CarlosHoney
09-10-2005, 01:10 AM
My little brother, as many of you know, passed away in August, on the 3rd. We were thinking about having the wedding August 12, and It just came to me as I was looking at the calendar:
That's only 9 days apart!! :(
I think that August is a good time to have it, and my Dad even thought it was a good time, since school is still out and we have lots of friends in school, Best Man is a Dean at the University of Wisconsin, and my brother and step siblings are still going to school.
I am worried that it's too soon after the anivarsary of his death to have it, worrying that it might not be a good time for some of my family. I know that Jens wouldn't give a flying fig, that's why I didn't really think about it. I don't want to have a bummed out wedding.
I'm planning on having a memorial thing at the wedding, maybe a reading or candle with his picture beside it, I'm not sure what to do..
It's really hot in the summer here, and I'm going to be having the baby in January, so I want to have time to lose some weight before the wedding. Thanksgiving/Christmas break might be too hectic, and might be more expensive.. I don't want to wait until 2007. What would YOU do?
That's only 9 days apart!! :(
I think that August is a good time to have it, and my Dad even thought it was a good time, since school is still out and we have lots of friends in school, Best Man is a Dean at the University of Wisconsin, and my brother and step siblings are still going to school.
I am worried that it's too soon after the anivarsary of his death to have it, worrying that it might not be a good time for some of my family. I know that Jens wouldn't give a flying fig, that's why I didn't really think about it. I don't want to have a bummed out wedding.
I'm planning on having a memorial thing at the wedding, maybe a reading or candle with his picture beside it, I'm not sure what to do..
It's really hot in the summer here, and I'm going to be having the baby in January, so I want to have time to lose some weight before the wedding. Thanksgiving/Christmas break might be too hectic, and might be more expensive.. I don't want to wait until 2007. What would YOU do?