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Amber818
08-11-2006, 10:07 PM
Personally never thought about it until today but I think I am going to try and hold off for the last 2 weeks to make the wedding night all the more enjoyable....we will see....LOL!
WhiskeyGirl
08-11-2006, 11:26 PM
We didn't because we were TTC...well that didn't work out for us but that's ok.
Kacie_bride
08-12-2006, 12:04 AM
We are going to try to hold off for a month! I will be able to do it, but Justin is going to have a hard time.
WhiskeyGirl
08-12-2006, 12:05 AM
Amber818 agrees: It will though : )

Thanks Hun!! :D
hummingbird521
08-12-2006, 07:10 AM
We only abstained for a few days prior to the wedding. Neither of us could hold out longer. haha.
mj512
08-12-2006, 07:12 AM
I'm a virgin.... sooo we have been holding out for the whole 5 years and a few months :) we have 9 months left, I think we can make it lol
blueeyedbride
08-12-2006, 08:01 AM
HAven't really thought of it , will hav to talk to Fh...
AngelinLove
08-12-2006, 08:11 AM
I havn't really thought of it either...and probably won't abstain for any length of time on purpose!!! We will probably be so busy those last few days though that we won't have the time/energy!!! We'll see!!!!
LaceyinPgh
08-12-2006, 08:19 AM
First we were too busy, too tired, and the week before the wedding I was sicker than hell to even think about having sex. So we didn't purposefully hold off.
mlm063007
08-12-2006, 11:15 AM
I am planning on abstaining for a while. When I talked to FH about it though, he didnt like the idea:D . I just think that it is a neat thing to do...build up to your wedding day.
SoontobeMrsClark07
08-13-2006, 12:03 AM
I'm a virgin!
SerendipityCrafts
08-13-2006, 12:06 AM
Never thought about it. Hmmmmmm

Edited to add - I just asked Hugh and it's unanimous. We agree to abstain for at least an hour before the wedding :)
70707Bride
08-13-2006, 02:50 PM
I'm a virgin.
rainbowtreat
08-13-2006, 03:03 PM
If i remeber right it was about 2 weeks or a little less before the wedding that we stopped. We had talked about it and were thinking on a month but not sure if that held up. I can't realy remmeber. I do know the 2 weeks beofre the wedding we had company so it didnt happen.
WebLady
08-13-2006, 07:09 PM
I think we held off for a week or so before the wedding.
mariaandmanish
08-13-2006, 07:14 PM
We stayed with my in laws for the two nights before our wedding, and as part of that, we were not allowed to sleep in the same room at all. In fact, on the night before our wedding, he had to stay in an entirely different house! We abstained until the next afternoon after the wedding when we reached Cozumel, as that's when we finally got to a place where we were actually alone!:bbredface: :bbmrgreen: