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WebLady
04-04-2007, 04:44 PM
What would he do for you? Has your FH/DH ever done anything he wouldn't have normally done, just to be with you, impress you or make you happy? Could be something romantic, funny, etc ...

I can think of a few things ...

- DH went dancing with me once while we were dating, he sat and drank for most of the night. Then I asked him to dance with me, well he tried and looked quite silly, but I think it was cool that he tried because I asked him to. Haven't asked since though ;)

- When DH and I first started dating, I was on vacation from work and upset that I couldn't actually go anywhere. He decided to take us to Florida for the weekend :)

- DH started wearing different color jeans and got new sunglasses because I didn't like the ones he had ;)

- He bought me a washer and dryer for my first appt (we still have it too) so I wouldn't have to be out at the laundry matt alone.

- I was working late one night and got caught in traffic/road work on the way home. He and my mom both were paging me, all worried and such, but I had no way of getting in touch with anyone. The next weekend he got me a cell phone.

- More recently DH bought us a new bed because I didn't like the water bed, even though he loved it.

Callys_bride
04-04-2007, 04:53 PM
There are plenty of things my FH does for me that I love.

One of the smaller things is that he puts gum in my mouth for me or if I use the bathroom he knows what drink to order and appetizer.

He does all the manly things for me when I need help. Like when we were moving the vanity. It was me and him but he didnt want me to help he wanted to do it all by himself. He didnt want me to hurt myself. I never had a guy like that before.

He always takes pictures of me, when I am sleeping, in the shower, watching TV err wait that could be kind of stalkerish hahah just playing.

My guy is really sweet, he always takes care of anything electronics for me. Like computer not working to putting up the new plasma TV.

I LOVE HIM :jplove::wub:

cowboysbride
04-04-2007, 04:58 PM
OMG a chance to brag on Eric............I'll bite!

Eric is Perfect!

He kisses my preggo belly goodbye every morning when he leaves for work and tells our son to "take care of your mother, boy!"

He adores me and all my baby making "fatness"....he is constantly telling me how pretty he thinks I am now that I'm pregnant. I know he's just being nice, cuz 17 lbs of baby fat isn't exactly all in my belly if you KWIM!

He is buying us a new flat top stove for the new house (the one in it is FILTHY) and he doesn't want me cleaning it up.

He holds my hand while we walk together, at church, in the truck and even when we are sitting and watching TV...

I catch him looking at me and he just grins....

I love my husband and to me he is perfect!:ham:

Panthers Bride
04-04-2007, 05:25 PM
The most "perfect" thing Mark has done is be himself. I've never felt such unconditional love from someone before in my life. If I ever do something stupid, immature, or irresponsible (i.e. getting into the debt problem I'm in, and digging myself out of) he never belittles me or patronizes me. He allows me to "fix" my own problems, but is there to catch me if I slip.

On his weekdays off, he runs around doing errands I can't do. This includes going to the VW dealership in Winston to get my car worked on.

Funny: He went with me to a bridal shop in Boone to try on some dresses on a busy Saturday. There were all these women there talking about things that women talk about (boobs, periods, etc.) and he stood there holding my purse and taking the requisite pictures. He later told me he was embarrassed the whole time (his face was a bit red), but he did it for me. :D

He will stand up to his mom for me (or my dog) without me even asking, or sometimes even knowing. Thank goodness, that doesn't happen very often, (his mom is pretty great), but nice to know Mark has my back, in every situation.

