Elly_N_Joe
07-21-2007, 08:41 AM
Some of you know my situation as far as my best friend dropping out of my wedding, and then I got her parent's RSVP back to the wedding and they will not be coming either.
Well my best friend and I have really been going at it lately, mostly about the wedding and I how I feel that no matter what she should be there.
Well yesturday I came home for lunch and found out she took me off her friends list on her myspace (i know sounds stupid).
I was upset all afternoon cuz I knew that for her to do that she really just didn't want to talk to me anymore.
So afterwork I came home and let the dogs out whatever, had to leave again to meet Joe at the mall.
I had left the mail from lunctime in the car, i took the two RSVP's and came inside.. anyway..
I send my friend an email telling her that I was upset about the whole thing and left. I got stuck in traffic on the way to the mall and decided to look through the rest of the mail. To my surprise there were two more RSVP's.
One was from Joe's Aunt & uncle they won't be coming, but they sent $100 check.
The other was a good friend of mine from highschool, Kim. Who I thought for sure was going to be a "no" cuz I haven't talked to her in almost 3 years. Well I opened her RSVP and she is COMING!! , I was so happy it was unbelievable. but then it hit me...
So many emotions were going through me... I was so happy that Kim was coming, yet so upset that Kim who I haven't talked to in almost 3 years was coming, but my best friend of 15 years wasn't, and her parents who were like second parents to me weren't coming.
I cried, just about the whole way to the mall,and I tried to explain to myself why I was crying, and why I was so upset.
Finally I realized that I shouldn't crying and stopped. But finally, I admitted to myself how upset & hurt I was about Bridgette and her parent's not coming to the wedding.
Well my best friend and I have really been going at it lately, mostly about the wedding and I how I feel that no matter what she should be there.
Well yesturday I came home for lunch and found out she took me off her friends list on her myspace (i know sounds stupid).
I was upset all afternoon cuz I knew that for her to do that she really just didn't want to talk to me anymore.
So afterwork I came home and let the dogs out whatever, had to leave again to meet Joe at the mall.
I had left the mail from lunctime in the car, i took the two RSVP's and came inside.. anyway..
I send my friend an email telling her that I was upset about the whole thing and left. I got stuck in traffic on the way to the mall and decided to look through the rest of the mail. To my surprise there were two more RSVP's.
One was from Joe's Aunt & uncle they won't be coming, but they sent $100 check.
The other was a good friend of mine from highschool, Kim. Who I thought for sure was going to be a "no" cuz I haven't talked to her in almost 3 years. Well I opened her RSVP and she is COMING!! , I was so happy it was unbelievable. but then it hit me...
So many emotions were going through me... I was so happy that Kim was coming, yet so upset that Kim who I haven't talked to in almost 3 years was coming, but my best friend of 15 years wasn't, and her parents who were like second parents to me weren't coming.
I cried, just about the whole way to the mall,and I tried to explain to myself why I was crying, and why I was so upset.
Finally I realized that I shouldn't crying and stopped. But finally, I admitted to myself how upset & hurt I was about Bridgette and her parent's not coming to the wedding.