My Vent...Long

[LizabethDavis]

All right...I typed this once and it messed up on me, so let me try again...

Basically, in a nutshell. I don't like my neighbor.

She moved in this past spring. She was very flirty with FH and a major you-know-what to me. One of our old friends hooked up with her for a while (basically just for the sex), during which time I tolerated her. We hung out occasionally, but I was cautious all the same.

FH and I got into a fight and he was gone for over a week (the fight was NOT about her either). I didn't know where he was and really didn't care. He really didn't have anywhere to go and so, she let him stay with her one of those nights. Needless to say, things happened, which he now regrets.

We got back together and he told me about her and while I was kind of ticked that he didn't wait very long, I got over it...She however will not let it die.

This past Thursday, she started some ****. Her sister's boyfriend called our house and talked to FH and told him that if he didn't take something over to Heather's soon, she was going to start trouble. Nobody knew what he was talking about. Then, someone from Heather's brother's boyfriend cell phone called, I picked up and got hung up on. They called back later, but I was on the phone and didn't answer. She had apparently come over earlier that day as well, but FH didn't answer (that was verified with my daughter) the door.

Well, then Friday, he calls me at work to tell me that she had called and tried to come over (he didn't answer the phone or the door) and I had just barely got to work. I called her back finally around 9:15 and said, "What do you want from us Heather?" She tried to tell me that Pat owes her. She claims that they had an agreement that if she slept with him, he would give her a prescription for Ritilan (sp?). This is not possible for a couple of reasons. One, he does not have a prescription for those or anything for that matter. Two, my brother and daughter are ALWAYS at my house with Pat. Neither one have mentioned that he disappears over to her house. Three, I call there quite a bit to make sure that he feeds my daughter and all of that....he always answers...hard to do when you are next door huh?

So, anyways, I tell Heather that I am on my way home and we are going to settle this whole mess. When I get home, I go inside to talk to FH first. Three minutes after I walk in, Heather's sister calls me ~ she knew I was home~ basically to distract me ~ while Heather goes out, starts her Tracker, gets her kids ready and takes off before we can get over there...Hasn't been seen since. Don't you think if she wanted it, she would have talked..exactly, because it never happened and she knew I would probably pound her for trying to start stuff.

So, here it is Monday afternoon. She knows that I have been at work and she has not tried to contact FH once today. Hmmmm...wonder why. All a load of BS.

Why are people like this? I'll tell you why she is like this. She's mad because she just got divorced from a guy who cheated on her and the only relationships she has had since then are guys who want nothing more then sex from her. So, if she can't be happy, neither can we I guess.

I'm sorry you guys, but this girl is really bugging me and I needed someone to vent to. I can't understand why anyone would admit to trading their body for pills....

We are trying to get in the position to move, but until then...guess I have to deal with the HO HO HO Merry Christmas!!

Thanks for listening.

[CindySue]

Sorry about your situation. I hope everything works out.

[LaceyinPgh]

The best thing that you can do is to just ignore her. She doesn't sound like a stable individual to begin with. Don't answer the door when she knocks, don't answer the phone when she calls, don't wave to her as you are walking to your car. Hopefully she will get bored and just ignore you right back. I have a pain in th ebutt neighbor too, that is the approach that he and I take to each other. Now, if she does come over and refuses to leave, continues to call, or says threatening things to you, file a police report. Make sure you don't erase any phone messages or your caller id. If there is any damage done to your home or cars file a report on that and explain the situation to the officer. By all means if she says anything to you daughter, file a report and get a protective order immediately. Other than that, just act like a stable adult in the situation. Ignore her, don't let her push your buttons, pretend she isn't there, ect. It will all work out in the end.

[usahgrad]

I'm sorry you're having problems with your neighbor. I'm having problems with our neighbors too...fortunately not to that extent, but they are driving me nuts. I'd really like to either (a) move or (b) buy the house we're living in so we can kick them out for violation of the parking clause in our lease. GRRRRRRR!!! I know how you feel though. They used to live upstairs, where we live now, so they know we can hear when people are on our porch. They'll walk up onto our porch when they know I'm home alone. Their bedroom is under our guest bedroom and we can't have guests over anymore because they make so much noise. The best part was that they wrote DIE! in the snow on both of our windshields last Friday morning. I don't understand what the heck is wrong with people in general. I'm right there with you...especially when it comes to neighbors...why wouldn't you want a GOOD relationship with your neighbors? I mean, after all, you see these people every day! GRRRR!!!!!!!!!!:censored: :censored: :censored: :censored:

[bnd94]

That really sucks! How soon are you going to be able to move? Hopefully real soon! Sorry to hear you have to deal with this :censored: