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CindySue
12-14-2005, 11:42 AM
Ok.....I have a question ladies. I believe most of us are already living with our FHs and I doubt many have been celibate. If we have already been intimate with our men, what can we do on our wedding nights to make them really special?
Brian and I are going to cut things off a few weeks before (and oh boy is that going to be tough). We already do the bubble baths and candles and massages and all that stuff. What else is there?
Im not trying to be nosy, but I was wondering if anyone else had thought about this.

Tiggerprincess
12-14-2005, 11:55 AM
Quite often actually...Where as u guys have done a ot of intamatet things, doesnt mean thereis no other experiments to be done...Use your vivid imagination...The ssky's the limit.......Disscuss this w/ your FH and see what ypu guys can do on you wedding night...
D.D.

andysgirl07
12-14-2005, 12:04 PM
Or you could go to a lingerie/other store. I know one in our town has a wedding night section with different games, ideas, all kinds of stuff. Me and Andrew are also gonna cut things off a few weeks before the wedding. We haven't looked too hard at the wedding night supplies, but some of them look fun! ;)

LizabethDavis
12-14-2005, 12:11 PM
I mentioned not having sex for the month before the wedding to FH and he looked at me like I had three heads....that's not going to happen. I guess just being able to do it without kids knocking on our door asking for a drink of water (11 at night..shouldn't they be sleeping???) would be special...LOL.

I am not sure what we are going to do to make it special, but I am sure we will find something!

CindySue
12-14-2005, 12:16 PM
Well not having kids in the house will be different for us too. We have had to hold back on somethings because of not wanting them to hear anything.
andysgirl.......we have already stocked up! ;)

LaceyinPgh
12-14-2005, 05:36 PM
Wedding night? Hell, after that wedding the only thing that I want to do is take off the 500 pound dress and go to sleep. Honestly what happens happens. Sean and I could really care less about being intimate with each other. I know that sounds weird but we always have too many other things going on. If something happens on the wedding night or honeymoon, great but I don't plan on going out of our way to make something happen.

rainbowtreat
12-14-2005, 05:44 PM
Well My FH and I have not talked about it yet but I want to cut things off for a couple of weeks before the wedding. Not that that will be much different from now. Some times we are just too tired ( or I am ) but he is so excited about making love ot me as his wife that he can't wiat. And yes the part of having no kids will be great. Not sure about having anything planned but he is a man and he cant wait to get me to that hotel room with my dress still on lol:bbredface: . We don't have many nights without kids and if we do we he is usually working or we try and do somethign like dinner or something just the 2 of us.

When my sister got married, they alraedy had a baby together as well, but they even cut off the kisses for a week before and did not see each other before the ceremony.

Mrs.J.C.M.
12-14-2005, 06:52 PM
well, seeing as my FH has a "thing" for boots, i'm searching for a pair of thigh high white boots, a white corset, garter, and g-string. although i often wear boots for him, ive never been dressed in all white. sorta keeps with the whole wedding theme...he will love it for sure, the question is who will help me get the dress off and the other stuff on???
Mrs.J.C.M.

usahgrad
12-14-2005, 07:05 PM
I mentioned not having sex for the month before the wedding to FH and he looked at me like I had three heads....

That happened with me too! After he nixed the idea of cutting off, I asked him how are we going to make it really really special then? He said, "Every night with you is special; how could our wedding night NOT be really really special?"

So, while there will probably be a nice piece of lingerie somewhere hiding under my 500 pound dress (that thing is heavy Lacey!), I think just being with each other as husband and wife will be special enough.

Well that and we'll be staying at the Sheraton and away from all of that family! :)

WhiskeyGirl
12-14-2005, 10:58 PM
I wish I could say that our wedding night was this awesome night, BUT.....it wasn't!! (BTW we have lived together for a year and half before the wedding so its not like it was the "first time" or anything...lol) After wearing my heavy dress all day I came down with a nasty chill, climbed out of my dress into the jaquzzi (where my husband had to wash my hair for me I was shaking so bad!) and then climbed into my comfy pajamas, flipped his side (as well as mine) of the comforter over on top of me and shivered my way to sleep! The next morning, well that was a different story! I bought a white corset and panties and we made up for the lack of "fun" the night before. A lot of people told me not to expect to much out of the wedding night, I hate to say it, but I can add my story to the pile!! lol! Hope you all have better luck and more "fun" then I did!!

