Take a pause...

[kevinsbride2B]

LAst night Kev was sitting beside me on the couch and I caught myself just getting lost looking at him. Just the realization that I'm the lucky one that he has chosen to spend the rest of his life with.
All wedding planning aside I am just so thankful that I have him in my life. Just the realization of what true love is. All of the glitz and glamour of a perfect wedding day just doesn't come a close second to the real reason for it all. In all honestly I don't even care what happends that day as long as I know that I get to walk away as Kevin as my husband.
I know you all feel this way, but sometiems I feel that I start thinking about the plannign and what not and the real reason gets a backseat.
Just knowing that I will have this man in my life for the rest of my life just brings me goose bumps.
I know this isn't much of a post to reply to, I just wanted you all to take a look at your FH's and just smile. Look how happy they have made you!!!!

[Jenn060306]

Everyday i think about how lucky i am to have Mark as my husband. He is so wonderful, loving, caring, and thoughtful. I sometimes get so wrapped up in everything that it does take a back seat. But i have to stop and take a good look and thank god that i have found Mark.
He is truely the best thing that has ever happend to me. :happy:

[BriansBride07]

So glad that you mentioned this, even though you state that it's not wedding related, I truley believe that in a sense it is. You have to have love, trust, communication to have a happy relationship/marriage. If you wrap yourself up to much with everything else in your life. Before you know it your Love one is gone. and you are left shaking your head and don't understand WHY. Great title for this thread "Take a Pause" Me and my FH do this quite often and I believe that with the trust, communication and the pauses we take in our life is what has gotten to the point of being toghether for 14 years.

[hummingbird521]

I catch myself sometimes after a really bad day and when I can't sleep of looking and watching my DH sleep next to me. That is when I truly appreciate all he means to me. I have often just looked and cried while watching him. The next morning I tell him how I do appreciate everything he does and how he makes me feel.

[WebLady]

That is sweet ... I think about DH like that alot :wub:

I think many people get lost in planning the 'perfect wedding' that they forget the reason behind it.

[countrygirl]

I am the same way. I have been looking at J lately as if my love for him has just started all over again. I get butterflies, and giddy, and I can't take my eyes off him.

Congratulations to all of the onewed girls who have been so lucky to find the love of thier lives. How lucky are we???

[ladymelissa]

I have always been very thankful that we found each other, it's a great feeling.

[SerendipityCrafts]

It's so nice to be with someone you can love, trust, care for, and feel safe around!

Our chance "re-meeting" online was the best thing that ever happened to us. We used to wonder what if we hadn't have broke up in high school ... not so much any longer. The trials we have both been through have only made us stronger and ready to be where we are at now. We are together and it's all good!

[mariaandmanish]

I get that same feeling every single time I see the ring on his finger. I don't know why that symbol does it to me, but every single time I see it, I get that overwhelming feeling of love and appreciation and thankfulness! I can't even imagine my life without him, and I'm so happy that we are married!!!

[kevinsbride2B]

I get that same feeling every single time I see the ring on his finger. I don't know why that symbol does it to me, but every single time I see it, I get that overwhelming feeling of love and appreciation and thankfulness! I can't even imagine my life without him, and I'm so happy that we are married!!!
Sometiems I look down at my hand and I see my engagment ring and I just wanna yell out to everyone around me "I'm marrying Kevin!!!!!!!!!" This also normally happends when I'm on the subway lol.
Kev actually just called to say he was on his way over. When he walks in that door I always jump up and give him a huge hug. He used to say "what's that for?" Now he just knows and hugs me back even harder.

[Craigs_Girl]

I catch myself looking and him and thinking how wonderful he is and how lucky I am when I'm lying in bed and can't get to sleep. I just watch him sleeping thinking how special he is and how glad I am that he came back into my life and how much my life has changed.

I, too don't care what happens on our wedding day as long as we walk away husband and wife... that's all I want out of the day!

[septemberbride06]

LAst night Kev was sitting beside me on the couch and I caught myself just getting lost looking at him. Just the realization that I'm the lucky one that he has chosen to spend the rest of his life with.
All wedding planning aside I am just so thankful that I have him in my life. Just the realization of what true love is. All of the glitz and glamour of a perfect wedding day just doesn't come a close second to the real reason for it all. In all honestly I don't even care what happends that day as long as I know that I get to walk away as Kevin as my husband.
I know you all feel this way, but sometiems I feel that I start thinking about the plannign and what not and the real reason gets a backseat.
Just knowing that I will have this man in my life for the rest of my life just brings me goose bumps.
I know this isn't much of a post to reply to, I just wanted you all to take a look at your FH's and just smile. Look how happy they have made you!!!!


That is truely when you know you made the right decision!
Every night when my hunny gets home from work all dirty, and sweaty (well, it is pretty cold right now...okay...you know what I mean) I just kiss and hug him. Me and JOe actually ask each other EVERY night about each others day...most of the time It's while I'm cooking, because then he plays with Christian,a nd we spend family time...no T.V., or radio, or telephone, just US!!! :ginger:

[SaralovesMike]

LAst night Kev was sitting beside me on the couch and I caught myself just getting lost looking at him. Just the realization that I'm the lucky one that he has chosen to spend the rest of his life with.
All wedding planning aside I am just so thankful that I have him in my life. Just the realization of what true love is. All of the glitz and glamour of a perfect wedding day just doesn't come a close second to the real reason for it all. In all honestly I don't even care what happends that day as long as I know that I get to walk away as Kevin as my husband.
I know you all feel this way, but sometiems I feel that I start thinking about the plannign and what not and the real reason gets a backseat.
Just knowing that I will have this man in my life for the rest of my life just brings me goose bumps.
I know this isn't much of a post to reply to, I just wanted you all to take a look at your FH's and just smile. Look how happy they have made you!!!!

So very true!
Just when you think you can't love him more than you do, you love him that much more!

We're all lucky ladies! Much love and happiness to you all! :heart::heart: