What would you have done????

[chrissgurl2007]

So here's my story long but I need to got this out, My best friend since juionr high agreed to be my maid of honor and it was good for like a month then i dont know what happened. I have been trying to get ahold of her to help with the social and I have left her many messages on her machine seeing if everything is ok, If she didnt want to be in my bridal party maybe she should have just said something to me never mind just ignoring me. I am very hurt by her and I have decided that I wont be having having her in my wedding party if she can't be bothered to answer her cell phone when i calll or returna phone call then I dont think I shodl bother either. I can easily ask one of the other girls to be my maid of honor, its just that I feel bad about this and am very hurt by her I havehelped her out a lot throughout the past 12 years that we've been friends and now that this is happening it makes you wonder who your friends really are.

[mj512]

I'm sorry, I hope there isn't anything wrong on her end? If she doesn't get back to you, I would for sure ask someone else to be your MOH

[MOB Karen]

That's a bad omen for things to come. If there isn't anything physically wrong with her, I would definitely choose someone else. :)

[LaceyinPgh]

I'm sorry this is happening to you. I had a bm pull similiar **** with me.Trust me, replace her now before you get too close to the date. It isn't fair that "friends" act this way.

[bride@35]

Hey, go ahead and ask one of your other friends (now). And if she finally calls you back, talk to her, listen to her and make a decision, and with your other friend too. Dont wait till the last minute.

[ladymelissa]

Weddings have a tendancy to show you who your true friends are. Provided there isn't anything seriously wrong in her life right now, like an emergency that would be resolved in a timely manner or at least resolved to a point that would allow her to give you the energy you deserve then I would just replace her.

[chrissgurl2007]

Thanks girls I know exactly what I should do now !!!!!

[WhiskeyGirl]

I'd actually show up on her door and ask her what the hell is up! There is really no way that way she can ignore you and if she does, then she gets the axe and you find someone better to be your MOH. ;)

[chrissgurl2007]

I live in a small town so I will run into her again but if this is how she wants to be I will just save the stress and just bumo her out

[Jenn060306]

Definatly stop by and ask her if everything is ok. If you can't do that, call her and tell her you need to know what's up by a certain date so you can find someone to replace her.
I'm sorry that you're having so many problems with her. It's definatly not nice and a total pain to have to deal with when you're planning such an important thing.
Good Luck! I hope it all works out for the better for you!

[chrissgurl2007]

Ive given up trying to call her and honestly if this is how she wants to be then fine she can be like this all she wants im just not going to let her get me down, ive been trying to get hold of her since may to start planning my social and no reply as of yet!

[cowboysbride]

I went thru this and if she can't have the courtesy to call you back REPLACE her, if she is experiencing something in her life that is keeping her from calling you then I would bet it would interfere with her duties, you're doing her a favor.