Now I am nervous

[countrygirl]

SO, I have 10 days until I get married. I am so incredibly happy, and can't believe that in less than two weeks, I will be able to call J my husband. I am so excited.

But I am so nervous. I am not nervous about actually getting married, I am nervous about how everything will turn out. I cant seem to get the corsages right, and I don't have much time left to make them. I have all of the other flowers done, but the corsages are taking forever. I am nervous that the dresses will not be finished in time, nervous that I won't be able to pay for it all, and nervous that the whole day will flop.

I have an ENORMOUS swollen lip full of coldsores and J tells me that if I relax it will go away. I know he is trying to help, but now I am nervous that I will end up w a scab on my lip on the day of the wedding.

Ok, so, reading thru this now, I guess if this is all I have to be nervous about, then it's really not that much.

Wow, I am getting married.

[cowboysbride]

I am so incredibly happy, and can't believe that in less than two weeks, I will be able to call J my husband. I am so excited.

Those words...husband and wife will become the most melodious words to your ears...every time Eric calls me his wife my heart skips a beat and I get all warm and fuzzy feeling...being able to say "my husband" is the singlemost exciting phrase I know!

Congrats sweetie, relax....you'll be fine and it will all come together beautifully!

I have to do this ya know.........

OMG
HEATHER
IS GETTING MARRIED
..........AND SOON!

[countrygirl]

Those words...husband and wife will become the most melodious words to your ears...every time Eric calls me his wife my heart skips a beat and I get all warm and fuzzy feeling...being able to say "my husband" is the singlemost exciting phrase I know!

Congrats sweetie, relax....you'll be fine and it will all come together beautifully!

I have to do this ya know.........

OMG
HEATHER
IS GETTING MARRIED

..........AND SOON!

Ellen, I think you just brought the biggest smile to my face!! Thank you. I want to cry right now, that is how happy I am right now. I don't think I will be able to wear makeup during the ceremony. I will be crying the ENITRE time.

[cowboysbride]

If Josh is wearing a cowboy hat this is what I did....and it looked very romantic....

I couldn't look at Eric for very long without tearing up (into his eyes) so I stared at the brim of his hat and from time to time back at his cousin (GM) who was making faces at me to keep me from crying! You will be fine, adreniline will take over and you will be fine!

[countrygirl]

If Josh is wearing a cowboy hat this is what I did....and it looked very romantic....

I couldn't look at Eric for very long without tearing up (into his eyes) so I stared at the brim of his hat and from time to time back at his cousin (GM) who was making faces at me to keep me from crying! You will be fine, adreniline will take over and you will be fine!

Josh can't wear the hat in the church. But I will def have to center my sight on something. Of course, Josh will be making faces at me to make me laugh. He does that all the time. Like when we were taking the prep classes. At one pt, we were supposed to look at eachother and repeat a few things. He kept making little faces at me, or sticking his tongue out the side of his mouth just enough so that I could see it, and I would bust up.

Quite the character he is!!!

[septemberbride06]

If Josh is wearing a cowboy hat this is what I did....and it looked very romantic....

I couldn't look at Eric for very long without tearing up (into his eyes) so I stared at the brim of his hat and from time to time back at his cousin (GM) who was making faces at me to keep me from crying! You will be fine, adreniline will take over and you will be fine!

My best man did the same! Trust me...It works!:)

[Kacie_bride]

Heather it'll be fine. You'll be fine. No, it will be more than just fine, it will be wonderful and beautiful! It is going to be one of the most wonderful days of your life! Amber and Karen will be there!!! How exciting! I wish we could all be there! Now you are going to have to be telling me the same thing in a few weeks I'm sure. LOl! It's going to be great sweetie!!!

[countrygirl]

Heather it'll be fine. You'll be fine. No, it will be more than just fine, it will be wonderful and beautiful! It is going to be one of the most wonderful days of your life! Amber and Karen will be there!!! How exciting! I wish we could all be there! Now you are going to have to be telling me the same thing in a few weeks I'm sure. LOl! It's going to be great sweetie!!!

Thank Kacie, I am so happy that Karen and Amber are coming. I know that they really aren't the redneck type, but I am sure that they will have a blast. I will have to get Karen in a few shots w a cowboy hat on, and cute cowboy w her!!!!

And yes, I will be here for you too girly!!!

[Kacie_bride]

Thank Kacie, I am so happy that Karen and Amber are coming. I know that they really aren't the redneck type, but I am sure that they will have a blast. I will have to get Karen in a few shots w a cowboy hat on, and cute cowboy w her!!!!

And yes, I will be here for you too girly!!!

Oh gosh, I can just imagine Karen in a cowboy hat! You have to get her to dance too!!!!

[countrygirl]

Oh gosh, I can just imagine Karen in a cowboy hat! You have to get her to dance too!!!!

J will take anyone on the floor to dance.

I am making this promis right now. If Karen is at my wedding, the I WILL post a pic of her w a hat, a cowboy, and dancing!!!!

[ladymelissa]

It will be wonderful! I hope you are able to relax! :hug: That is so cool that Karen will be there!

[SerendipityCrafts]

Breathe .... remember? - in .... out ..... in ..... out ..... big breath in .... big breath out ..... in .... out ..... in ..... out (repeat as necessary).

If he can't wear a hat, pic out one specific eyebrow hair and stare at it. It will look like you are looking deep into his eyes :) LOL I think I picked out a freckle just about Hugh's eyebrow.

