asoldiersangel
09-21-2006, 10:24 AM
Bryan is 37 and I am 23
(Age is mind over matter, its the personality and the heart that is carried within that counts)
Bryan and I met through singlesnet.com. I approached him, he seemed to be a very interesting person to talk to. I took the liberty and most definately the honor to contact him, but when I looked back at his profile and saw that he had a picture of him. So like any person would do, I checked out his picture and then I noticed that his age was underneath. It was very interesting that a 37 year old man looked about 28 years old. Being the smarty pants that I am, I left him an email explaining that for 37yrs old he surely didn't look like it. He responded back and thanked me for the compliment. We began talking and getting to know each other, we've exchanged numbers and emails.
Everytime we spoke, he gave me butterflies. We would talk for hours online and on the phone (Thankfully for free long distance.) Bryan was a perfect gentleman; always asking me how my day was going, how I was doing, how the kids were. I would also ask him the same. When things went wrong, we showed concern when things were going rough in our every day lives and we've shared laughter most of the time, we hit it off great. I don't think I have ever smiled so much that my cheeks hurt until I met Bryan. What was even better was he would say smile; and I would have a huge smile on my face, when he said blushed; I went through ten different shades of red. It worked every time. We spoke atleast 4 times a day. The second week of talking online and on the phone we decided it was time to meet each other. So he and I agreed on that thursday to meet.
When we met that Thursday, we spoke that morning while he was on his way down to meet me, unfortunately I had to work early so I could get off work early. We picked a spot to meet at and by 11:00 that morning he was at the place we were suppose to meet, he called me to let me know that he was there. I left work and headed straight up to meet him. You know the feeling of butterflies you get or the nervousness of meeting someone for the first time? Well for some reason I never got that, because it seemed like I've known him forever. As I approached the meeting spot, I saw his truck sitting in the parking lot. I couldn't wait to get across the intersection to go see him that I nearly ran a stop light. Once I got there and parked, he jumped out of his truck and opened my door to let me out. When I stood up to see him, I didn't even introduce myself, I just hugged him and he grabbed me hugging me back.
I locked my car up and rode with him, it was so easy talking to him. I usually have a hard time talking to someone new..its a shy thing. But with Bryan it was different, he brought me out of my shell of shyness at least with him. As we drove off he asked if we could get something to eat so I told him sure. On the way we talked about relationships, marriages, and divorces, because he and I are divorced with children. I remember him looking at me strangley for a moment and then he smiled. I asked him what the look was for and he asked me where have I been all of his life, I came out without thinking telling him "Right here waiting for you." right then he smiled. I looked up at him and he said blush Oh man, I thought I would die. I looked in the mirror and my cheeks were bright red. He laughed, I think right then I knew I was meant to be with him.
We came to the restaurant got out and locked the doors, I walked to the front of the truck and he walked around the back coming up behind me. He turned me around and hugged me, then stole a kiss. I think my heart skipped 12 beats after that, he was passionate about it. We got in to the restaurant took our seats, he pulled my chair out and sat me first, then he sat down. We began talking more. He held my hands from across the table. He stared at me the whole time. I asked him what he was looking at and he told me he was admiring my beauty. So we spent the whole day together partly into the evening.
The next weekend, he called me asking if the kids and I would spend the weekend with him up in Rehobeth Beach Delaware. So I agreed and when the weekend came I packed up for my two boys, my daughter, and myself. Only to find out that my daughter's father wanted to take her for the weekend, so he came by and picked her up and I ended up having a friend go with me. We left about 4:00p.m and made it up there by 6:30p.m. Bryan tried to get his daughter to come down to visit with him but unfortunately she couldn't. So it was me, my friend Danny, and the boys. On Sunday, the day we had to go back home, Bryan, Danny, the boys and I went to the beach. Bryan and I sat on the sand watching the boys play in the water, while Danny was out girl hunting.
Bryan looked at me and I looked at him, he said to me "This is a proposal long overdue. I would love to spend the rest of my life with you and the kids. My mouth dropped, I couldn't believe what I heard but the thing was, I felt the same way towards him which made everything feel so right. He's truely an amazing guy, and I can't see spending the rest of my life with anyone else but him.
