rsvp weird situation

[lynny56]

so we are getting married in hawaii in oct of 08
we will send out the invites in aug of 08
my future mil is going to give us a reception/cookout thing at home the next MAY (we live in hawaii and he gets out of the airforce and we move home)
should i send out something announcing this again after the wedding or do something on the rsvp card. i can go to hawaii/cant go i can go the indiana reception/cant go

help!

[WebLady]

I would say something about it in the initial invite, maybe add a Save The Date thing. And then send out seperate invites after the wedding as the May date gets closer.

You may even want to get a wedding website to help ppl keep up with all the details.

[kevinsbride2B]

Awwwwww I miss Hawaii :( I used to live there. I used to have friends in Scofield (sp?). Anyways, back to the inital question lol. I would send out your regular invites and then add a save the date at a later time maybe a month or so before your cookout.
Your going to have a BEAUTIFUL wedding in Hawaii!

[SaralovesMike]

I would definitely send out something seperate like a Save the Date after the wedding. It probably wouldn't hurt to mention it with your invites, the STD will be another reminder once it is closer.