He wanted to have his own apartment, since he's always had roommates. He decided to stay in his mom's house so that he can save the $$ for our wedding/house. Plus, he wanted to be able to see me. I think he also did it, because he knew how uncomfortable I would be in his mom's house without him there.

hummingbird521
04-04-2007, 05:26 PM
OH me to i love to brag on jerry.

shortly after starting to date he took me on our first vacation together to make up for his first and only strike against him. i had a 3 strike your out rule. lol

he always lets me sleep in and keeps the kids quiet when they are here.

he brings me coffee in bed most mornings.

he picks me flowers for no reason whatsoever except to say he loves me.

i only had to mention we needed a new larger closet and before he left last weekend he built me one.

he brought me home a new hummingbird feeder and bird feeder before leaving and sat my lawn chair and table just so so on our back porch so i could have my coffee there in the mornings.

now that he is gone to school away from home he calls me every morning before school to tell me he loves me and each night before he knows i have gone to sleep just to tell me goodnight and so his voice is the last one i hear before falling asleep.

ger
04-04-2007, 05:50 PM
Ahhhh. I think we must have the best guys in the world!! And, please...let me have my turn at bragging!

Bruce is the sweetest, most wonderful, take care of me man in the world. Just night before last, he gave me a neckrub, ran me a hot bath, and just generally took really good care of me when I got that blasted flu with the realllllly bad headache. I thought I was dying..and he just kept trying to make me feel better.

He cleaned the entire house yesterday while I was still sick. He even did a load of laundry. AND he took the garbage out.

The best part of the deal is...I don't even need to be sick for him to do these things. He does them quite often, even when I'm just working a lot of hours.

Another of the things that he is doing for me is being very involved in the wedding planning. My ex never was...should have been a sign to me. He has helped me with everything but my dress.

Yes, I'd say we have a bunch of really, really sweet men!!

rainbowtreat
04-04-2007, 07:04 PM
Nicholas is amazing

For starter he moved away from his family and freinds, all he has every known to be with me. He moved 13 hours away from evey one and does not regret it oen bit. It don't think anything else he does can top that.

He always does the cleaning, I am not a house keeper. I dont have a messy house but I tend tolet it go and do it all at once. He will do the grocery shopping and the cooking.

He told me when he moved up here that I didnt have to touch the dishes that he would do them as he knew how much I hate dishes.

He calls me from work every day and if he is too busy and it has been a while I will call him and we will just chat for a few mins. He will call me either at home or at work depending on his shcedule that night.

He makes sure he can go to eveyr doctors appt. with me. He has missed one and he was trying to get to that one with me but I told him not to worry as he wasnt missing anything imprtnant. But he loves hearing the babies heart beat.

He has taken every mood swing with a grain of salt. He knows I can help it and he just lets them blow over.

In the beginning of this pregnancy if I didnt knwo what I wanted to eat he would keep after me until I figured it out and he would go out and get it for me.

And did I mention he loves my kids as if they were his own. I could not ask for a better man.

Viajar
04-04-2007, 07:40 PM
He's a wonderful person and he displays it in so many ways on a daily basis. He's great all of the time so I can't really name a specific example. :bbmrgreen:

Caleb's Bride
04-05-2007, 08:18 AM
I guess the most important thing he's done for me and for us, is to be the only one in his family to ever move away from his hometown and his family and friends. And he did it for me.

He brings me flowers and makes candlelight dinners ocassionally and for no reason other than because he loves me

He calls me every day, just to tell me he loves me - even when I saw him that morning and will see him later that afternoon.

He drove to Memphis with me to visit my MOH so I wouldn't have to go all that way by myself. And he even had to take a day off of work to do so.

He loves to cook and loves to make nice dishes for dinner on weekends that we have off.

He helps out my mom and dad a great deal. He'll help my dad do some fix-up jobs around the house, help mow the grass, change oil and brake pads on cars and stuff like that. A handy man and someone that loves and wants to help my family is a big turn on. LOL!

I'm sure there are other things, but it's still early.

I will say, that it sounds like all of us ladies ended up with pretty great guys! We've been blessed. :)

Doglover
04-05-2007, 08:30 AM
Evan went out and bought me hair dye one time when i had totally screwed up my hair and couldn't go in public.

He has even DYED my hair before,lol.

He LOVES doing yard work and all that manly stuff.

He loves animals and lets me have lots of them which is a major PLUS.

He holds me in the night when I'm cold.

