Jen's after wedding journal

[NicksBride]

Thats OK to write him an E-mail just make it nice. Say something like i know you and Evan are close and you are just watching out for us etc. BUT we are married and want our space and we really want you to be a part of it, but please call first so we can give the OK or sometihng.. He needs some boundaries as well.. GOod luck!

[Doglover]

I just can't do that!!!!!!!! I AM SUCH A CHICKEN!!!!!!!!!!!!! But he is never going to stop unless someone says something. I know it wouldn't be rude of me to write it in a nice way but goshhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, im scared.

[NicksBride]

Get some balls!!!! hahahahhaa

[Doglover]

i know for real!! Im just scared he;d think i was rude. But really he was rude. AGAIN i need to stand up and start saying how i feel but im a loser.

[NicksBride]

its all in how you phrase it.

[Doglover]

Okay, we seriously are not getting treated good by our realtor. She isn't treating us how my parents realtor treated them, and I think its cause we are so young. She basically told me last night that Evan was irresponsible bc she said the repair guy called Evan and she guesses Evan never called him back so he hasnt done any of the repairs yet so more then likley we won't be closing til Monday. But I even looked at Evans phone and he has NEVER called. So im pissed. She was like "i don't know who i should be calling to give info to,Evan doesn't seem to be getting the messages out...but i am going to give this info to you and im writing it down that i told YOU so there is not another misunterstanding" UMMMMMMMMM excuse me!!! Your realtor is supposed to be SOOOOOO respectful,even my mom was like WHATTTT!(just got her real estate lisence so KNOWS)

[NicksBride]

Wow it sounds like you guys are just getting the run around. Just think that very soon the papers will be signed, the keys will be in your hand and you guys can just go in there and decorate and make it yours. Our relator was helpful but they can be rather crotchy as my mom calls them., She has had some BAD ones.. They get really annoyed easily and it may be your age. But if you realy have a problem with her, complain to her company, there is no excuse, you are pAYING her, to do a service... I would be annoyed to. Hang in there!

[Doglover]

I wrote her an email saying i check Evans phone and that man never called so i didn't know what the deal was. But see i went to the house the other day and the bushes in the front were trimmed......so i donno who did that cause the owners are out of towners and aren't even going to be here for the closing.

[NicksBride]

how odd..... Maybe they did come up without your knowledge to make it nicer for you.. Who knows!

[Doglover]

sent her an email saying this:
Just letting you know I checked Evan's missed called and that guy/number has never called his phone....so I don't know what the deal is. Evan called his yesterday and left a message and is going to call him again this morning. But we went by the house and someone trimmed the bushes in the front....so I wonder who did that,but I didn't see any
other repairs done.

and this is exactly what she wrote:

don't know.

THATS SUPER NICE AND PROFESSIONAL RIGHT!! CONSIDERING WE JUST MADE HER A BUNCH OF MONEY!

[NicksBride]

oh that is crazy! It sounds like she needs an attitude adjustment. Just let it go, and go on with it. Just ignore her and let her have that attitude, you are getting the house and just need to deal with her a few more times. But geeez!

[Doglover]

yeah now since the deal is tied and shes made her money....she is treating us like ****. Come to think of it we had another realtor a year or so ago helping us. And my mom knew this lady and she was AWFUL. When i told her a house i wanted to see she would get us so lost and we'd drive around for an hour trying to find it. I mean she just did NOT treat us right. it sucks that cause we are young people do this.

[NicksBride]

Yea, it stinks. We had a pretty good one the second time around.But nick always dealt with them because he is 26 and I guess they take him more seriously because of his age.. But I have seen it!!!

[val24]

that sucks

pretty soon it will be yours.

We had one horrible relator and would never show us houses unless they were in a certain area. we were frustuated and finally gave up. we found a new one like 4 months later. Different experience between those two.

[Doglover]

Yeah our old realtor from a yr ago told us to drive by the houses we wanted to see before she showed us...apparently she didn't want to waste her precious time.

[val24]

even if you drive by them, you can not see the inside!!!

i know i could never work in the relator business. It is so hard to know if people are serious about buying or not. Plus where we live it is hard right now...there are so many houses for sale everywhere it is not funny.

[Doglover]

don't think i've ever posted this. Me getting my hair done on my wedding day.
http://a648.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/36/l_56dc5bad5c21325e454d0c7c799159c7.jpg (http://viewmorepics.myspace.com/index.cfm?fuseaction=viewImage&friendID=258103795&albumID=75963&imageID=182330)

[NicksBride]

hehe great picture of you, amazing how much work it takes to get to the look you want. Great hair helps. :)

[Doglover]

i got my hair cut off yesterday :) its SHORT! a little bit below my shoulder. donno how i feel about it and i don't have a pic yet. And i got tons of lowlights so its way darker blonde then it is up there.

[ger]

I'll bet it looks totally different than it used to. Can't wait to see the pics. There will be pics, right??? Begging here!!

[Doglover]

haha i will take one when i get home. I feel like a boy,lol. Im just not used to it yet. I wont be posting it until monday though cause we are off fridays now at work instead of monday. So i wont be back til then.

[NicksBride]

whoa, you got your haircut? I WANNA SEE!! I bet it looks great!

[Doglover]

YEAH its so short!

[NicksBride]

I am sure you look boo-tiful!

[mj512]

I've always had long hair, so after the wedding when I cut it off (which means just at the shoulder for me) I felt like a boy too, I always feel like that when I get a big haircut. I'm sure you look really cute though!!

[NicksBride]

Pictures lady, Pictures!!!