Worst wedding day fear?

[kevinsbride2B]

What is your worst fear or what are you affraid of either happening or not happening on your wedding day?

[nic1124]

My biggest fear is fainting at the altar. :bbeek:

[shawnsgirl]

My biggest fear is just not having everything done right now!!!

[Nekochanpurr]

Not having enough money! Ack..

[Emerald]

Actually I have 3:

1. Finding out that my sweetheart changed his mind about marrying me. (knock on wood)
2. Being videotaped/photographed while looking terrible or making a weird face.
3. Getting a visible, big (non-removable) stain on the dress before I even get a chance to make pics and/or before my sweetheart has a chance to see me.

[woohoo2me]

What is your worst fear or what are you affraid of either happening or not happening on your wedding day?

changing my mind about getting married. it could happen im very impolsive and one thing doesnt go the way i want it i take a fit and decide just to stop what i was doing lol. also im have serious social anxiety so im prolly gonna have to get a tad bit smammered even before i walk down the aisle. lol.

[jeni740]

I guess getting sick from nerves as I walk down the aisle, Andy is the same way he is pretty much guaranteed to toss a cookie or two

[neebelung]

My biggest fear would be for anyone (family, friend, etc...) to have anything less than a HUGELY fun time. I don't want anyone to want for anything, to think to themselves, "Oh, they should have done this instead...." or to feel that anything is lacking. I just want it to all be fun, festive and relaxed...

[ger]

My biggest fear would be for anyone (family, friend, etc...) to have anything less than a HUGELY fun time. I don't want anyone to want for anything, to think to themselves, "Oh, they should have done this instead...." or to feel that anything is lacking. I just want it to all be fun, festive and relaxed...

This is exactly how I feel. I am quite certain about my FH's and my feelings. But I am so worried that people will be bored!!

[mrasaki]

I'm afraid that no one will show up.

I'm also afraid that the decorations and everything will look cheap and tacky. (My wedding is very DIY.)

*crosses fingers*

[NicksBride]

My biggest fear was that my flowers wouldn't arrive.. Or that it was going to snow so my family couldn't travel.....

[Nik54545]

My parents in the same room with an open bar...I'm petrified that I will cry on my wedding day because they are children...

[october6]

my fear is that my mom will not have the money for her half of the food. We will not have the money for are honeymoon

[WebLady]

I use to have nightmares that he would change his mind; and that my mother would do something to upset or embarrass me.

[2xsacharm]

I'm not known for my grace, so my biggest fear is that I will trip over my own feet and fall flat on my face.

[katieandalex]

My only fear when I was getting married was that no one would know where they needed to be and it would be total chaos. So I was overly organized in the coming days to my wedding, so everything turned out fine.

[lize566]

My only fear when I was getting married was that no one would know where they needed to be and it would be total chaos. So I was overly organized in the coming days to my wedding, so everything turned out fine.

Yeah I think this is pretty high up on my list too. I am also a little worried about the church being crowded (we have invited like 185 people and the church holds right at 192). I am also worried about the music-my cousin is supposed to play his saxophone, but I can't find the musc to the songs I want him to play, so I worry that I won't like the songs he plays, but that is going to be decided before the ceremony, so hopefully I can stop worry about that sooner rather than later!

[shelbyoliver]

My Fh's mother is diabetic so that she will go into shock at the reception. She isnt quite well and she doesnt know when to stop eating.

[CHWedding]

Crying to much and messing up my makeup
bad weather

And my #1 fear are the pictures. I hate taking pictures but I of course will have to put my fears to the side and take pictures. I just hope they come out good.

[soon2bMrsCage]

I am scared that my makeup will look too dark or too light and I will have a bad hair day!!

