If you discovered that your best friend's boyfriend was cheating on her, you would...

[MOB Karen]

Let us know what you would do under these circumstances. :D

[MOB Karen]

I would tell on the jerk myself. There is no way I could keep that to myself, and not tell.

[ladymelissa]

I would tell her, but I would also try to wait until I could give her some evidence to back it up. If it turned into a he said/I said situation she would probably tend to believe him and it would destroy our friendship and she would still be in the bad relationship.

[MOB Karen]

I would tell her, but I would also try to wait until I could give her some evidence to back it up. If it turned into a he said/I said situation she would probably tend to believe him and it would destroy our friendship and she would still be in the bad relationship.

Definitely. They always believe those cheating bastards over their girlfriends. lol :D

[LaceyinPgh]

I would tell her straight up the second that I had some evidence to back it up. What if he brought home some disease to her or their children from being with some skank. How would I live with myself then. If my friends ever knew that my husband was cheating on me, I would hope that they would have the nerve to come out and tell. I am not going to be mad at them for telling me the truth. I would be mad at him for being a cheater!

[LizabethDavis]

Oh yes, I would tell...This was the issue that caused my original MOH and I to go our seperate ways. She was cheating on her fiance....with his BROTHER... and I was good friends with her fiance, not to mention that her fiance was Patrick's cousin as well. I didn't tell him right away, but I didn't wait long either to go to him and tell him....She hates me now, but I don't really care because that was just beyond wrong for her to be doing...

[rainbowtreat]

I would tell her for sure. If your cheating then your not into the realationship the way you should be. And I dont care about hurting the jerk, I just wouldnt want to see my freind hurt. Even if she got mad at me in the long run she will know I was doing her a favor. And the evidence is needed for sure.

[WebLady]

I would tell her, but I would also try to wait until I could give her some evidence to back it up. If it turned into a he said/I said situation she would probably tend to believe him and it would destroy our friendship and she would still be in the bad relationship.
Yeah I was gonna say something like that. Sometimes the girl wouldn't believe you right away and it could ugly.

I would have to be positive he was actually cheating ... I'd have to see him making out with another girl or catch him in the act somehow. Just seeing him hanging out with another girl, well there could be all kinds of reasons or excuses for that.

Maybe I'd just buy them tickets to the Jerry Springer show ;)

[CarlosHoney]

I'd drop hints to both of them. Probably say something really incredible in fornt of both of them, together. :bbmrgreen:

[hummingbird521]

I would tell her after gathering proof of it.

[cowboysbride]

I would tell her, but I would also try to wait until I could give her some evidence to back it up. If it turned into a he said/I said situation she would probably tend to believe him and it would destroy our friendship and she would still be in the bad relationship.

I agree 100%...no one could make me believe it and Eric doubted his own family!

[AngelinLove]

I would definitely tell her rights away!!! I mean, she has a right to know and I feel that my friendships are strong enough that they would believe me. If not, atleast I know that I did the right thing!!!

[countrygirl]

I would give him the chance to tell her first. If he doesn't, then like Lacey said (I think it was Lacey), I would make sure that I could back it up.

[AllyM1]

I voted that I wouldn't tell her. But it's not exactly not tell her. It was more of a mixture of I would confront him and tell him that he needs to tell her and if he doesnt, THEN I will tell her.

I just really don't like getting in other people's business.

[CarlosHoney]

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[WebLady]

... I just really don't like getting in other people's business.I agree ... but if I knew it was fact I would have to say something.

Me, I'd have a hard time believing something like this without hard proof.

[Kacie_bride]

I would tell her. I actually worked with a lady once that had been married for 20 years and she came up with an STD. That's bad enough, but it was herpies. There is no cure for that. Some people around her knew of the affair, but never told her. Very sad. My mother worked with a man whose neice got infected with HIV because her husband cheated. If someone who knew could have told her it might have saved her life.

[mariaandmanish]

If it's my best friend, then I should be able to tell her anything. I would try to find a way of telling her without being mean about it, but I recognize that that would be very difficult to do. I pray that I never end up in that situation!!

I actually have a colleague (TF) who was best friends with another colleague (DM). As it turns out, DM's husband was cheating on her, and TF tried to tell her. DM took it as that TF was jealous and just trying to make DM upset, so didn't believe her. They're no longer friends. It's a very touchy situation.

[SoontobeMrsClark07]

I've had to deal with this situation before. I told her exactly what was going on and she was glad I did because she was clueless about it. I know she would do the same for me, I mean she even told me that she saw Jonathan riding in a car with a female, and it turned out to be his sister (before she knew what his sister looked like) I knew it was his sister because they were on their way to my house.

I couldnt let someone hurt my best friend like that, ever.