Jenn060306
12-15-2005, 12:36 PM
I haven't really thought about what will happen, if we are going to cut things off a month or so before the wedding, or if i am going to buy anything fancy. I might since i've never have.

At a friends wedding the bartender gave her doubles for all her drinks. She had know clue and ended up spending her wedding night being sick.

CindySue
12-15-2005, 12:44 PM
Our "nighttime activities" have slackened because of work and.....just life, i guess. By the time we get in bed, we are both sooo tired, we just cuddle up and go to sleep. Now....come morning........thats a different story entirely. Or in the middle of the night after we have slept for a few hours.
Im just wondering if we will be too tired to do anything on our wedding night. I talked to Brian about it and he said we could always pull off somewhere on the way to the reception and "consumate" our marriage and have that out of the way. I guess it is an idea............

Hayz
12-15-2005, 12:53 PM
I've kinda told FH not to expect to much as its going to be a long tiring day and as we are having a dance that will wear us out too. We have the band till midnight and I know we could just leave and go to our room but if we are having fun and we might as well stay and enjoy it.
When we do "you know" weither it be that night or on our honeymoon then its going to be very special just because of the fact we are now legally husband and wife.

CindySue
12-15-2005, 12:57 PM
You have a point Hayz. Its one thing when its just my fiance, but it will be entirely different when its my husband!

rainbowtreat
12-15-2005, 06:25 PM
I can't remember with my first wedding if we did anything that night or not. I wasn't drunk I just dont think we did.

My Fh and I talked last ngiht and I guess we did talk about it already lol ( i can't remember anything these days ) He said we are cutting things off a months before the wedding. And he said just what i said, not like there will be that much of a difference then right now. I feel bad but life has us going all the time and i just dont have the energy by the time the kids are alseep.

I guess as well as tellign all the details of our day once it happens we will have to see just how the night went, did you just fall asleep or was it the most amazing night ever.

usahgrad
12-15-2005, 06:33 PM
My FH mentioned something about just pulling me off somewhere and "consummating" our marriage. I told him there was NO WAY there was going to be any "consummating" until I was ready to get out of my dress. Y'all have seen Lacey's dress...well that's my dress too and believe you me, there isn't going to be any dress maneuvering that will make consummation possible.

We've talked about getting a jacuzzi suite. That would be nice. Although, I honestly have to say, I'm looking forward to having him take off my dress more than I am anything else. I'm weird like that...lol.

WebLady
12-15-2005, 11:50 PM
My DH and I put things off for about a month before the wedding. The last time before the wedding he made a silly comment about it being the last time he was going to be with his 'girlfriend' before he got married ;)

I bought some lingerie for the honeymoon. He had champagne and chocolate covered strawberries delivered to our room. We drank some champagne and fed each other the strawberries ... then I went to slipp into something 'more comfortable' ;)

Just hearing him say that he had been looking forward to being with his wife was great for me ... Even though we had been together for nearly 6 years before we were married, the 'lovin' is a bit different to me now but in a good way.

This will be our first Christmas as husband and wife. I got him a nice card that says "To my husband" I hope we gets me a 'wife' one.

~ WebLady :)

usahgrad
12-20-2005, 05:32 PM
Awww!

I was thinking the other day of cutting us off when my birth control runs out this month. I'm off of insurance on Dec. 31, so it'll be $60 a month for my birth control. Haven't proposed the idea to my FH yet, but if we hold off for that long...it's going to be a REALLY special night! ;)

sprinkles8986
12-21-2005, 10:06 PM
My FH has already informed me that if we hold out it will be more like out first time (it was all of 10 sec.). Instead of the more recent stuff I have gotten to know and love. I am concerned the whole holding off may ruin my wedding night just as it ruined our first time for the both of us... :bbredface:

WebLady
12-21-2005, 10:58 PM
My FH has already informed me that if we hold out it will be more like out first time (it was all of 10 sec.). Instead of the more recent stuff I have gotten to know and love. I am concerned the whole holding off may ruin my wedding night just as it ruined our first time for the both of us...

