ababe521
08-17-2006, 07:40 PM
well I have a friend that is suposed to be a bridesmaid....however she is with a guy,we'l call him bob for now..bob and her have been together for 3 yrs on and off..they do live together..The last time that they broke up me and my fiance got drug into the situation...of course me being her friend I am goin to take her side and not bobs. Bob was talkin about me how I am always on the phoen with her and al this crazyness. My fiance found out he was talkin about me and was very upset and now does not like bob.So then bob as talking back about my fiance as well.one day she called me and told me to call the cops on bob bc she wanted him out of her hosue.
theygot back together about 1 yr ago and when i go to her hosue he doesnt speak a word to me at all, At first I would say hello to bob however i never got a response so now i dnt say anything to him anymore. On 4th of july we went to a friends house and he was there and my fiance was with me. I said hi to everyone bob didnt say a thing to meor my fiance...i came to find out bob is still mad at me for calling the cops on him. however that was 2 yrs ago. My fiance and I were talking about guest list about 3 weeks ago and he dont want to invite bob...
I felt bad bc that is her man they have 1 child together and live together.....
I did mention somethign to my friend she told me that she couldnt be in the wedding bc it wasnt worth the fight with him, he is very obnoxious and always thinks she cheats on him.
so i left it at that and then i hear from another frienfd that she also said that she wnt be attending the wedding either. and honestly if that though has even crossed her mind...what kind of friend is she.. we now takled and she seems to tell me that she wnt be attending. I am sooo upset and hurt about this. Now she isnt speaking to me...
WHY DO WE WANT SOMEONE AT OUR WEDDING THAT IS NOT WISHING US THE BEST OF LUCK AND IS ONYL GOIN TO BE THERE TO KEEP AN EYE ON HER?????
ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVICE?
theygot back together about 1 yr ago and when i go to her hosue he doesnt speak a word to me at all, At first I would say hello to bob however i never got a response so now i dnt say anything to him anymore. On 4th of july we went to a friends house and he was there and my fiance was with me. I said hi to everyone bob didnt say a thing to meor my fiance...i came to find out bob is still mad at me for calling the cops on him. however that was 2 yrs ago. My fiance and I were talking about guest list about 3 weeks ago and he dont want to invite bob...
I felt bad bc that is her man they have 1 child together and live together.....
I did mention somethign to my friend she told me that she couldnt be in the wedding bc it wasnt worth the fight with him, he is very obnoxious and always thinks she cheats on him.
so i left it at that and then i hear from another frienfd that she also said that she wnt be attending the wedding either. and honestly if that though has even crossed her mind...what kind of friend is she.. we now takled and she seems to tell me that she wnt be attending. I am sooo upset and hurt about this. Now she isnt speaking to me...
WHY DO WE WANT SOMEONE AT OUR WEDDING THAT IS NOT WISHING US THE BEST OF LUCK AND IS ONYL GOIN TO BE THERE TO KEEP AN EYE ON HER?????
ANYONE HAVE ANY ADVICE?