I dont know whether to scream or cry!

[hybiscus girl]

i have less than a month untill my wedding....but it seems more can go wrong than right. We ran into some bills and i still dont have everything for the wedding that i need...and my moms added all of her family into it when i told her i didnt want any of them there... im so stressed that i cant even think about the wedding without getting sick...and all the people coming act like this is all about them... but its my day! why dont people get that?:bang_head:im about to just say screw it.....

[gwenshack]

You could always elope! ;) Just kidding - it'll all be fine - it always somehow comes together in the end. But I'm certainly sorry that you're dealing with unneeded stress and financial issues before your big day! :irked: You should be breezing through this time and enjoying it. We're here for you when you need to vent! :hug:

[hybiscus girl]

thank you cause i need it...im just tired of people. our familys have alwayys ruined our wedding. we have been engaged at least 3 times before this and they still ruined it...

[ChristineLS]

Think of it like this: You'll have your husband. As long as they don't ruin that, they can't ruin your wedding. Make it a bit more unpleasently exciting? Yes. Ruin? Nope.

[hybiscus girl]

that is a wonderful idea!! im just worried about drama but that makes me feel better!!!:luxlove:

[The Proper Wedding]

I understand how you're feeling. We've run into quite a few snags ourselves. BUT, now that we're down to the wire (one week), it's all really coming together. Whereas 1-2 weeks ago, I was still frantic about how we're going to afford this, or how do we do that. But it came together...as I'm sure yours will too. Just do your best to ignore your family! Try not to let them influence the decisions you make about your wedding.

[swtearl]

A wedding is suppose to be beautiful and HAPPY! If the families will ruin it...do your own thing!!!

[hybiscus girl]

i just want them to play nice for one day... i dont see that as a bad request. But my family is crazy. and we have 26 days till our wedding so im super nervous

[swtearl]

i just want them to play nice for one day... i dont see that as a bad request. But my family is crazy. and we have 26 days till our wedding so im super nervous

I really hope everything goes GREAT!! I'm sure it will!

[hybiscus girl]

thank you i hope so too

[vermontwedding]

Sometimes there are interruptions that come and go when your waiting for a big event of your life. This may become worst or sometimes just a part of the challenges, so better not give up on anything. Just take it as like those problems you encounter in your daily life. Keep on going..:flower4u:

[Gracey1]

I felt the same way when i got married. Everything seemed to go wrong. my dress was messed up, the woman baking my cake told me two weeks before the wedding that her mother died and she can't do it...everything was going wrong. But it did work out in the end. Just hang in there.

[dearmissie]

Weddings always make people think all the sudden everything is about them. Ughh. So annoying!! What can we do right?? Just remember this is YOUR day and if they want something so bad, they can do it at their OWN wedding.