Yes it is true, for some men when they go too long without it, it doesn't last very long when they do get it again. But even in that, (to me at least) there is more to making love than intercourse :bbredface: ;) Maybe you guys could just hold off for a few days or week before? That isn't too long and it gives you something to look forward to. But there is no 'law' saying that you have to hold off ... you have to do what works for you and your FH. I just liked the idea of making our first time as husband and wife extra special and for me holding off a bit was nice ... the anticipation made it good for us ;)

Best wishes in whatever you decide to do.

~ WebLady :)

CindySue
12-22-2005, 01:34 PM
Thats why I wanted to cut "things" off for a couple of weeks before we get married. Every month we have to hold off for a few days ;) and when we do it, its like "WOW" all over again. Our wedding is May 13th and the way I have things figured the 1st week of May will be "off limits" anyway, so waiting a few more days will make the anticipation all that much greater, especially with a few wedding day "surprises" I have planned for him. http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/4/4_2_105.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZNxdm414CPUS)





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WebLady
12-22-2005, 01:45 PM
Thats why I wanted to cut "things" off for a couple of weeks before we get married. Every month we have to hold off for a few days and when we do it, its like "WOW" all over again. Our wedding is May 13th and the way I have things figured the 1st week of May will be "off limits" anyway, so waiting a few more days will make the anticipation all that much greater, especially with a few wedding day "surprises" I have planned for him.

Sounds like fun ... So I am intrigued by the "surprises" is this something you can share or is it too personal and/or risque' ;) :bbquestion:

Best wishes,

~ WebLady :)

CindySue
12-22-2005, 02:10 PM
One of the things Im going to do is inform him at the reception (by whispering in his ear) what I might or might not be wearing under my dress. :bbeek: That drives him wild anyway. Good thing I dont use that very often or it would lose its effectiveness.
Ive found a couple of very interesting looking "items" :bbredface: in a catalog I requested that I think he will REALLY enjoy. I want to do a candle lit bubble bath, but I bet we will not get around to that. There will be rose petals on the bed. And of course the night wouldnt be complete without the sexy nightie!;)

WebLady
12-22-2005, 02:29 PM
Cool Cindy, sounds like a good plan to me. My honey likes it when I sometimes say 'dirty' things to him in his ear when we are out :bbredface: Like you said if you do it all the time you don't get the same result.

My honey also really likes the stockings and garter belt thing (too much trouble if you ask me) so I do that every now and then to get to him ;)

I like it when he whispers in my ear while he softly kisses my neck. Sometime he will do that when we are on the couch just watching TV. Drives me crazy!

Funny, we bought these heels a while back (I hate to wear heels and I can't walk them) so he will sometimes put them out by the bed to let me know he wants something.

Ok, I guess all that was TMI ... sorry :bbredface:

~ WebLady :)

CindySue
12-22-2005, 03:02 PM
No.......not really TMI. I bought my wedding shoes and they look like this only they have rhinestones across the foot:
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Brian asked me if I was going to wear them before the wedding. I told him I didnt want to mess them up. He said "well I wasnt talking about you walking around in them" :bbredface: OK...... so apparently my FH has a fetish I didnt know about. So.........I will wear the shoes to bed, but I thought our wedding night would be perfect for the 1st time doing this.

WebLady
12-22-2005, 03:08 PM
... Brian asked me if I was going to wear them before the wedding. I told him I didnt want to mess them up. He said "well I wasnt talking about you walking around in them" :bbredface: OK...... so apparently my FH has a fetish I didnt know about. So.........I will where the shoes to bed, but I thought our wedding night would be perfect for the 1st time doing this.

