Have you ever been hit by a man?

[MOB Karen]

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[MOB Karen]

Yes, when I was younger, my husband did hit me and I left him forever. Now, I would never let it happen. I would kill that SOB before I ever let a man hit me again.

[Jenn060306]

I have been hit. It wasn't a stay or leave situation.

[LaceyinPgh]

No. My recomendation to any man is this: Think befor eyou raise you hand or voice to me. I am not a circus animal that you can "train". I might not like guns, but you should remember, I did grow up around them and am a **** good shot!

[WebLady]

I said other ... I have been slapped in the face, pushed against a wall, had my hair pulled and been held down by my wrists by a couple of different men. I didn't leave right away, I was terrified and I felt at the time that I didn't really have anywhere to go. I wasn't as strong a person then as I am today, I won't put up with that cr@p today.

[ladymelissa]

No, I have never been hit. If I was hit or if anyone ever raised a hand like they might, that's it, it's over. I refuse to hit people and I demand the same treatment.

[ladymelissa]

It wasn't a stay or leave situation.
What do you mean by that? Only elaborate if you want to.

[Jenn060306]

What do you mean by that? Only elaborate if you want to.

I wasn't in a situtation where i was able to stay or leave because it wasn't a a boyfriend.

[MOB Karen]

I wasn't in a situtation where i was able to stay or leave because it wasn't a a boyfriend.

I am so sorry, Jenn!!! I'm sure there are many, many women who have had that experience as well. I have had whippings, but I was never hit in the face or anything. The first time I was punched in the face, it was by my husband. Thanks for sharing that, I know it was extremely hard for you. :)

[Jenn060306]

I am so sorry, Jenn!!! I'm sure there are many, many women who have had that experience as well. I have had whippings, but I was never hit in the face or anything. The first time I was punched in the face, it was by my husband. Thanks for sharing that, I know it was extremely hard for you. :)

I just want to clarify that Mark has never hurt me in anyway. I re-read my post and i thought maybe i might be giving off that impression. I'm sorry i don't want to give more information about what happend. It's just one of those things i don't like to talk about because of the circumstances arround it.

[Amber818]

Nope never....well my brother use to beat the c r a p out of me but I have never been hit by a boyfriend/lover.

[rainbowtreat]

I was hit once. By my ex. He came home drunk one night after leaving after a big fight we had. There is no excuse for it at all but I do know that was not him. I have seen him drunk a bunch of times and he never in all the 14 or 15 yrs that I have known him has he ever been like that. He would never hit me and never did before or since. I had no where to go and a baby and a toddler asleep upstairs. The next day I was ignoring him. He wasnt sure why, maybe because of the fight we had and what not. Untill I was trying to eat a tuna sandwhich and had a hard time chewing then he asked me what was wrong. He had no idea what he did and asked me if I wanted him to leave. He thinks some one put something into his drink at the bar. That some one cause me alot of hurt. We obvisouly have been divorced but not because of that. He has to live with that for the rest of his life. He has never been more sorry over anything. He did finaly come out and tell his mother what he did. As I did my mom now that we are no longer together. So as you can see I did stay with him but when eh asked if I wanted to leave that he would if I told him to I told him if he EVER raised a hand to be again it is over.

[Kacie_bride]

I put no. The only "man" I have ever been hit by was my brother, but he was not a "man" when he did it. We were kids and he was a boy at the time. I think that is pretty normal for siblings to hit each other.

[hummingbird521]

Yes my ex husband was abusive to me on more than one occassion. I was to scared to leave and one of those women who kept thinking he would change. I continually fell for the "i'm sorry's" and "i am going to change". I stayed in this abusive relationship for 4 years. Then one night after a bad episode as I sat crying it hit me that I was going to end up like one of those lifetime movies. It still bothers me to this day and always will. It took me a long time to even want to date or to trust another man. Any time a voice or hand is raised around me I find myself cringing and often times dodging. Jerry does not raise his voice or his arms to fast around me. One time he got upset with how the races were going on tv and threw something at the tv and I cried for hours. This scared him to death. He thought I would leave. He never realized till then just how bad this had mentally took a toll on me. It took me a long time to realize during my previous marriage that I am worth more and deserve better in this life. Now I am completely happy and glad I finally decided to give myself another chance.

