Hard to chew....not food related

[countrygirl]

I have to complain....agian. Sorry ladies.

I just saw pics from my former BF's wedding who got married about two weeks ago. It was really really hard to look at. It actually brought tears to my eyes that I wasn't a part of it, but my own decision, but by her doing, if that makes sense.

She had six bm's (including the MOH) and I have no idea who any of them are. We had bee friends for 16 years before our 'falling out' and you would think that I would know some of them. Esp since it was w in the last year that we 'separated'. It was like looking at someones pics that I have never met before.

I don't know if this sounds bitter, but it just really really got to me.

[70707Bride]

She made that many "good" new friends that quick?

[countrygirl]

That was one of my first thoughts. I know that she made 'quick' friends from his group, but I didn't realize that she made good friends. At least not as good as would be in her wedding.

[70707Bride]

That was one of my first thoughts. I know that she made 'quick' friends from his group, but I didn't realize that she made good friends. At least not as good as would be in her wedding.

How long ago was your "falling out"?

[woohoo2me]

aww im sorry to hear that hun :hug: i would feel a little upset too. hope your emotional wounds heal. "kiss" (that's to help make them feel better.)

[WebLady]

I am sorry about your friend (how did you see her pics anyway?) I would probably be a little bothered too.

But don't let it get to you, if she doesn't want to be your friend for whatever reasons then it is probably for the best anyway ... you don't need drama in your life.

If it makes you feel any better, a friend of mine (we became friends after her wedding, I was her photographer) had only two BM's but she wasn't really that good of friends with either of them. One was her SIL which she just tolerates and the other was a 'sometimey' friend that she doesn't speak to anymore.

[NicksBride]

I understand how you are feeling, that has happened to me as well. BUt you have to know that you made the decision for you, you felt that something happened and you didn't want to be a part of it, right now it is hard to chew, but later on when you know you made the right decision it will be easier. Just try not to dwell on it like I did because it will be really hard. Hang in there hun!!

[SaralovesMike]

I totally understand where you're coming from with this one! A couple years ago I had a falling out with someone I considered my best friend. She got married a couple years ago when I saw a couple pictures it really made me sad for a multitude of reasons. Now with my own wedding I am reliving some of those feelings again. I don't regret what happened with us now although even after almost 5 years it's still hard sometimes.
Like the others have said, try not to dwell on it. Easier said than done right!

Hang in there! :hug:

[Goin2thechapel]

i think being women, we are totally drawn to others lives, etc. Especially when it's someone we know. This was a huge step in her life and you were curious. I think peeking at her pics we're just fine. I also think how you're feeling is absolutely normal as well. We're only human. Sorry that you're feeling crappy though....Here's a big hug from me to you :)

[shawnsgirl]

I'm sorry...I think you have been given some great advice. It sounds though as much as it hurts you are probably are and have been better off without having her as a close friend.