Starting to tweak...

[Tammy]

So I have 23 days now till my wedding:frantic: My Moms boyfriend got laid off last week, my Mom herself has been for a couple months then she informs me that she somehow screwed up her unemployment checks and hasn't had one in a couple weeks. There is so much left that needs to be paid for!!! The rest of the hall, DJ, caterer, JP, my dress alterations,my sons tux, centerpiece flowers and the photographer. I can most likely swing it but with only 23 days to go I'm starting to freak out!!! What didn't help was FH looking at me this morning and saying...Yeah we're screwed. Thanks Honey that totally didn't help :bbeek:

[NOTKT]

WooooooSaaaaaaa! Just try to relax, I think most of us have money stress right at the end! It will all work out! WooooooSaaaaaaa!

[The Proper Wedding]

As you mentioned in my journal, we're going through this together! So I know exactly how you're feeling! How are we going to swing it? But, it will happen! We'll both be able to do it! If you need to talk or vent, you can always PM me! :) Since I'm currently going through it in the same time frame that you are!!! Hang in there!

[Tammy]

Thanks girls :hug: I'm kinda noticing a pattern with my freaking. I'll be ok then realize something needs attention and this :frantic: starts again lol Before the money thing I got a little freaked about the rehearsal dinner. Once my MOH told me what to do I realized all the details were right in front of me I was just to busy freaking to see. I feel a little better knowing this happens to everyone.

[gwenshack]

Everything works out in the end. So long a you say I Do that's all that matters, right? :flower: It'll all be ok. :heart:

[ChristineLS]

Everything will be fine. It may not pan out *exactly* as you'd hope, but as long as you get out of it with your husband and your life... it's a success. :)

[Tammy]

You were all right...things are coming along fine :) FMIL has been working on my daughters shoes, she re did the charms for my wine glasses and today came home from work bearing flowers!! She bought silk hydrangeas in white and blue for the centerpieces. Yesterday I bought all the candy for my favors about 20 lbs of it! I also bought all the plates and the last of the silverware. So slowly but surely things are coming together :whew:

[weddingbutterfly]

never be afraid to ask for help. We all have natural panic attacks. Just breathe. Take a moment to yourself and find your center. Like everyone has said things just seem to work out in the end. The main important thing is you say "I do" at the end of all this =)

[dearmissie]

Oh sweetie, it'll all work out. I'm sure of it!! Everything will pan out.

[BCLPhotography]

I would recommend speaking to some of the vendors and explaining the situation. Perhaps some of them can cut you some slack. I know that I have deferred delivery of images based on the bride's cashflow. It was no big deal for me to wait an extra couple weeks.