Getting to Know Member: BRIANSBRIDE07 #6

[WhiskeyGirl]

Alright ladies, our other lady in the other hot seat is Christina!! :D

[hummingbird521]

If you could go back in time and live in any time ear which would you choose and why?

[hummingbird521]

Describe your dream house and location?

[jeni740]

Do you like living in NY?

[Jenn060306]

If you could meet anyone dead or alive who would it be and why?


Describe yourself in one word.

[jeni740]

If you won the lottery what would you do with the money??

[ger]

Describe your dream vacation

[BriansBride07]

If you could go back in time and live in any time ear which would you choose and why?

Hnmmm this is a hard one for me b/c I really don't like any of the times before this one. But I guess I would chose the 70's just b/c that is when alot of the people were mostly about being free and loving life. W/Out all the drug use though LOL I wouldn't do that part.

[BriansBride07]

Describe your dream house and location?

My dream house would be a ranch style house with a basement all refinished. A huge kitchen, dining room 4 bdrms. With a huge yard and a lake on the side that is stocked with fish. A beautiful scenary with the mountains.

[BriansBride07]

Do you like living in NY?

I do love living in NY but maybe it's b/c I cannot remember when I lived in TN and in Kentucky, I was 2 when we moved from Kentucky and have been living in NY ever since. I don't travel so I really don't want to go anywhere else.

[BriansBride07]

If you could meet anyone dead or alive who would it be and why?


Describe yourself in one word.

I would love to meet my grandparents parents, they passed away before I was born. They had alot of history behind the way they came to America and I would just love to hear there stories.

In one word ok that's hard but I would have to say SHY

[BriansBride07]

If you won the lottery what would you do with the money??

I would buy my family my dream home and a new car, then I would put some in FH IRA, and the rest in savings for the kids for when they got older.

[BriansBride07]

Describe your dream vacation

LOL I guess to some it wouldn't be a dream vacation but to me it is. And if I ever do it, it will be a miracle LOL..... But I would love to go to PA and go to POCONO'S (sp) and enjoy the honeymoon suite. But b/c I cannot travel long distances that will probably never happen. :(

[WebLady]

Has there ever been an event or moment in your life (besides having children) that changed your life and/or your views on something?

[WhiskeyGirl]

Why can't you travel long distances? (if it's too personal, skip my question, Sweetie. :D)

[BriansBride07]

Has there ever been an event or moment in your life (besides having children) that changed your life and/or your views on something?

Yes there was when I had my stroke when I was 25 yrs. old my children were very young and I was told that before my stroke that my hand problems were all in my head, even though my hands were turning black. Anyhow 3 mo. later I had my stroke thankfully I went to the hospital in time and I only had memory loss, tightness of my neck and shoulders, hardly any use of my hands and my speech was terrible for about a month. The only lasting effects from my stroke sadly is memory loss. I have to depend on others and my children's baby books for most of their 2 yrs. of life as I cannot remember anything but bits and pieces from that time. And today I have a very short memory span on alot of things. But I am alive and well.

It has made me and Brian's relationship stronger seeing as a stroke can go either way and he was by my side during the whole thing. My children had to learn at a young age that at times thier mom was not able to bathe them, hold them for long periods of times ect. because of the lack of strength that I had, and the fact that they had to have another family member while thier father was working to help me do daily chores. I will stop now lol.... long winded sorry.

[BriansBride07]

Why can't you travel long distances? (if it's too personal, skip my question, Sweetie. :D)

It's not to personal lol it is fine. First off I have severe anxiety when it comes to being on a plane and I refuse to take medication for it, b/c my gram was a pill popper and I hate med's to this day watching her do this to herself.
Also I have a very bad back I have 3 ruptured disc's and my tailbone and my pelvic bone dislocate. At times it is only from getting out of bed and I am disabled for short to long periods of times. I can usually only sit in a vehicle for a little over an hour and it is touch and go on wether I will be able to get out of the vehicle with no pain or alot of pain. So I opt to just stay around home. I do wish though that I could have surgory to fix my back but that is not possible. B/c The disc's that are ruptured they are just above my tailbone and the surgory is only a 15-20% chance that it will fix my problem or I may be crippled and that is not a good enough chance for me to go under the knife.

[mariaandmanish]

If a Genie said to you that you had one wish to use, but it had to be only for yourself, what would you wish for and why?

[ladymelissa]

What is your normal day like?

[BriansBride07]

If a Genie said to you that you had one wish to use, but it had to be only for yourself, what would you wish for and why?

I would wish that the Genie could take away all of my anxiety with my wish. SO I can live a more normal life at times and not worry about everything. My anxiety runs my life at times and it keeps me from doing alot of things. Unless i'm having a good day.

[BriansBride07]

What is your normal day like?

Actually it is very boring lol....

I wake up at around 6:45 on the weekdays. Get my son's hair ready and out the door he goes. I wake up my daughter at 7:00 am. she gets ready for school and out the door by 8:00 am. after she leaves depending on the day of the week I either shower and go and clean someone's house, for extra $ or I sit on my arse lol. and watch a bit of tv or check my email. I then clean the house straight through, shower and then run any errrands I have to do. The kids get home btw. 2:30 for my son and 3:30 for my daughter we talk a bit about their day and then they are straight onto their homework. I start supper at 4:00 and we usually eat about 5:00, My FH usually gets home around 5-6 we eat and I clean any messes around the house whenever needed. I can't help it im a clean freak. lol. At night we usually just watch tv with the kids maybe play a game and I help them whenever they need the help with their homework. Bed time for me is usually about 11 pm. and then it all starts over again. On the weekends we usually spend the time btw. my parents and my FH parents by going and visiting them. wow very boring here. Add or take away for the day of the week it is. But this is the norm. Sometimes it gets a little crazy depending on what is going on for that week.

[WebLady]

Is there something that you have always wanted to do just haven't gotten the opportunity to do?

[WebLady]

What do you want or hope to do with your life when you retire?

[BriansBride07]

Is there something that you have always wanted to do just haven't gotten the opportunity to do?

Yes, travel well for obvious reasons posted above that may never happen.

[BriansBride07]

What do you want or hope to do with your life when you retire?

Ummm... ok this is hard I never think that far ahead lol.. let's see. I would love to have my dream home or something close to it. Still be able to walk and not be in a wheelchair, spend time with my then DH and watch my grandchildren grow up if my children decide to have any.

[Valmai]

Do you have a large family? ie siblings, cousins etc

[lea m]

What are your best qualities??

[designdiva]

what's your fav flavor of ice cream?

[ladymelissa]

What are your pet peeves?

[BriansBride07]

Do you have a large family? ie siblings, cousins etc

Kinda I have 1 sister and a half brother and sister. ALthough my mom came from a family of 6 children so I have bunches of cousins. My dad's (real) side is not so very big.



What are your best qualities??

My kindness, caring of others, I am a great listener.



what's your fav flavor of ice cream?

Mint Choc. Chip.



What are your pet peeves?

I have bunches, one is everything in it's spot, cleanlessness, toliet paper roll being on the wrong way, microwave not showing the time. I could go on forever lol.

[LizabethDavis]

What does a normal day off from work consist of?

[WebLady]

What frustrates or upsets you the most?

[ladymelissa]

If you were an Olympic medalist which sport would it be in?

Do you chew gum? What is your favorite flavor and/or brand?

[MOB Karen]

Most embarrassing moment?

Have you ever met a famous person? Who?

What countries have you visited?

Which do you prefer, sunrise or sunsets?

What do you do on Sundays?

How tall are you?

What's something you do well?

What would be your motto to live by?

[BriansBride07]

What does a normal day off from work consist of?

I don't work so it is the same as my normal day.

[BriansBride07]

What frustrates or upsets you the most?

Frustrates me the most is the fact that some people can be so ignorant. Also what upsets me is the fact that some people cannot take the time out of thier busy life style to help another person even if it is only a family member living with them.

[BriansBride07]

If you were an Olympic medalist which sport would it be in?

Do you chew gum? What is your favorite flavor and/or brand?

I would love to be in Gymnastics like I was when I was a child. I used to be very flexible.

Yes I love gum and my favorited kind is Dentine Ice Peppermint.

[BriansBride07]

Most embarrassing moment?

Have you ever met a famous person? Who?

What countries have you visited?

Which do you prefer, sunrise or sunsets?

What do you do on Sundays?

How tall are you?

What's something you do well?

What would be your motto to live by?

WOW this is one of the hardest yet most embarrasing moment, When I was 17 and driving to a friends house one night it was on a back road I was already scared lol... Anyway one house had some scarecrows in the yard and I convinced myself that their was people chasing after my car and I ran a stop sign. I almost caused an accident with a COP being on of the cars. I just sat in the middle of the intersection of the road and let everyone go by me I was so scared I didn't move the car. the cop flashed his lights and had me proceed forward when all was clear. I was crying and still driving and his lights were still on and I just kept driving finally I pulled over. He asked me what were you thinking. I told him my story he laughed so hard at me I was so embarrased at the time when he told me that I was getting a ticket and that it was just scarecrows in the man's yard. Oh well! a $80 ticket later and I learned my lesson.


No, I have never met a famous person but I would love to. I guess I would love to met maybe Oprah lol... She has been through so much in her life and I would just love a moment to talk to her.


Canada is the only country I have visited. When I was in Gradeschool and Highschool we used to go there and visit different places in Canada. LOL I don't travel at all. that's sad seeing as im 33 yrs. old.

Sunsets by far since I hate morning's and I am not a morning person at all.

On Sunday's I either go and spend some time with my grandfather in the nursing home, Run any errands that have to be done and we usually have a big dinner.

LOL I think I am short I am 5 ft 3 3/4 in.. LOL gotta get that 3/4 in in there.

Clean Lol... But besides that my caring demer for the elderly and children. I have a knack it. I have been told. Also I can do a few crafty thing's if I set my mind to it.

My motto to live by and something I try to do everytime I met someone new or old is to treat other's as I would like to be treated. at times it is very hard for me as I am a very judgemental person.

[ladymelissa]

Do you speak with any sort of accent? Which one?

[BriansBride07]

Do you speak with any sort of accent? Which one?

I don't think I do but other people have told me that I speak like a New Yorker. LOL....

[nic1124]

what is your favorite thing about Onewed?

[nic1124]

What large city are you closest to?

[Jopet]

What's your fav quote???

[BriansBride07]

what is your favorite thing about Onewed?

MY favorite thing about onewed would be the great advice from the other ladies and thier friendlyness towards others.

[BriansBride07]

What large city are you closest to?

Syracuse is only about 3 hours from me.

[BriansBride07]

What's your fav quote???

That which does not kill you makes you stronger. I love this quote and I think that it is so true and we should all live by it.