Ok, I don't feel so bad now ... my DH apparently has the same fetish ;)

~ WebLady :)

usahgrad
12-22-2005, 06:28 PM
Maybe my FH is messed up...the only thing he said about my shoes was "No, honey, they don't make you taller than me." Maybe after I wear them around the house a bit to break them in, he'll look at them as less of a hieght enhancer and more of a something else enhancer...:bbredface:

I'll be wearing something "special" under my dress, so when he takes it off there it will be. Although, I think his not holding off plan might get messed up by the stress and time consuming-ness of the last minute plans of the wedding. I'm pretty sure the week before, I'm going to be WAY too busy to be doing that...or I'll be all over him...it could go either way...:bbeek:

WebLady
12-22-2005, 07:16 PM
My DH and I talked alot about 'it' while we were holding off before the wedding ... the anticipation was great ;)

Good luck to you all!

~ WebLady :)

CindySue
12-23-2005, 02:48 PM
I'm pretty sure the week before, I'm going to be WAY too busy to be doing that...or I'll be all over him...it could go either way...:bbeek:

Thats what Im scared of too......Im the instigator as much as he is when it comes to that and when I want it, Im not scared to try and take it. :bbredface: I have attaked him on a few occassions.

sprinkles8986
12-23-2005, 11:34 PM
Thanks I want to hold off but I am not sure if I want the discouragement of our first time again. I do realize their are many more aspects of love, but if we hold out and it happens again well I guess I will handle it the same way I did the first time... laugh. I didn't mean to but we both ended up laughing about it. Although that day we made a decision to use that as a lesson and determined we were going to have some great sex our wedding night to make up for it. (Maybe I can get him to compromise and agree to a week or two);)

usahgrad
12-24-2005, 03:30 PM
Thats what Im scared of too......Im the instigator as much as he is when it comes to that and when I want it, Im not scared to try and take it. :bbredface: I have attaked him on a few occassions.

Me too! He's just so darn cute! :bbmrgreen:

WebLady
12-24-2005, 09:11 PM
Originally Posted by CindySue
Thats what Im scared of too......Im the instigator as much as he is when it comes to that and when I want it, Im not scared to try and take it. I have attaked him on a few occassions.

I thought this would be a problem for us too but I was too busy and/or preoccupied to think about it most of the time. The few times I did, we would just talk about it and how we couldn't wait until the honeymoon.

Funny thing though, we only did it twice on the week long cruise. I guess that is about our average, I just sort of expected more on the honeymoon ;)

~ WebLady :)

Tiggerprincess
12-25-2005, 10:04 AM
oK you guys! i'm not goin into what me an my FH were gonna do...He likes suprises as well........I love them...Anyways i hope you guys find a way to display a huge "fireworks" show....Just dont set fire to anything....You guys have fun now you hear...:wink:
D.D.:goodluck:

Fairy002
12-30-2005, 12:15 AM
I am about seven months away from the alter and I have been thinking about that same situation. I am a little scared that there won't be anything new to do on our wedding night. I want it to be new and exciting, but you know what if he loves you and I'm sure he does the mere thought of being next to you will be enough. That's what my FH tells me, he says that on our wedding night just being next to me and knowing we will have eachother forever will be more than enough.



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WebLady
12-30-2005, 10:58 AM
I am about seven months away from the alter and I have been thinking about that same situation. I am a little scared that there won't be anything new to do on our wedding night. I want it to be new and exciting, but you know what if he loves you and I'm sure he does the mere thought of being next to you will be enough. That's what my FH tells me, he says that on our wedding night just being next to me and knowing we will have eachother forever will be more than enough.

Awww, that is nice ... *:tongue: gaging on the obnoxious mushiness (hehe) JUST KIDDING ;)*

IMO the honeymoon night is about consummating the marriage and that usually means 'lovin'

But whether you "hold off" or not, you gotta do what works for you and your honey.

When I got married the first time, it was so sudden that we didn't even think about it too much. I ended up having my period and we didn't do anything until the week after.

