Deanna2112001
08-17-2007, 10:07 PM
So heres the deal. I have had my wedding planned for over a year. But due to a job promotion. We delayed it by a year. Now that we live 2 hrs away from where the wedding is supposed to be. It seems as if we are never going to get married. Long story here but I am going to make it simple.
We have not put our down payment on the reception. We were supposed to but the car died. I had to use the 500 for the down payment. Then Ricks car dies. Bam. Now we have 2 car payments. Fine.. We can handle this. We moved here for more money. Except the fact that now with 2 car payments. We cant pay for nothing other than food, gas, and bills. Its like there is no extra money yano.
But what gets me is that we are paying for this wedding ourselfs. And Ricks mother is not into our wedding. I am thinking that I am gonna have to flat out ask for help. She knows my mom cant help.
My future sil. Says that ever since her moms accident she aint been the same since. ( she had a accident at work and broke every bone in her face)
How do I ask? I dunno. But I am going to this weekend. If I have to. I will ask Ricks step father. Cause I am at the point where ... Either its going to happen.. or not.
**** it HAS to happen. I already have 2 girls that paid for their bridesmaid dresses! If I dont get married. I am suck with all the stuff I have bought and made. Wasted money down the drain.
Thank you for letting me vent.
Deanna
We have not put our down payment on the reception. We were supposed to but the car died. I had to use the 500 for the down payment. Then Ricks car dies. Bam. Now we have 2 car payments. Fine.. We can handle this. We moved here for more money. Except the fact that now with 2 car payments. We cant pay for nothing other than food, gas, and bills. Its like there is no extra money yano.
But what gets me is that we are paying for this wedding ourselfs. And Ricks mother is not into our wedding. I am thinking that I am gonna have to flat out ask for help. She knows my mom cant help.
My future sil. Says that ever since her moms accident she aint been the same since. ( she had a accident at work and broke every bone in her face)
How do I ask? I dunno. But I am going to this weekend. If I have to. I will ask Ricks step father. Cause I am at the point where ... Either its going to happen.. or not.
**** it HAS to happen. I already have 2 girls that paid for their bridesmaid dresses! If I dont get married. I am suck with all the stuff I have bought and made. Wasted money down the drain.
Thank you for letting me vent.
Deanna