[craigsbride0630]

My biggest fear is that I'll trip while I'm walking down the aisle or step on my dress a weird way and tear it. I'm also afraid of having photos or videos that make me look fat, I'm kind of sensitive about photos I've seen and I want them to look amazing so my kids can look back and say how beautiful their mom looked on her wedding day. :D

[maga80]

i thought i was going to fall down the stairs. but i had my dad hold my bouquet and with one had i held on to him and the other i held on to the banister and i made it to the front unscathed! =)

[samantha01]

My fears are similar to a previous one...that my decorations will look tacky. I want to plan a nice elegant wedding but on a low budget. I worry that I won't be able to decorate the huge lodge to make it look nice.
I also fear the I will fall down the hill I have to walk down.

[4424]

i was being walked down the aisle by both my mom and dad. my ceremony was on the beach and i had to go up stairs to be on top of the rocks looking down at everyone. the fear i had was going down the stairs with my arms being held by my parents and noone holding my dress. it was miraculous i didnt fall!

[Dani]

We are getting married in May '08 in Vagas (outside). I don't do well in the heat AT ALL. So I guess, my worst fear would be to throw up and then pass out.

[Panthers Bride]

I have two fears.
One: We're going to Atlanta the week before the wedding with some of our Canadian friends (for a football game). I'm just worried we'll meet some jerk fan and one of us will end up in jail or something. (Seriously, I'm almost afraid to wear my jersey there).

Two: I KNOW I'm going to be tearing up/crying throughout the whole thing. I can't get through a regular church service without tearing up. Once I hear someone else start to cry, I'm a faucet (FH thinks this is hilarious btw). Once, I go, MOH will start and FH. Lots of tears at our wedding.

[allysa04]

My biggest fear is that my mom and FH's dad will be overly drunk (both are alcoholics)..we considered not having alcohol at the wedding at all...well that wont work because the country club has a bar where guests can purchase their own..so we opted on beer and wine only..im just praying that nothing goes wrong..My mom made an *** of herself at my HS graduation, and had to be escorted out because she was soooo drunk..she didn't even see me walk..so hopefully nothing like that will happen at my wedding..I have assigned my brother to be in charge of her! :(

[sassybride]

My worst fear is very similar to the previous poster. Only thing is My mother isn't invited. I worry that she'll find out when and where the wedding is and show up. This means I can't tell certain members of my family who still contact her all those details until last minute, AND swear them to secrecy.

[thinking_much]

My greatest fear is spending all our savings for the wedding and having no money left for our future.

[Nekochanpurr]

My worst fear is very similar to the previous poster. Only thing is My mother isn't invited. I worry that she'll find out when and where the wedding is and show up. This means I can't tell certain members of my family who still contact her all those details until last minute, AND swear them to secrecy.

Haha, i feel that fear too.. I'm scared if we use a UAW hall (my great uncle MIGHT be able to get us a discount..) my dad might find out >.<... Since hes a FORD worker, too..

[SerendipityCrafts]

I once went to a wedding where an adult child, of the groom had a total melt down during the ceremony. She was previously fine with her father marrying again but something must have just "snapped" in her that day. Needless to say, everyone's attention was focused on this lady. Many rushed to "console" her. Me? I felt badly for both the bride and the groom. I worried (for naught) that this might happen to us.

Although I had no basis to think so, I also worried that one of our ex's would do something to ruin our day.

[Amabilis]

Big biggest fear is that there will be some sort of a problem with my father and my mother/stepfather...
both sides can be pretty childish...

[kevinsbride2B]

Big biggest fear is that there will be some sort of a problem with my father and my mother/stepfather...
both sides can be pretty childish...
I fully hear you girl!!!!!!!!! My family can be the same way 100%!!! I have a Mom and her bf, my step dad and his wife and my biological dad and his wife. I told them all that they either behave or they can leave. 1 day in my whole life is all I'm asking for them to behave and just not fight. They don't even have to get along, they can choose not to talk to one another just no fighting!

[Amabilis]

I said the same... you guys can sit on opposite sides at the reception... and if you don't have anything nice to say to each other... just keep your mouth shut!! ;-)