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usahgrad
11-28-2005, 09:22 AM
However, no matter how close we are, with the wedding plans, there are times when she DRIVES ME CRAZY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! She doesn't have a creative bone in her body and she admits that, but when I suggest something we could do, she'll shoot it down for one reason or another.

THEN, yesterday we were out looking at hotels, trying to figure out which one we were going to reserve a block at for the family coming from out of town (had we had more family, I would have reserved at more than one, but I don't, so we had to narrow it down to just one). Anyways, she brings up the fact that my aunt (who has been removed from wedding planning due to her pushy nature and inability to let me plan my own wedding) stays at the Hampton Inn and because she's going to stay there, we should get a block there. Well, Hampton Inn, while it is very nice, does not have any suites and I wanted to get a suite for the bridesmaids to get ready in. We have seven total, plus whatever entourage they may incur. The Hampton suggested a Handicap room, but there would be no guarantee that we would get to actually have a Handicap room due to the fact that they, naturally, go to handicapped people. Makes sense...

Anyways, I wanted to have everyone in the same hotel, so I was thinking the Marriot Courtyard (EVERY big event, my family stays in Marriot, so it kind of makes sense). Well, the price doesn't include breakfast, but we can work it out so that the price we tell people does include breakfast. This doesn't make sense to my mother and she keeps saying some people won't want to stay here if breakfast isn't included...especially your aunt.

Not moments later, she'll make some comment about how my aunt's opinion doesn't matter and my mother is so sick of my aunt sticking her nose in everything. I swear my mother has multiple personalities!

Sorry, just wanted to vent.

LaceyinPgh
11-28-2005, 09:32 AM
I have that mother too...similiar dates, same dress, annoying mother...are we twins? Just take it for what it is worth, nothing. It is easier to let her have her say then just go and do what YOU want to anyway. You are going to hear about it regardless, but this way you don't waste your energy arguing with her about it first.
If it is that big of a deal for your aunt to have breakfast, leave a box of cornflakes and a pint of milk in her room.

usahgrad
11-28-2005, 09:33 AM
hehe...we definitely could be twins...but I said oatmeal...lol!

CindySue
11-28-2005, 12:45 PM
Wanna hear something scary? The ONLY person NOT getting on my nerves right now is my FMiL. Shes actually on my side.....like you would think EVERYONE should be.

usahgrad
11-28-2005, 01:29 PM
I shouldn't let my FMiL get on my nerves...she means well. BUT she tends to take over things and that gets on my nerves a bit. I don't show it and we get along quite well aside from the moments when I would like to tell her to stop...but it's not too bad.

The person who really got on my nerves so far (I can stand my mother and my FMiL) is my aunt! She came down for one weekend and insisted that I change basically everything! Then, when she wasn't changing my plans, she was planning her daughter's wedding...her daughter doesn't even have a boyfriend! ARGH!!!!!!!! She drives me crazy! First it was the wording of the invitations, then it was the invitation, then it was the fact that I didn't have my dress yet (seven months before the wedding!) and that I wanted red velvet, but a wedding cake should be white...yada yada yada yada yada...I wanted to rip her head off!

CindySue
11-28-2005, 02:28 PM
I wonder if its these people that turn brides into Bridezillas.

usahgrad
11-28-2005, 03:07 PM
I know it is for certain these people that make brides bridezillas! :)