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Old 11-03-2009, 08:35 PM
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That may have been a mistake on her part. She probably thought your godmother's husband knew you even better....and didn't want to act like she knew everything about you? I don't know. Either way, you're with your husband now.


It's been two months since the wedding and the same coworker before is now saying, "DON'T GET PREGNANT!!!"

She says it a lot. I love this girl, she's so outspoken. Haha. I can't even be offended by her anymore.
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Old 11-03-2009, 09:00 PM
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Hmmm, I don't know, either. It was just so weird :-S

LOL at the don't get pregnant remark! My FH was the one to say that to me when I started wanting a baby 2 months before the wedding
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Old 11-05-2009, 09:07 PM
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Hmmm, I don't know, either. It was just so weird :-S

LOL at the don't get pregnant remark! My FH was the one to say that to me when I started wanting a baby 2 months before the wedding
LOL. My DH is saying that to me now.
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Old 11-06-2009, 06:17 PM
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I'm mom of the bride and got a very pompous reply from my own sister about the wedding being too far away, too expensive and an imposition to all the guests. ( We live 1700 miles away, whats the big deal if you have to travel another 250 miles to the destination of the wedding.) Then quoted some Bible passages about the sacredness of marriage and a wedding is to celebrate the purity of the couple...since they have lived together for a few months it just doesn't do it for her...She suggested they should elope...(And rob us all of a wonderful time with our only daughter!?) She sent the whole invitation back along with the happy couple's engagement photo (Professional photo) and said maybe it can be sent to someone else or used in her scrap book. What Nerve!
The wedding is planned for the beach so it's going to be simple yet elegant. Buffet dinner after the ceremony.
Unfortunately the hotels aren't cheap but it's not like they have to spend a week there...The wedding is in April next year.
I always thought the mothers would be the controlling ones! LOL!
It's their wedding day...It should be the way they want it and where they want it as long as it can be afforded.
I'm not sure what to say or do about the invite being returned....It's pretty rude to do that I think.

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FutureFuchs09 agrees: You sound like my mom. My mom was very supportive. My aunt wasn't though.
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Mommaofbride, all I can say is that the wedding will likely be much nicer without her!

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Old 11-10-2009, 01:41 PM
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Yep! We agree to that!! LOL!
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Old 11-17-2009, 04:53 PM
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I haven't had any rude comments yet, since getting engaged, but I got plenty from my family beforehand. We've been together for 7 years and my parents were constantly asking when we were going to get married. Then, three years ago, when I told them I was pregnant my mom insisted that we had to get married before the baby was born or it would be traumatized.

Seriously? A child would only be traumatized by something like that if someone convinced them they should be. Our son has two parents that love each other and love him very much, and that's more than a lot of kids with married parents can say.

I finally got sick of her nagging, "When are you guys going to get married?" So I said, "When are you going to be able to afford to pay for it?" Her: "Oh...well...you're an adult now, so you have to pay for it..." She didn't bring it up again after that.
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