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Panthers Bride
06-20-2007, 01:23 PM
http://www.charlotte.com/204/story/166757.html

40-year-old former teacher marries 16-year-old student
The Associated Press
http://starnewsonline.com

WILMINGTON, N.C. --
A 40-year-old high school science teacher and cross country coach has resigned his position and married a 16-year-old student.
Brenton Wuchae coached Windy Hager at South Brunswick High School, where she recently completed her sophomore year as one of the school's top runners. He also lives less than two miles away from the Hagers' home on Oak Island.

Wuchae married Hager in Brunswick County on Monday, according to a marriage license.

Hager's parents, Dennis and Betty Hager, said they did all they could to keep the couple apart after noticing a deeper-than-usual friendship forming between them. The parents said they tried to intervene by talking to the coach, going to school officials, pleading with police and sheriff's office detectives, even other teachers and students at South Brunswick.

But the Hagers say they reluctantly signed a consent form allowing their daughter to marry her coach.

Brunswick County Schools Superintendent Katie McGee said both the school system and the Brunswick County Sheriff's Office investigated Wuchae's case but did not come up with enough evidence that would merit charging or even firing the coach.

"As a lifelong educator, I am truly shocked and disheartened by what has transpired," McGee said.

The Brunswick County Board of Education approved Wuchae's resignation Tuesday - one week after Wuchae had filed it.

The school system hired Wuchae as a teacher and coach in August 2004 from Guilford County.

Wuchae and his new bride were at home Tuesday, resting on his living room floor watching TV. He declined to comment.

Doglover
06-20-2007, 01:31 PM
sick. her parents shouldn't of signed. That is so stupid. She didn't have to get married! She could've dated him for 2 more years for crying out loud!

Nekochanpurr
06-20-2007, 01:33 PM
sick. her parents shouldn't of signed. That is so stupid. She didn't have to get married! She could've dated him for 2 more years for crying out loud!

Exactly. Talking from experence, at 16.. You don't know what the heck you want! The 40 yr old is on a completely different level than she is.. Truely disgusting. If you really 'loved' someone that much, wouldn't you love them enough to wait until they were legal..? Just.. UGH.

shelbyoliver
06-20-2007, 01:54 PM
ewww...sick..seriously. If he really loved her he would have waited to marry her...poor thing I wonder if he will divorce her when she gets too old for him.

Doglover
06-20-2007, 01:56 PM
i seriously bet they just wanted to have sex legally.

sjk1431
06-20-2007, 02:23 PM
eeeww that is sick. I can't believe her parents signed :ooh:

dearlyloved
06-20-2007, 02:42 PM
That guy needs therapy!

Dereksbride
06-20-2007, 04:17 PM
Yes. Therepy does tend to help people!

I'm so glad that didn't happen in Kentucky! :sweatdrop: It'd just give another reason to make fun of us "hillbillies". :laugh:

Dani
06-20-2007, 06:54 PM
Nobody put a gun to her parents head. They are just as sick.

rainbowtreat
06-20-2007, 09:05 PM
Am I mistaken in saying her parents could have gotten him arrested for statutory rape?

mlm063007
06-20-2007, 09:55 PM
That is gross! I dont understand why the parents signed the consent form?!?!

hummingbird521
06-20-2007, 10:20 PM
I think the parents are about as screwed up as the 40 year old coach. first of all i am thankful it wasn't in arkansas. lol. and secondly: if that had been me my parents would have had him arrested for statutory rape or something they could have found. i think it is just sick. when she gets of legal age will he hunt down another 16 year old?

lize566
06-21-2007, 12:52 AM
Yes. Therepy does tend to help people!

I'm so glad that didn't happen in Kentucky! :sweatdrop: It'd just give another reason to make fun of us "hillbillies". :laugh:

LOL I totally agree! I don't mean to laugh, but being from KY it's true. The media always tend to portray the worst part of the state.

But seriously though, that is just wrong on so many levels. I'm all about the age is just a number thing, but in cases like this, it has to matter. I just don't get any of it! In a way I feel bad for her, b/c at 16 what has happened in her life to make her want to marry a 40 year old? Perhaps her parents felt that if they didn't sign they would lose their daughter. Who knows!

RevMatty
06-21-2007, 01:17 AM
Who was the wedding officiant/minister? No morals?
I would've turned them down.

raven34
06-21-2007, 01:34 AM
Nobody put a gun to her parents head. They are just as sick.
I couldn't agree more