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CarlosHoney
09-04-2006, 07:32 PM
How many kids do you want (including kids you already have)? :grinhappy:

CarlosHoney
09-04-2006, 07:33 PM
I want two. I'd like to have a girl in a few years. :grinhappy:

WhiskeyGirl
09-04-2006, 07:36 PM
We would like at least 4. But at this point I'm happy with at least one!!!:irked:

SerendipityCrafts
09-04-2006, 07:39 PM
I wanted two and I ended up with 4 in all (although they aren't kids any longer) when I married Hugh :)

MOB Karen
09-04-2006, 07:41 PM
I was blessed, I got exactly what I wanted. I wanted a boy first and then a girl. Yay!! :grinhappy:

Malachi, age 27
Amber, age 25

ladymelissa
09-04-2006, 07:53 PM
None, zero, no kids for me!

mariaandmanish
09-04-2006, 08:07 PM
http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/15/15_2_138.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZSzim029YYUS) I always wanted 3, growing up with 2 sisters and all, there was always someone to play with. DH only wanted 1. So, we've decided to compromise and have 2.... assuming all goes well when we decide to start trying and all.

rainbowtreat
09-04-2006, 08:30 PM
I have always wanted 3. If I was with my ex still I dont think he would have gone for another one. My son was a very very cranky baby. I was lucky that my daughter was such a good baby that he wanted the 2nd one. He said if our son was first he most likely wouldnt have had another.

My DH now has none. And he wants a couple of them. But I am set with 3. If twins happened I wouldnt be disapointed, I would be thrilled but that is the only way he is getting more then one from me.

hummingbird521
09-04-2006, 08:35 PM
Two of my own and two step children. Stopping there.

AngelinLove
09-04-2006, 08:46 PM
I only want 2, but definitely not more than 3!!!

Jenn060306
09-04-2006, 09:17 PM
2. 3 at the most. After 3 mark is going to be snipped. I want to be able to provide as much as i possibly can for my children. I want to still be able to go away on holidays as a family as well. Not that you can't with a larger family. But i love to travel and with our incomes and plans for life anymore then 3 would make those plans much harder to acheive.

CarlosHoney
09-04-2006, 09:55 PM
2. 3 at the most. After 3 mark is going to be snipped. I want to be able to provide as much as i possibly can for my children. I want to still be able to go away on holidays as a family as well. Not that you can't with a larger family. But i love to travel and with our incomes and plans for life anymore then 3 would make those plans much harder to acheive.That's how I feel. I'm not sure if I want another child. I'm completely fulfilled with Elias.. Though I would love to have a little girl. Kare, wish me luck, becasuse I want a boy, then a girl..

I really want to provide a good future for him, and have a solid foundation so that he doesn't have to worry through college and he can get a car in high school. I didn't have either of those, and I really believe that it's been harder because of those things. I still don't have a car and I'm 22 years old.

My mom was a single parent with 3 kids. We all did whatever we wanted and she didn't stop us. I stayed out all night, and it ws an unstable home environment.. Not that being poor makes that happen, but I think that when you're financially secure, things are just more stable in the home. The parents don't fight as much and there's always food and you've always got a phone and electricity.

70707Bride
09-04-2006, 10:00 PM
I voted 4. I really want 3-5, so I picked the middle number!

Kacie_bride
09-04-2006, 10:09 PM
I defiantely want 2. If we are doing well financially I think I would want a 3rd one. We'll see. I would like to start trying about a year after the wedding.

I do know before I have a child I would like to own a home. I would like to have a better life insurance policy. Right now I'm only covered enough to pay for a funeral. I would like to have a will. I also want a new vehicle (SUV instead of car) before then, but I am getting a new one after the first of the year.

LaceyinPgh
09-05-2006, 09:39 AM
At this stage in my life, I am comfortable being childless. I am sure over the next few years taht might change. If I ever have a child it will be just one. I want to be able to do for my child all the things to give them the best start in life: private school, college, travel experience, activities, one on one attention, their first car, help with their first home, ect. Plus, if we ever have a child Sean and I agree that we want to spoil them relentlessly. So, one should just about wipe us out.

ikkin510
09-05-2006, 01:49 PM
In a perfect world I would love a large family with lots of kids, the more the marrier! But, we can not afford a large family, and I think that many kids would drive Steve insane!!
In reality I would like 3 maybe 4 kids. 2 of our own, and 1 or 2 that we would adopt. I'd like to have 2 or 3 boys and 1 girl.