How do you handle "psycho exes?" (yours or your FH/DH's)

[MOB Karen]

Let us know how you handle this problem. :D

[MOB Karen]

I wouldn't give my ex-husband the time of day, if I ever saw him again. :bbconfused:

[LaceyinPgh]

Sean doesn't have any psycho ex's. As far as I know he never had a really serious long term relationship with anyone until me. The only girl he was in a relationship with, they ended on good terms. I don't even know if she still lives in this area.

I don't really have an psycho ex's either. I have ex's. But after we ended relationships, it just sort of stayed that way. I contacted one when I was leaving DC to see if I could pick something up from his place. He was fine with that. He had everything packed up and waiting on me. We exchanged pleasantries and went on our ways. I haven't seen or heard from since. I had another ex that I had a crazy relationship with. But again when we went on our seperate ways it stayed that way. He called my on 9-11 since he lived in DC (and was working in NYC at the time) and I lived in Pittsburgh. He wanted to make sure I was ok. I said that I was, I hoped that he could say the same, goodbye. Again, no contact since. I did get several emails from his new girlfriend several years ago wanting to know who I was, why my email addy was in his address book, and why my cell number (I don't even have that number anymore) was in his phone. I just ignored it. I can only assume that he just never got around to deleating them considering he hadn't used either to contact me in years.

[hummingbird521]

In all seriousness I have a voodoo doll on my refrigerator. Don't mess with me.

[WebLady]

Luckily I don't have any problems with mine or DH's ex's.

[SoontobeMrsClark07]

Jonathan's ex lives in my neighborhood so I see her all the time. We also have a few common friends because we all went to school together. Jonathan's family (once they hear about it) usually make fun of her. I try not to chime in because I'm not into that sort of thing. She did do a few things that I think she shouldnt have done.

She just got certified as a wedding coordinator and when she saw me, she offered her services free to me. I told her that I didnt feel comfortable with that and I already had someone (I lied). She then sent me an email (from my wedding website) and offered her services again. I didnt respond. So she decided to leave her flyer and business card in my door and send me another email to make sure I got it...

Jonathan's family is having fun with that...

[mariaandmanish]

Luckily for me, neither Me nor Manish have psycho ex's. Thank goodness for that!!!! :bbmrgreen:

[mlm063007]

Clayton was never in a serious relationship until me. Although, some of the girls he was with before were a little annoying. Like Lacey, once a relationship ends it ends.

I did have one boyfriend IM me 2 years after we broke up to say that he was sorry for the way our relationship ended (he cheated on me) I told him to get over himself, I was fine, and logged off.:D

[CarlosHoney]

Well, I just send them an email telling them to back off. Actually happened. Recently.