When do your arguments usually end?

[MOB Karen]

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[katieandalex]

I voted for "we both kind of make up at the same time." Generally when we argue...I'm the one upset with him. And he rarely gets upset with me. So really, its just time for me to stew about it and usually an hour or less later, I'm over it and talking to him again.

[Jenn060306]

When we both come to a conclusion about it. I don't stew until he appologizes. I don't see the point. We sort everything out 99.9% of the time. We usually only fight because we are tired and somthing small has upset us and it gets a bit blown out of proportion. We'll get so upset then suddenly realize that we're not fixing anything and take a moment and sort it all out.

[ladymelissa]

We have not had an arguement, we both understand the concept of compromise for little things and for everything else we are "on the same page."

[lea m]

Our arguments just sort of evaporate! One minute we'll be arguing, the next he's making me a brew, or I'm asking him if he likes my new dress! Its just the way we are, we know theres no point to our arguments so they just disappear and we just get on with it!

[SerendipityCrafts]

We don't argue. Hugh says this is because I am always right LOL

[LizabethDavis]

Generally after a while, it is just forgotten about.

[hummingbird521]

We have never really had an argument at all. I vent and discuss how I feel about something and he listens. That is usually the extent of it.

[jeni740]

I was drinking pretty heavily at one point and would start the most horrific fights with FH, it was always my fault so I am the one who had to say sorry first. now I drink only on occasion and only in small amounts

[WebLady]

We rarely argue, but when we do we talk about it and we both kind of make up at the same time.

[rainbowtreat]

My answer is the same as Brandi's. If we do argue and that is a big if then we end up talking it out. I make him talk it out but we get it out in the open and start fresh.

[mariaandmanish]

My answer is the same as Brandi's. If we do argue and that is a big if then we end up talking it out. I make him talk it out but we get it out in the open and start fresh.

That's how we are as well. The small things we just realize that it's over, and those are rare too. We've only had two BIG arguments (in 6+ years) and for those, I generally have to lock him in a room and make him talk about it. Then, we talk about it and come to our conclusions about what is really wrong and who is the wrong person and we both do our apologizing and try to change things.

[BriansBride07]

We have had our share of arguments we have been together for 14 years. We usually both stew for a little while and then start talking it over until it is resolved. We both are stubborn headed so at times it takes a couple of hours.

[CindySue]

Brian and I are both extremely hard-headed and this has led to some pretty heated fights. I voted that things just evaporate because thats pretty much what happens. We have yet to have an actual fight about anything of importance. Usually we are just stressed and take our frustrations out on each other. He says what he has to say, I say what I have to say, we go to bed and everything is fine in the morning.