He has loved me since day one, even when I have been unsure in the past, he is never ever unsure. He knew he would marry me one day. Told me about a month or 2 after we started dating "Jen, you have to marry me some day." He would seriously so ANYTHING for me.

dearlyloved
04-05-2007, 11:01 AM
I love this!

Steve introduced me to organic food and taking vitamins and natural supplements to get healthier - when I met him I was SO sick. The doctor diagnosed me with an illness that is not treatable with medicine and takes months to get over - he went out and bought me everything I needed and nursed me back to health. It took only two weeks. My doctor was astounded.

Steve does my dishes every night, laundry, takes the trash out and helps me clean on Saturdays

Steve drove through a blizzard in February to get my sister roses for Valentine's Day because she is going through a divorce and he didn't want her to feel left out

He prays for me all the time

I'll hear him on the phone talking to his mom (when he doesn't know I'm listening) and he tells her how special and wonderful I am and how much he loves me

When we are watching TV, sometimes I catch him looking at me and when I ask him what he's looking at he says, "The most beautiful woman in the world"

He's taken me on surprise shopping sprees and will tell me, "buy whatever you want"

When my brother-in-law tried to kill my sister, he drove all the way to her house, risked his life and went in and got her.

Bradsgirl
04-05-2007, 11:28 AM
Oh, my turn...I won't pass a bragging opportuntity
Brad is the BEST!!!

Just last week he told me I worked too hard, to take a month off work, figure out what I want to do for school, relax, and enjoy myself. He said I will handle all financial obligations you have, work as much as I have to but you need a break. (As much aas I would love to do that I can't...but the offer ment the most)

He let us get a dog event hough he didn't want one and siad if we get one it is going to be a small one...a month later we found 55lb Bucca.
And not only did he let us get her...he LOVES that girl as much as I do.

He speaks "Our" language

He cooks...and very well

When working at the bar is hit on all the time and offered things I probabley would've ever imagined..He always says Thank you but I'm going home to my girlfriend.

He will cuddle on the couch with me, and lets me fall asleep everytime, but will wake me up to go into bed.

Gets me little surprises...last week when he went to pick up a few things from the grocery store he came back with "break and bake" choc. chip cookies and pickles...2 of my faves (but not together)

I just LOVE him...we are all so lucky!!!
And I like this thread...alot!:laugh:

Diamend
04-05-2007, 01:38 PM
I love getting the chance to brag on my Italian man!!
Tony is soo amazing, I thank God for him everyday.

First and foremost, he is the one that led me to the Lord and I was saved!
He opens doors for me, orders for me, holds my hand always.
He makes sure I always feel like he is paying attention to me, especially if we are out or with a group of friends.

He cooks me breakfast in bed some mornings, brings me chocolate to the office just because! And those once and again bouquets!

He took dancing lessons with me! He constantly tells me how beautiful I am to him, he lifts me up!

I have been recovering from surgery for 3 months, and he has changed my bandage everyday. Helped me get dressed, puts on my socks and shoes.

Cooks me dinner almost everyday; makes my lunch the night before.

He is so amazing!! He will soon be my husband and he is my spiritual leader- he keeps me focused on our Lord. He prays with me every morning before work and everynight before bed. He holds my hand when we pray. He prays for me daily.

shawnsgirl
04-06-2007, 09:53 AM
FH does things all the time, usually it's the smallest things he does tht makes my heart melt.

Every night as we fall asleep he always runs his fingers over my forehead and thru my hair until I fall asleep. I just melt everytime he does that.

I love it when he cooks supper for me. He ecspecially does it when I have had a long day.

I always love those little phone calls at work. He will call usually at least once a day just to say hi, ask how my day is going, and tell me he loves me.

One big thing he does is at mothers day! He always includes the boys and makes a huge day out of it for me.

