JM11
08-28-2011, 07:11 PM
Not really sure how to start this journal but here it goes:
I got married July 7, '07 and I planned it here on OneWed :) Things were good for about the first year and a half or so. Then they slowly started going downhill when I finally started realizing some things. Two years came and things weren't what I wanted or what they should have been. Stopped talking to each other alot, argued about money, time, and other things. Around this time I decided I couldn't be with him anymore, he was making me a negative person and I couldn't be myself.
I met Jake at work last spring, we became close friends right away - usually it takes me a long time to trust ppl. I knew that my ex and I were basically done, I moved back in with my parents in Sept '10, and Jake and I started dating in Dec. Didn't take either one of us long to fall for each other lol.
The divorce was final in March and honestly, I couldn't have been happier. Its now August and Jake and I have been together for 8 months now. He is by far the most amazing guy ever. And this may sound weird but when we started dating we also talked about someday getting married. Lol.
He was there for me throughout my divorce, he was there for me to help when my storage unit was set on fire in July (lost most of my belongings that I had taken from the divorce). This one is a keeper :)
-Jess
I got married July 7, '07 and I planned it here on OneWed :) Things were good for about the first year and a half or so. Then they slowly started going downhill when I finally started realizing some things. Two years came and things weren't what I wanted or what they should have been. Stopped talking to each other alot, argued about money, time, and other things. Around this time I decided I couldn't be with him anymore, he was making me a negative person and I couldn't be myself.
I met Jake at work last spring, we became close friends right away - usually it takes me a long time to trust ppl. I knew that my ex and I were basically done, I moved back in with my parents in Sept '10, and Jake and I started dating in Dec. Didn't take either one of us long to fall for each other lol.
The divorce was final in March and honestly, I couldn't have been happier. Its now August and Jake and I have been together for 8 months now. He is by far the most amazing guy ever. And this may sound weird but when we started dating we also talked about someday getting married. Lol.
He was there for me throughout my divorce, he was there for me to help when my storage unit was set on fire in July (lost most of my belongings that I had taken from the divorce). This one is a keeper :)
-Jess