Get some cold sore stuff, try to relax (easier said than done I know), practice breathing (see above) and rely on your make up lady to do a wonderful job!

Everything is going to be beautiful, things are going to fall into place and you are going to look marrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrvelous darlin!

[countrygirl]

Breathe .... remember? - in .... out ..... in ..... out ..... big breath in .... big breath out ..... in .... out ..... in ..... out (repeat as necessary).

If he can't wear a hat, pic out one specific eyebrow hair and stare at it. It will look like you are looking deep into his eyes :) LOL I think I picked out a freckle just about Hugh's eyebrow.

Get some cold sore stuff, try to relax (easier said than done I know), practice breathing (see above) and rely on your make up lady to do a wonderful job!

Everything is going to be beautiful, things are going to fall into place and you are going to look marrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrvelous darlin!

You are too funny. I think I can find an eyebrow hair. That shouldn't be a prob at all.haha

[rainbowtreat]

From the sounds of it every has given you great advice. So I just want to say congrats on makign it this far. I am sure it wont be as bad as you think it is. It is goign to be the best day. I worried all the way to the hall wondering what was left behind, did they get every thing. But one there I didnt have a care in the world. I got dressed and was ready to go. You will see it will be perfect. And have fun!

[cowboysbride]

J will take anyone on the floor to dance.

I am making this promis right now. If Karen is at my wedding, the I WILL post a pic of her w a hat, a cowboy, and dancing!!!!


YAY! Karen dancing with a cowboy and wearing a hat!:cloppy: WOOHOO!

[cowboysbride]

Gwen is ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! You will not have a care in the world!


Remember what a basket case I was before the big day? Now tell me, did I look stressed to you on the big day?

http://i59.photobucket.com/albums/g287/cowboysbride/weddingandhoneymoonpics073.jpg


You will be fine! I promise!

[SerendipityCrafts]

Gwen is ABSOLUTELY RIGHT! You will not have a care in the world!


Remember what a basket case I was before the big day? Now tell me, did I look stressed to you on the big day?You will be fine! I promise!

LOL That pic is priceless and oh so true! I think you will find that J is the bundle of nerves on the actual day whereas you will be the picture of coooooooooool and collected.

BTW - The cointreau I had for breakfast, lunch and dinner helped a bit too :)

[countrygirl]

That's a great pic ellen!!!!

[Kacie_bride]

J will take anyone on the floor to dance.

I am making this promis right now. If Karen is at my wedding, the I WILL post a pic of her w a hat, a cowboy, and dancing!!!!

Oh goodie! I just have to see that!

[countrygirl]

LOL That pic is priceless and oh so true! I think you will find that J is the bundle of nerves on the actual day whereas you will be the picture of coooooooooool and collected.

BTW - The cointreau I had for breakfast, lunch and dinner helped a bit too :)

J already said tht he is going to have alittle visit w Jack before he heads down the isle. I think I will have to have one too.

He's funny. He says that he won't cry, but I just know that as soon as he sees me in my dress, he will. And when we are saying our vows, he will be a teary eyed as I will. My mother though, she will need a bib to keep her mascara off her dress.

OH OH OH, and his mom comes in on Sat. I can't wait to see her!!!!

[Goin2thechapel]

Heather, if it makes you feel any better,,,I have soo much stilll left to get done, and I just started my period :(

Lucky for me, it's before the wedding, but still I'm misserable and have sooooo much to do!!

Your stress will float away soon,,,,In about 10 days!!!! hehe

[countrygirl]

Heather, if it makes you feel any better,,,I have soo much stilll left to get done, and I just started my period :(

Lucky for me, it's before the wedding, but still I'm misserable and have sooooo much to do!!

Your stress will float away soon,,,,In about 10 days!!!! hehe

At least you won't be starting on your wedding day, which is supposed to be my day. I really don't want to start my marriage off on that note!!!

[Goin2thechapel]

At least you won't be starting on your wedding day, which is supposed to be my day. I really don't want to start my marriage off on that note!!!
hehe...I'd Like that...It would at least give me a reason to not have to....well you know what I'm getting at...hahahahaha

I'm gonna be tired!!

[countrygirl]

hehe...I'd Like that...It would at least give me a reason to not have to....well you know what I'm getting at...hahahahaha

I'm gonna be tired!!

Well, that is something that I WANT to do. I have made him wait for three weeks, and I can tell you that HE is going nuts.

[Goin2thechapel]

lol...Yea we tried that...Lasted about 2 weeks and we couldn't do it anymore :)

[countrygirl]

lol...Yea we tried that...Lasted about 2 weeks and we couldn't do it anymore :)

Well I will tell you, there were a few times where I ALMOST gave in, but I was a good girl. He tries to coax me constantly, but uh-uh-uh!!!! NOT YET!!

[theweddinghelper]

WOW!! I can't believe that your day is almost here!! I am here for u if u need n e thing! :) Good Luck!!!:whoohoo: That is great that Karen and Amber are comming, I wish I knew all of u One Wsisters when I got married!

[Valmai]

Oh God u sound so excited Heather - worry is normal after spending so darn long planning summat but im sure it will be fine - u will be gorgeous and most importantly Josh will become ur husband!!!! Good luck xxx

[hummingbird521]

I must say this "you are a better woman than I am". I couldn't hold out for that long no matter what. lol

[Jenn060306]

Hey Heather, This is so exsiting! It's coming up so quickly :)
It will work out great! Everyone has got great advice for you already. And if you are going a little too crazy.... scream into a pillow to get out that extra energy!
Best Wishes hun!