This time we planned a bit more. For some people the honeymoon night is the night of the wedding, for others it is the first night of the honeymoon. That is what we did, we were too tired the night of the wedding to think about it. So for us it was the next day ... no wait, OMG, I can't believe I forgot ... it was two days after the wedding, because the first night of the cruise I got sea sick! So the whole champagne and strawberries thing was on the second night of the honeymoon.

Ok, lets not tell my DH that I forgot a detail 'cause he would never let me live it down ;)

~ WebLady :)

usahgrad
12-30-2005, 08:43 PM
Ok, lets not tell my DH that I forgot a detail 'cause he would never let me live it down ;)


AWWWWW! I'm tellin! HEY WEBLADY'S DH! (That's designated hitter you know?)

Just kidding.

We planned it so that the night of, we could do things, if I don't just zonk out from all the work. I'm going to take the Wed, Thurs, and Fri off before the wedding. That way, wednesday, I can run around for last minute things; Thursday, I can sleep; Friday is already designated as a decoration day. I think this will keep me from zonking out before we consummate things...not that I really think I will, but it's always best to have a back up plan!

Tiggerprincess
12-30-2005, 08:47 PM
Thats what Im scared of too......Im the instigator as much as he is when it comes to that and when I want it, Im not scared to try and take it. :bbredface: I have attaked him on a few occassions.
I know what mean as have I :bbredface:.....I know what i want I get it...Not sayin hes not willin........That really turns on...

WebLady
12-30-2005, 10:10 PM
AWWWWW! I'm tellin! HEY WEBLADY'S DH! (That's designated hitter you know?)

Just kidding.


*hehe* ;) and no, I didn't know about the other 'DH' I don't follow baseball ... or any other sport for that matter ;)

We planned it so that the night of, we could do things, if I don't just zonk out from all the work. I'm going to take the Wed, Thurs, and Fri off before the wedding. That way, wednesday, I can run around for last minute things; Thursday, I can sleep; Friday is already designated as a decoration day. I think this will keep me from zonking out before we consummate things...not that I really think I will, but it's always best to have a back up plan!

Sounds like a good plan ... just don't go on a cruise and get sea sick like I did ;)

~ WebLady :)

ikkin510
12-31-2005, 05:17 AM
Lol that's funny Kelli! Yeah, I am thinking about taking a couple days off before the weddding. I don't want to be run down that day so the earlier I get things done, the more rest I can get!

bnd94
12-31-2005, 07:47 AM
I don't think I will plan anything special. Except maybe a few new outfits. This is one thing that I think needs no planning it just happens naturally. Even after almost 12 years every time is different and amazing! We both like to surprise the other just out of the blue. I have never really planned anything, just spur of the moment stuff.;)

WebLady
12-31-2005, 11:25 AM
I don't think I will plan anything special. Except maybe a few new outfits. This is one thing that I think needs no planning it just happens naturally.

I agree and I don't think we are saying that anyone has to "plan" for it but rather to be sure to make time for it ;)

Even after almost 12 years every time is different and amazing! We both like to surprise the other just out of the blue. I have never really planned anything, just spur of the moment stuff.;)

I agree, my honey and I have been together for yearly 7 years and every time is wonderful and different in some way.

But it is nice for many people to make this time extra special in some way. For me it was special and emotionally different just because we were finally married and that was the first time I could yell out my "Husband's" name ;)

*hehe* Best wishes to all,

~ WebLady :)

usahgrad
12-31-2005, 03:46 PM
I know that the 'special outfits' I'll be planning will be for the honeymoon. The undergarments I'll be wearing under the dress are all white and lacy, which I think will do the job quite nicely that night. ;) Besides, one of the reasons I bought the dress I did was so that my groom could take it off of me. It'd be kind of silly, IMO, to go running away after he took it off saying I had to change into something. I don't think I'm going to want to put a door between us that night anyways...unless it's for certain things obviously.

WebLady
12-31-2005, 05:01 PM
I know that the 'special outfits' I'll be planning will be for the honeymoon. The undergarments I'll be wearing under the dress are all white and lacy, which I think will do the job quite nicely that night. ;) Besides, one of the reasons I bought the dress I did was so that my groom could take it off of me.

