Grudge

[racecargirl]

A local news story, I couldn't find the article, but I heard about it on the radio this morning. In highschool there were two girls who were friends. One stole the other's boyfriend. Years later, the girl who had her boyfriend stolen was a nurse for a plastic surgeon. The girl who stole the boyfriend came in for a face lift. No one knows for sure what happened, but it was listed as an 'accidental poisoning'. The woman died on the table. The nurse was eating a muffin and had to be asked three times to help save the other woman's life.

Do you hold a grudge against anyone, or do you have someone who holds a grudge against you?

[SerendipityCrafts]

I used to hold a grudge against the ex but it was keeping me up late at night and stressing me out so I let it go. The way I see it is that he will get his sooner or later, but it won't be by my hand.

[AngelinLove]

A male friend of mines on-again/off-again gf holds a grudge against me for no apparent reason!!!

[Jenn060306]

I don't think i have ever really held a grudge. And definatly not to that extent. I don't know for sure if anyone holds a grduge against me. But if i had to guess it would be my old roomate.

[Kacie_bride]

I did in high school and junior high. I don't now and to my knowledge nobody holds on against me.

[ladymelissa]

I can't hold a grudge for that long, I might be angry for a few weeks but I usually get over it. Although, no one has done anything too terrible to me. I don't think anyone holds a grudge against me.

I also would not let a grudge like that prevent me from doing my job properly, that is where I would draw the line. That becomes a dangerous line where now your grudge will hold you back. I may not socialize with that individual, but I am not going to let something like that ruin my job or my reputation. I wonder what happened, did she lose her job or anything? I wonder if she poisoned her in the first place.

[mariaandmanish]

I've never held a grudge that would ever cause me to want any kind of revenge on anyone. I have decided to move on with my life and stop beign friends with someone who's not been a friend to me, but that's as far as it's ever gone, or would for that matter.

[katieandalex]

No, I used to. But not anymore...I do still with certain people who have burned me badly...but generally, I don't anymore.

[LizabethDavis]

There is one person who I currently hold a grudge against and she against me. It really is too bad because we actually use to be best friends and she even introduced me to Patrick, but she was doing something that I view as wrong and I couldn't possibly let her continue hurting her boyfriend, who is now my cousin by marriage....When I sent her family a wedding announcement, she sent it back with a nasty note written on it and a crumbled up cracker.....I guess she thought I was rubbing it in her face that we got married before her and her boyfriend. Anyway, it really is not a good thing to hold a grudge, but we have been unable to move past this.

[MOB Karen]

No, life's too short, you have to move on. That bottled up stuff will kill you in the end. :grinhappy:

[70707Bride]

Yes, I do hold a grudge. Its against my "ex" best friend/MoH's bf. He made up a bunch of stuff about FH and she actually believed it and he's done so much other :censored: that I just hate him. And I have grudges from high school.

[BriansBride07]

I voted that someone has a grudge on me. The funny thing is we were BEST friends. Years ago when I first met my FH my friend also liked him I gladly stepped away and let her go after him, but come on ladies when nothing happened for 6mo. I made my move, we have been together ever since. She still holds a grudge on me for moving in on him after 6mo. but the thing is he never liked her only as a friend period. It has been 14 years and she still won't even glance my way when I see her. oh well her loss,

[WebLady]

I have alot of people that have wronged me in my life, and sure I was upset about the situation, and I don't care to ever see any of those people again, but I don't hold a grudge against them.

Like Karen said, you gotta move on, it isn't healthy for you. Besides that I think it is just wrong to wish bad things on other people ... and even worse to have a part in making it happen like in the story in the OP :bbeek: I believe that bad people get what's coming to them in the end and I don't have to nor do I want to be a part of it.

Now if anyone is holding on to some sort of grudge against me, I have no idea and I hope I never have to find out.

[jeni740]

I usually get mad at the person for awhile, then I realize they aren't worth me to even think about or hold a grudge anymore, I just dont speak to them and that works out pretty good.

[Trin]

I answered wrong in the poll, I said I hold a grudge but I used to now I get over things.


My exboss is holding a grudge against me, Just because I went to work somewhere else. It now just so happens that her son and Me are getting married on the same day, I had no idea he was even engaged when I picked my date and they think I am doing it to make their lives miserable. People!!

I dont hold a grudge against her because I dont really care.

[SoontobeMrsClark07]

I used to. There were some people that really did some awful stuff to one of my best friends and got her in trouble and expelled from school. For the longest time I hald a grudge but I learned to let go of it. I was still friends with the girl and being angry at someone for that long was just ridiculous.

[Valmai]

I dont because even tho there are af ew who have wronged me badly i believe in moving on - the more i worry/stress then the longer they manage to destroy my life. My ex has one major grudge against me and would/will do anything to hurt me but i refuse to let him anymore and am now taking him to court which he never thought id do! (I wont be so brave when we are there tho lol) xxx