(Age is mind over matter, its the personality and the heart that is carried within that counts)
Bryan and I met through singlesnet.com. I approached him, he seemed to be a very interesting person to talk to. I took the liberty and most definately the honor to contact him, but when I looked back at his profile and saw that he had a picture of him. So like any person would do, I checked out his picture and then I noticed that his age was underneath. It was very interesting that a 37 year old man looked about 28 years old. Being the smarty pants that I am, I left him an email explaining that for 37yrs old he surely didn't look like it. He responded back and thanked me for the compliment. We began talking and getting to know each other, we've exchanged numbers and emails.
Everytime we spoke, he gave me butterflies. We would talk for hours online and on the phone (Thankfully for free long distance.) Bryan was a perfect gentleman; always asking me how my day was going, how I was doing, how the kids were. I would also ask him the same. When things went wrong, we showed concern when things were going rough in our every day lives and we've shared laughter most of the time, we hit it off great. I don't think I have ever smiled so much that my cheeks hurt until I met Bryan. What was even better was he would say smile; and I would have a huge smile on my face, when he said blushed; I went through ten different shades of red. It worked every time. We spoke atleast 4 times a day. The second week of talking online and on the phone we decided it was time to meet each other. So he and I agreed on that thursday to meet.
When we met that Thursday, we spoke that morning while he was on his way down to meet me, unfortunately I had to work early so I could get off work early. We picked a spot to meet at and by 11:00 that morning he was at the place we were suppose to meet, he called me to let me know that he was there. I left work and headed straight up to meet him. You know the feeling of butterflies you get or the nervousness of meeting someone for the first time? Well for some reason I never got that, because it seemed like I've known him forever. As I approached the meeting spot, I saw his truck sitting in the parking lot. I couldn't wait to get across the intersection to go see him that I nearly ran a stop light. Once I got there and parked, he jumped out of his truck and opened my door to let me out. When I stood up to see him, I didn't even introduce myself, I just hugged him and he grabbed me hugging me back.
I locked my car up and rode with him, it was so easy talking to him. I usually have a hard time talking to someone new..its a shy thing. But with Bryan it was different, he brought me out of my shell of shyness at least with him. As we drove off he asked if we could get something to eat so I told him sure. On the way we talked about relationships, marriages, and divorces, because he and I are divorced with children. I remember him looking at me strangley for a moment and then he smiled. I asked him what the look was for and he asked me where have I been all of his life, I came out without thinking telling him "Right here waiting for you." right then he smiled. I looked up at him and he said blush Oh man, I thought I would die. I looked in the mirror and my cheeks were bright red. He laughed, I think right then I knew I was meant to be with him.
We came to the restaurant got out and locked the doors, I walked to the front of the truck and he walked around the back coming up behind me. He turned me around and hugged me, then stole a kiss. I think my heart skipped 12 beats after that, he was passionate about it. We got in to the restaurant took our seats, he pulled my chair out and sat me first, then he sat down. We began talking more. He held my hands from across the table. He stared at me the whole time. I asked him what he was looking at and he told me he was admiring my beauty. So we spent the whole day together partly into the evening.
The next weekend, he called me asking if the kids and I would spend the weekend with him up in Rehobeth Beach Delaware. So I agreed and when the weekend came I packed up for my two boys, my daughter, and myself. Only to find out that my daughter's father wanted to take her for the weekend, so he came by and picked her up and I ended up having a friend go with me. We left about 4:00p.m and made it up there by 6:30p.m. Bryan tried to get his daughter to come down to visit with him but unfortunately she couldn't. So it was me, my friend Danny, and the boys. On Sunday, the day we had to go back home, Bryan, Danny, the boys and I went to the beach. Bryan and I sat on the sand watching the boys play in the water, while Danny was out girl hunting.
Bryan looked at me and I looked at him, he said to me "This is a proposal long overdue. I would love to spend the rest of my life with you and the kids. My mouth dropped, I couldn't believe what I heard but the thing was, I felt the same way towards him which made everything feel so right. He's truely an amazing guy, and I can't see spending the rest of my life with anyone else but him.