planning to get married at May. But we quarreled so much since last Dec. We often fall out over some trifling matter. And every time, I think I should not marry him.
We have been together for 7 years. We didn't quarrel much before we decided to get married.
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Old 04-12-2012, 09:18 PM
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you should try to know him I think, he may be just worried about the marrige,it's ok
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Have you tried talking to him, maybe getting his feelings?

Maybe postpone the wedding and try counseling?
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What are the quarrels over? If it's just wedding planning minutiae, remember that it's only temporary and wedding planning is so ridiculously stressful that many couples fight over something related to the big day. But if it's over serious matters like your future, then you should think about couples counseling or postponing your marriage. Good luck!
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listen to your heart.you gonna find your answergood luck
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