I think one of the nicest things he did was his proposal. He planned it for months and put so much into it. I was completely surprised and in shock. He made me feel so special and loved!

jeni740
04-06-2007, 10:03 AM
What would he do for you? Has your FH/DH ever done anything he wouldn't have normally done, just to be with you, impress you or make you happy? Could be something romantic, funny, etc ...


Andy is a marine so he is a little bit of a hard exterior person kinda like me:)

Andy is a painfully shy person, but he makes an effort to go with me to family functions(which I know some of you are so lucky just to have your DH/FH just always go willingly to these things) sometimes he is able to go and sometimes he just can't and I am always so greatful for when he does go.

Andy has a way to make me laugh all the time, he knows when I have had a bad day at work or just got off the phone with my mom and can just perk me up with the stupidest things.

The one thing I am very impressed by is he is able to go through this wedding with me with alot of people and he is actually talking about it now. He always said from day one if we ever get married we will not have a wedding just a courthouse one, and that bothered me alot, but he is really trying to make this special for us :) I just love him so much

StaceyMc
04-06-2007, 10:25 AM
Joe has always been sweet to me and to my family.

I love when I come home to a vase of flowers on the kitchen counter or the living room table. There was a vase there when I got home yesterday.

When he traveled for work a lot, he'd text message me silly messages. One was "Roses are red, dogs are hairy, you are the one I want to marry." (He has a goofy sense of humor) That was even before we were engaged.

He sings "You are my sunshine, my only sunshine..." to me.

He cooks dinner, takes out the trash, helps with laundry and cleaning - he does whatever needs done.

His love for my family absolutely melts my heart. He's working on a toy box for my nephew's (well...our nephew's) first birthday. He's having a grand time with the router and bits and all the other boys toys, but I know that he's doing it because he loves Ty.

I just love that he is there when I go to sleep and when I wake up - no matter how loud he's snoring :)

sjk1431
04-06-2007, 10:49 AM
Sounds like we all have some awesome men :wub:

Thomas is a sweet goofy loving man.

He buys me flowers for no reason he says it's just because he loves me.

He helps me with all the housework.

He puts up with my family even when they are being a pain.

He's just as involved in the wedding planning as I am.

Before he proposed he called all my parents (Dad, mom, step dad and step mom) to ask and make sure it was ok with all of them. He planned the day for months and picked the ring out on his own. He had a personalized box made just for it.

He knew I wanted a puppy and for my birthday drove 2 hours each way to go get me one.

There's so many more things that are so great about him theres just a few :bbmrgreen:

katieandalex
04-07-2007, 12:28 AM
My husband hasn't done much lately on those lines. But when we were just dating and he went off to college, he drove home every weekend to see me, which was a 4 hour drive for him.

I wish he would do stuff like what you gals are saying more often, but he doesn't.

soon2bMrsCage
04-07-2007, 03:40 PM
My baby is the best...

When we first moved in together we didn't have a washer and dryere. He knew I really wanted and needed them. When I was packing he told me he had a surprise for me. Not only did he buy me a set, but he bought me the Whirlpool Deut set! It was the ones I wanted!

He always makes a big deal out of holidays. He plans lots of surprises. Last year for my birthday he sent me to the spa for full day of relaxation.

Even though he works and I stay home, he still gets up 2-3 days a week to get the kids ready for school so I can sleep in.

He brushes my hair out of my face ank kisses me on the forehead.

I have lots of back pain and he always rubs my back.

He puts up with my PMS!!!!!!

There are so many more things I could be here all day!! I feel like the luckiest woman in the worl to have such a great man!!!

septemberbride06
04-09-2007, 01:20 PM
Joe does alot of things that are special but to name a few:

* when we first started dating he used to invite me to his house and instead of listening to the radio he had pre-recorded songs already made, and played AND SANG to me!

* This may sound a little gross but it was special to me considering most guys wouldn't even consider doing it...when I was pregnant and sick (yeah, we'll call it that) he would hold my hair..lOl!

* For our anniversary this year he told me he's getting me a new wedding set.

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