Ladies, please...

[LizabethDavis]

Keep Patrick in your thoughts and prayers. I had to take him into jail yesterday morning because of his latest OAS charge. While I know he is in there because of his own doing, the people in there are being total jerks to him. The corrections officer (one particular one) wouldn't get him paperwork that he needed and said they didn't have it there. The LT. then went and got it after he asked them. More sadly though is of course how the inmates are treating him.

He was in the shower and someone stole his towel. As a result, he had to stand naked for 20 minutes while a FEMALE guard stood watching him and someone else went and got him a towel. His cellmates were holding the cell door shut when he tried to get into his cell. They are being just plain childish.

He obviously hates it in there. So, please keep him and me, as I am missing him terribly and start crying everytime I talk to him, in your thoughts.

[MOB Karen]

Oh, I'm sorry to hear about Patrick, Lizabeth!!! Of course, I will be keeping you guys in my thoughts and prayers!!! http://www.simply-baby.net/forum/images/smilies/praying.gif By the way, what's OAS?

[Mrs.B_08]

I am sorry to hear of this. I hope he gets out soon.....I know people can be so rude. I will pray for his safety and for him to be out soon!!

[hummingbird521]

So sorry to hear this. How long is he going to be there?

[LizabethDavis]

Thank you ladies. OAS is Operating After Suspension. He lost his license and got caught driving too many times. Which is his own fault, but it still sucks to have him in there.

He is only in there for 10 days, but it is still going to be the longest 10 days for both of us.

[Panthers Bride]

He is in my prayers.

[rainbowtreat]

I am thinking of and and praying for both of you.

[Kacie_bride]

I'm so sorry. That must be so awful for the both of you. I will keep you both in my prayers.

[ladymelissa]

Both of you are in my thoughts.

[BriansBride07]

So sorry, I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers. hopefully the cell mates will soon leave him alone if he holds his own.

[LizabethDavis]

Hey ladies. I'm not sure who here really cares, but I thought I would update you...Pat dislocated two of his toes on Tuesday and spent most of the day in the hospital because prisoners with bad toes aren't high on the priority list.

And then last night, because Pat didn't get to eat dinner because he was at the hospital, he was trying to find out when he could get his commensary (sp?) which is just basically his food...he asked one C.O. and they said they would check, but if he (Pat) saw the Sgt., to ask them in case he forgot. Well, the Sgt., showed up and the other inmate said in a very rude way, "Where the f*ck is my commensary?" and the Sgt., thought Pat was talking to him that way because the Sgt. didn't see who said it. Well, Pat said that it wasn't him. As soon as the Sgt. walked away the other inmate called him a rat and proceeded to get in Pat's face. Pat kind of nudged him away and told him to get out of his face...Well, long story short, the other guy punched him twice in the face...So, the guards had to write up that Pat was in a fight, even though Pat didn't start it and he didn't fight back except to try and block the guy. So, now his early release program may not come through, although the Sgt. said they would drop charges against Pat.

Sorry to bore everyone with details, but please, more then ever, keep Pat and I in your thoughts. I cannot bear to got more then the ten days without him.

Thanks ladies.

[Goin2thechapel]

Lizabeth...Sorry to hear all of this..

I just started working in a jail and I see first hand what some of the C.O's do to the inmates when people aren't around. It sucks, but they get away with it. Does Pat have a caseworker or is his sentence to short for one. They can usually help him with his day to day needs.

Until then I'll pray that everything turns out okay for you and your family.

[LizabethDavis]

I don't know if he has a caseworker, but we really should have gotten him a lawyer for this mess. Maybe then it wouldn't be happening to him. But, now, I don't think it would much matter. By the time we secured a lawyer, he would be released one way or the other.

[Kacie_bride]

I'm so sorry you are both having to go through this. I am praying for you.

[cowboysbride]

My dad is a corrections officer Lizabeth, he is 2nd in command and this **** doesn't go on in his jail. I am so sorry that Pat is having to deal with this kind of treatment..

I am praying for you both...

[LizabethDavis]

Thanks girls. His early release program approved him, but they didn't know about his write up for the fight, so now I have to wait and see what they say. The guy is going in to see him after lunch today. I'm a friggin' wreck right now and don't honestly know what I will do if I have to go more then ten days without him.

[hummingbird521]

Keeping my fingers crossed for you that he only has to be there for 10 days. I can't imagine what you are feeling. I don't know what I would do is my DH went away for 10 days.

[WhiskeyGirl]

Wishing you the best Lizabeth. I hope Pat returns home to you soon!

[BriansBride07]

Wishing you and Pat all the best that he won't have to stay any longer than 10 days. And soon this mess will be completly behind you. I will keep you both in my thoughts and prayers.

[4424]

wow that sounds awful. 10days away on business or something is 1 thing. but what he is going through sounds terrible. i hope it all works out and he is back at home asap

[tha_mrs]

I am sorry to hear all of this and I am keeping you both in my thoughts and prayers!

[Jenn060306]

Lizabeth, I am so sorry to hear this is happening to you guys. I wish you two the best of luck in your DH being able to come home soon.
Take care hun!

[WebLady]

Wow Lizabeth ... Sorry to hear you are having to go through all of this. You really should try to get a lawyer.

I hope it all works out for the best for you guys!

My sister's BF got like a month on jail for some mix up over his probation in another state from years ago. From what I heard he had a rough time in there too.

It is amazing to me that we have killers walking the streets but these minor offenders get locked up and treated badly.

Wishing the best for you :flower:

[Summerbmd]

I am so sorry as well. Both of you will be in my prayers.

[theweddinghelper]

That is horrible! I will continue to keep u both in my prayers!
I'm here for u in the mean time!

[LizabethDavis]

Thank you so much ladies....As if it couldn't get any worse, I just had to deliver the news that Pat's Uncle Art died last night in his sleep...

I guess when it rains, it pours around here.

[ladymelissa]

Thank you so much ladies....As if it couldn't get any worse, I just had to deliver the news that Pat's Uncle Art died last night in his sleep...

I guess when it rains, it pours around here.
I am so sorry to hear that. All of you are in my thoughts. Will Pat be able to attend services?

[Goin2thechapel]

Oh my goodness....Sorry hun...times like this are just not easy to deal with...Best of luck sweetie

[LizabethDavis]

I am so sorry to hear that. All of you are in my thoughts. Will Pat be able to attend services?

It depends on when the services are. So far, I haven't heard anything about them. If they are Monday or later, then yes, but I don't know what the chances of that are.

[WhiskeyGirl]

I'm so sorry Lizabeth! YOu are both still in my thoughts Hun!

[MOB Karen]

I'm so sorry, Lizabeth! I'm still praying for you guys too! http://www.paw-talk.net/forums/images/smilies/nov/pray.gif

[BriansBride07]

Wow so terrible it does seem that when it rains it pours. Hopefully they will let him out just long enough to say his final goodbyes to his uncle. I wish that this mess will end soon for you two.

[mrsliberty]

I'm so sorry to hear this... I hope things are going better now, and that his early release goes ok. It really does pour when it rains, at least in my life. Good luck and know we're all pulling for you.