Have you ever been equally in love with two people at the same time?

[MOB Karen]

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[MOB Karen]

No, I never had 2 at once. One was always more than enough for me.

[Kacie_bride]

No, can't say that I have. In high school I had crushes on two boys at the same time, but never in love.

[katieandalex]

When I was with my husband, just dating, I wouldn't say I was "in love" with him yet, but I had been with him for about 2 years, we were going through some rough times and I started falling for another guy at the same time...but never actually "in love" with 2 people at once.

[WebLady]

In love, no ... but once I was dating a guy and an old bf came back in the picture, I had some feelings for both of them. The one decided to hit on me, so that ended that pretty quick ;)

[nic1124]

I though I was a long time ago but now I realize I wasn't.

[BriansBride07]

Nope can't say I was. Unless you are talking about my kidlets then YES.

[FutureBride]

One guy at a time is enough for me.

[hummingbird521]

Never in love with two at the same time. In fact till now I never really knew what "true love" was.

[rainbowtreat]

I can say yes. And it was a hard thing to let one go. It was an awkward situation. They wre both long distance things. One alot futher then the other. The reason I ended it with one was because I did not want the long distance thing and one was willing to work with it and one just could not make it work so we were closer. I did love that man. But there was just no way it was going to work.

[LizabethDavis]

Yup, I have been. At one point, I thought I might not want to stay with my husband (when we were dating) because of this other guy. I found myself constantly thinking about him and wanting to be with him. He was an old love of mine. But, I realized I was being silly...in any event, it wouldn't have mattered. The "other" love of mine was killed in a car accident....I believe I told you all about it.

[SaralovesMike]

No, not love. Crushes maybe but definitely not love. One is more than enough for me!

[Trin]

Yes. FH wasnt one of the guys.. it was before we started dating with my ex and another guy.. it was the reason my ex and I broke up.

[cowboysbride]

Oh sure, I thought I was when I was younger but now that I know what love really is....no, can't say that I have been.

[SerendipityCrafts]

Yes and I couldn't make up my mind.

[Jenn060306]

No i've never been in love with more then one person at a time. Honestly i have only ever loved my husband. I have had crushes on other guys before. But nothing like how i feel for my DH.

[Craigs_Girl]

I can honestly say yes. My ex and my FH were the two that I was in love with at the same time. My ex (whom I was with at the time) was in England (military) and I couldn't handle the distance and he was pressuring me to move over there and get married but I wasn't ready for that. That is basically the reason I decided to end things with him. While FH was here (where I live) and I saw him everyday. I eventually moved out of state (to live with my dad) to get away from FH to think things through. It was the hardest decision I've ever had to make and I can honestly say I still love my ex but it's nothing like that love I feel for FH!!! :heart:

So I guess you could actually say that at the time I "thought" I was in love with both of them when I now realize that it wasn't true love I felt for both of them.

[Summerbmd]

I don't think I could say in love with 2 at the same time. But mine is similar to someone else's where me and my FH were going through a rough patch many years ago and I felt a strong connection with someone else, but I knew that would never be a good thing, because I did and always have loved my FH with all of the my heart. I think some of us just get caught up in the attention we get from outside parties sometimes.