[SoontobeMrsClark07]

My ex boyfriend started becomming more and more violent towards the end of our relationship. He smacked me once and ended up on the floor. I dont play that game and he found that out very quickly.

[Natasha]

I have not, thank goodness. Because I am pretty sure I would kill him, and I have no interest in going to jail...

[darkangel090260]

my ex hubby untill the day i turned arround and put his but on the floor. OOH and my brother. Think the last time i we had a good old go arround was last year before last and i just nocked the S*** out of him and shocked him at the same time.

[brewsells]

My ex and I got into several knock down drag outs in the time we were together. It took me a while, but I did finally leave. Thank goodness.

[CindySue]

I voted was hit and stayed although the first time it happened, I left and never looked back. The next time it happened was with my ex husband and he had pushed me around one night and I told him that he might not want to do that. Then he hit me. All I know is that I saw red and completely went postal on him. I beat the living :censored: out of him.

[BriansBride07]

I voted Yes and stayed b/c when i was a teenager I had a bf that was very abusive and i stayed for over a year in fear of leaving him. but finally got the nerve up and left him for good

[mariaandmanish]

I've never been hit, but knowing my personality, if a man ever did hit me, he would regret it pretty quickly. If I weren't the person to make him regret it physically, I have many male friends and relatives who would help me out.

[EarlyBird]

An ex bf was pissed at me and he threw a can of soda at my feet at high speed from across a room- it hit my ankles and cracked open- the alluminum cut me very bad but i didnt even notice. i walked calmy to him, pushed him against a wall punched him in his face, bit him to the point of drawing blood and spit on him. then i told him next time he wants to make a women feel like less a person to remember that moment and think better of it. I made him feel like ess of a person and i he neer fought back. I walked out of the house and left for good that day- two yrs ago (it had been almost 4 yrs since that time) he email and thanked me for that- he told me that his mom hd been being beaten by a guy and she was scared to leave and remembered what i told him and he told her she needed to just overcome that situation and he told her what he did to me. When she found out what he did she was so disgusted and realized that she had to get out of the situation- I never responded back to him cuz quite honestly i would have liked to do what i did to him over and over and over again.. (i still have a scar from the can explosion) but at least SOMETHING came out of it!

[ger]

My ex hit me one time...and one time only! He had had too much to drink and we were fighting over something stupid. He smacked me and I went bullistic. I told him and showed him that if he wanted life...he best not ever THINK of doing it again!!! And he never did.

[EarlyBird]

GER--- haha thats exactly the point i was making with my ex.. I knwo there are times where fh would like to strangle the life out of my body, and the feeling is sometimes mutual, but honestly, thats what punching bags and pillows are for!

[ger]

That is exactly right!! People (man or woman) are not for taking your anger out on. God find something that won't cry or yell...or beat the living daylights out of you!!

[ShortyBride]

I have never been hit, but if I ever was, I would call the police on his butt!! That's right! I am not a violent person and I wouldn't want to or want to be with someone that would resort to violence.

[bichonlvr]

I voted no.....only ever in play!!!

[katieandalex]

Nope...and my DH knows I wouldn't put up with it. If he ever hit me, I woudl probably go ape **** and beat the **** out of him! Then if he ever hit me agian, I woudl leave.

[soontobemrs]

I had a guy hit me before - We weren't together or anything - i was at a club and he was drunk and walked past and hit me for no reason so I waited for him outside and broke his nose.

[Nekochanpurr]

Never. But if a guy did, he'd find himself in a brawl real quick.

[candyt2009]

My fh hit me one time and I show him how it feel to get hit from that day I show him he never hit me again and that was 10years ago