That is the best way to go IMO ;)

It'd be kind of silly, IMO, to go running away after he took it off saying I had to change into something. I don't think I'm going to want to put a door between us that night anyways...unless it's for certain things obviously.

*hehe* yeah, I hear ya ... Guys usually don't like to wait while we change into something more 'comfortable' anyway :bbmrgreen:

~ WebLady :)

usahgrad
12-31-2005, 09:25 PM
I've never done it...put him on hold while I went and changed into something 'more comfortable' I mean. Of course, something 'more comfortable' is inevitably NOT more comfortable, so I don't know where the term comes from...but I still don't get why someone would run off to go change. The few times that I've worn something 'more comfortable' it's been just after I got out of the shower or something, so I'm not running away from him to go put it on... it kind of initiates things...if you get my drift. That may be TMI. :bbredface:

rainbowtreat
12-31-2005, 09:48 PM
I may be giving to much info here lol but my FH says he can't wait to get me to the hotel with my dress ON. He is not planning to hurry anything. He has things in mind for while i am still in that dress. ;)

The only time i went to put somethign on for him was when i gave him one his gift for Valentins day. It was a little fashion show :bbredface: . TMI i know sorry.
I had about 4 or 5 different outfits to show off to him. He absolutely loved it i might add. It ended with me in his flannel shirt :bbredface: .

OK gave way to much info lol sorry.

WebLady
01-01-2006, 12:16 PM
I've never done it...put him on hold while I went and changed into something 'more comfortable' I mean. Of course, something 'more comfortable' is inevitably NOT more comfortable, so I don't know where the term comes from...but I still don't get why someone would run off to go change. The few times that I've worn something 'more comfortable' it's been just after I got out of the shower or something, so I'm not running away from him to go put it on... it kind of initiates things...if you get my drift. That may be TMI.

I feel that way too ... usually I will just put something on after I shower or waiting for him to get home ;) But I don't like to interupt the 'mood' by changing in the midst of things. Yeah, I don't know where that term came from.

I may be giving to much info here lol but my FH says he can't wait to get me to the hotel with my dress ON. He is not planning to hurry anything. He has things in mind for while i am still in that dress. ;)

The only time i went to put somethign on for him was when i gave him one his gift for Valentins day. It was a little fashion show. TMI i know sorry.
I had about 4 or 5 different outfits to show off to him. He absolutely loved it i might add. It ended with me in his flannel shirt.

OK gave way to much info lol sorry.

No TMI, sounds like fun ;) My honey like lingerie too. But he doesn't like it when I wear his shirts. In the everyday thing, I like to wear pj pants and a tank or t-shirt around the house and to bed and he calls it my 'body armor'

~ WebLady :)

Tiggerprincess
01-01-2006, 12:24 PM
I agree and I don't think we are saying that anyone has to "plan" for it but rather to be sure to make time for it ;)



I agree, my honey and I have been together for yearly 7 years and every time is wonderful and different in some way.

But it is nice for many people to make this time extra special in some way. For me it was special and emotionally different just because we were finally married and that was the first time I could yell out my "Husband's" name ;)

*hehe* Best wishes to all,

~ WebLady :)
Me and my DH have been together almost 5 yrs!! Since i was 16!! He is 7yrs older than me..I love suprising him as well as he suprising me...:bbredface:
Mrs. Champagne

rainbowtreat
01-01-2006, 07:17 PM
Nicholas loves it when I wear his shirts. but he loves seeing me in my things too. We look around in a store and i am looking at PJ's he has to stop and feel them then says yup i can sleep next to that lol.

Tiggerprincess
01-01-2006, 10:21 PM
I may be giving to much info here lol but my FH says he can't wait to get me to the hotel with my dress ON. He is not planning to hurry anything. He has things in mind for while i am still in that dress. ;)

The only time i went to put somethign on for him was when i gave him one his gift for Valentins day. It was a little fashion show :bbredface: . TMI i know sorry.
I had about 4 or 5 different outfits to show off to him. He absolutely loved it i might add. It ended with me in his flannel shirt :bbredface: .

OK gave way to much info lol sorry.
Thats all good...Thats what we're here 4...We're all FB.......No worries..My DH has something planned that he said would blow my mind........(ok TMI) but its the turth.........:bbredface:

CindySue
01-02-2006, 10:31 AM
Brian syays the fancy underwear is a waste of money for us.....it never stays on long enough or gets torn up if it doesnt come off easliy. I sleep in boxers and a t-shirt. Ive yet to find anything he would call "body armor" I think EVERYTHING I own turns him on! :bbredface:

WebLady
01-02-2006, 11:37 AM
Brian syays the fancy underwear is a waste of money for us.....it never stays on long enough or gets torn up if it doesnt come off easliy. I sleep in boxers and a t-shirt. Ive yet to find anything he would call "body armor" I think EVERYTHING I own turns him on! :bbredface:
LOL ... my DH wishes I would sleep in the 'buff' like him ;) But I get cold at night and I am always afraid he will roll over and see my fat or something *LOL*

Ok, that reminds me ... I said I was gonna start working out again this week.

~ WebLady :)

CindySue
01-02-2006, 02:17 PM
I used to try to cover up because I didnt want Brian seeing my fat. He would get mad and tell me, "Do NOT hide your body from me. I dont know what you have issues with but I see absolutely nothing wrong with your body."
We would like to sleep in the buff, but as soon as we try to, thats the night someone is going to have a nightmare or get sick in the middle of the night. With kids around, it is much safer to sleep with clothes on.

rainbowtreat
01-02-2006, 04:38 PM
I hear ya Cindy. We always have our youngest ending up in bed at one time or another during the night. And then I have to get up and put him back in his bed. So clothes is needed to sleep in. I usually wear one of his t-shirts. I will wear his pj pants to till i get into bed then those come off.

Tiggerprincess
01-03-2006, 08:59 AM
Whats really bad is when my daughter starts crying...Right as we "get comfortable" She starts screamin..If that doesnt ruin the moment i dont know what does....I mean thats the only part of our life that seems to be altered a lil bit..Oh well, No Worries, I wouldnt trade it for the world..OMG!! I'll never fro get I was sgtaying at my sisters house, and her daughter wanted to tell Jamie something and she walk in there room and i heard Morgan scream "Daddy Are you hurting mommy!!!!??" The response was timeless.."No hunny im just giving daddya piggy back ride"...Ok i know that was a big time TMI but i thought it was a funny story...
Mrs. Champagne

WebLady
01-03-2006, 11:08 AM
Whats really bad is when my daughter starts crying...Right as we "get comfortable" She starts screamin..If that doesnt ruin the moment i dont know what does....I mean thats the only part of our life that seems to be altered a lil bit..Oh well, No Worries, I wouldnt trade it for the world..OMG!! I'll never fro get I was sgtaying at my sisters house, and her daughter wanted to tell Jamie something and she walk in there room and i heard Morgan scream "Daddy Are you hurting mommy!!!!??" The response was timeless.."No hunny im just giving daddya piggy back ride"...Ok i know that was a big time TMI but i thought it was a funny story...
Mrs. Champagne

OMG -- LMAO ... I am glad I don't have to worry about all that ;) I wish the best for all you ladies though :D

When my sister had my niece, she slept in the bed with them for months and I don't think they did anything during that time. Now the baby is a 1 1/2 and sleeps in her own bed but still in the same room. My sister just had her tubes tied (well, actually "blocked") so they won't be going through that again ;)

~ WebLady :)

usahgrad
01-04-2006, 06:59 PM
My aunt called for my mom one time while she and my father were "busy" and my brother (who was about seven at the time) said that they were "fidgeting." Well, it kind of stuck and when mama calls during and then calls back later she'll say, "You were fidgeting, weren't you?" :bbeek: MOM!

As for sleepwear, Jason likes whatever I sleep in, although I'm sure it will be more once there's kids around...guess I have to treasure my ability to sleep in the "buff". :bbredface: