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jeni740
11-11-2006, 08:30 PM
I really dont mean to complain, but after a few drinks tonight what the heck I need to talk or I am going to blow. I dont understand what is going on this month, FH and I are not getting along so good, both cats are sick, we have problems with both cars, my nephew who is 18 months has to see a speech therapist, my other nephew who has VATER Syndrome has to have an enema every day of his life and the little guy always has a smile on his face the poor little guy is only 4yrs old, and my Brother In laws mom is dying of brain Cancer that was diagnosed 2 weeks ago, I dont get it, is this a test? Am I strong enough to pass? I just cant believe so much can happen to anyone in a month. Sorry to vent but like I said after a few drinks and alot of stress I need this. Poor FH today is his B-day and its like the whole day has just sucked.
theweddinghelper
11-11-2006, 09:05 PM
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You are going through a rough time! God never promised we wouldn't have rough times and heart aches, he just promised he would never put us through anything we couldn't handle. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers! I hope everything gets better very soon! (I hate hearing this myself but remember, there's always someone worse off than you!) That helps me too. Please feel free to Email me or PM me if u need someone 2 talk to!:)
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WebLady
11-11-2006, 09:11 PM
Sorry you are having such a rough time right now! :hug: I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers :flower:
WhiskeyGirl
11-12-2006, 12:26 AM
I completely understand where you are coming from, it sounds like your life is very much similar to mine! All I can say is that we just have to keep pushing on and pushing forward. It's like Christian said, God does not give us more then we can handle and it will all come together. The cats will get better; the car problems will get cleared up some how; your nephew is happy, don't feel sorry for him, he's enjoying life; speech therapy isn't too bad, my nephew who is four still doesn't talk and he's in a special school for his needs; it's unfortunate about your BIL's mom, it really is too bad and I want to offer my deepest condolences, just remember the good times and push through, God will be there through it all and it will all work out in the end. Take care.
jeni740
11-12-2006, 09:08 AM
Thank you for all your kind words and prayers, I am just beyond stressed right now the holidays are not helping, I know people have it worse off then me, I look at my sister with her kids and MIL and wonder how she handles it everyday Cameron has had 13 major surgeries since birth and will be having his next one in Cleveland July 5, it just sems so unfair sometimes, but like you said he is happy I sometimes just think about when he goes to school how mean kids can be, thats why he was held back from going this year. There are so many things that kid has done that has made me so proud he is even trying to teach his brother to talk, he said his first word that Cameron taught him a few weeks ago POOP LOL at least its a word. Thanks again for all the support, your friend Jen
SaralovesMike
11-12-2006, 10:13 AM
Sorry you're having such a rough time!
Try to keep positive and remember: "this too shall pass."
I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.:heart:
BriansBride07
11-12-2006, 11:24 AM
So sorry you are having so many bad things going on all at once. Just remember that you and your FH need each other the most at these times. I do believe that we are sent a bunch of stress at once at times to see how we will handle it. Keep a open communication with your FH and you will see that it is a little easier to get through together don't try and tackle it on your own it will just pull you and your FH further apart. I will keep you all in my thoughts and prayers.
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