A Marrige in trouble~!!!!

[Tiggerprincess]

Ok ladies..I know im gonna get a big time I told u so...My Husband and are now separated...He freaks if he texts me at work and he says i dont wanna be with him anymore...He even acused me of freaking playing him....LIKE ID EVER DO THAT!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Do i Divorce him or Stick w/ i as long as I can..This aint the 1st time this has happened..What do I do ya'll? Please help me..
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[andysgirl07]

I don't think any of us would say I told you so. I don't really understand by the information in your post what's going on, so I don't have any great advice for you. But you're the only one that can decide if you want to stay in a marriage like this or not. Also do you want to raise your child in a situation like this? I don't want to offend you, but I think ya'll rushed into things too quickly (and the age is playing a big factor also). I don't know if you should get a divorce or not, but I do think you need to assess what you think is best for your child. And what happens if ya'll have more children? Are you going to want to raise them in a home like this? Maybe you just need to take a big step back, look clearly at what's happening, and then make the best decision for YOURSELF and your KID. That's all you can really do.

[CindySue]

I agree with andysgirl. You need to think about whats best for your daughter. No matter how much it may hurt you, its her well being that should come first.

[WebLady]

I have to say that I pretty much agree with 'andysgirl07' too. None of us would ever say "I told you so"

This is a hard thing to deal with I know. But you just need to take a long hard look at everything that is going on here. Try to look at what is really happening, outside of the emotion of it all ... ask yourself "The Hard Questions" and make the decision that you feel is best for YOU and of course your child.

Here is the link to the "Hard Questions" thread - http://forums.onewed.com/showthread.php?p=2577#post2577

See also my relpy to your other topic - http://forums.onewed.com/showthread.php?p=8847#post8847

I really do with the best for you :hug:

~ WebLady :)

[Tiggerprincess]

We couldnt even talk reasonably!!!!I swear it was you I did situation!! I dont want my daughter growing up in that environment....I hate to give up this easliy, but i NOT going to let him ruin my life or hers....Ii love her way more that him...Plus he is not even the biological father! Mr. i walk around like i am..Do you think i am makin the right choice?
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[WebLady]

We couldnt even talk reasonably!!!!I swear it was you I did situation!! I dont want my daughter growing up in that environment....I hate to give up this easliy, but i NOT going to let him ruin my life or hers....Ii love her way more that him...Plus he is not even the biological father! Mr. i walk around like i am..Do you think i am makin the right choice?
D.D.

I am very sorry to hear you are having such a rough time with your new husband dear :hug: But, we can't really tell you if you are making the right choice here, this is something you have to decide for yourself. All we can do is listen and offer general advice, ya know? However, if you are not happy and you cannot talk things out with him then what other choice do you have?

It is always hard to go through something like this but it is better to go through it now rather than after you go through with that big wedding you had planned ... ya know!? Perhaps you guys did rush into all this but who knows. I don't know what else to say that hasn't already been said ... if things are as bad as you say then maybe it would be best for you to "cut your loses" and move on while it is "easy"

Best wishes,

~ WebLady :)