I am at my wits end!!!

[countrygirl]

As some of you already know, Josh and I have been having alot of prob w his ex, most being that she doesn't take care of the kids right. Well, they have been batteling lice since the beginning of summer. They come to our house w it, and we treat it, and they go back to hers, and they have it again. We had it gone, and the kids left for nearly three weeks to thier grandparents house in Iowa. Apparently they had it so bad that mom decided to chop the girls hair off and make them look like little boys. Anyway, by the time they came back from Iowa, they were rid of it, but when they came to our house again 5 days later, the little one is infested again. So, we treated it, again, and it was gone. Now she tells J that they have it again, and that she is going to shave thier heads. THey start school in three weeks. She keeps telling him that it's coming from our house, but my son doesn't have it, we have washed thier sheets, sprayed the beds, and bombed the house to be sure they were gone, and there is no sign of then in the house.

I don't know what else to do!! Any suggestions?

[Kacie_bride]

I have never dealt with this or had any experience at all with this kind of situation, but is there any way CPS could get involved? Call them and have them make her do the same things you are doing to your house to hers. Obviously the lice are coming from over there if you guys do not all have it. Has she even done anything that you know of to her home? And didn't the judge at one time say that she could not cut the girl's hair without Josh's permission?

[hummingbird521]

It sounds as if you have done all you can do. I know this is not much consolation to you at this time. hang in there girl, i have gone through some very similar things myself. one thing you might try doing is documenting everything you do (day, time, what done). documenting covers you and J if and when she ever tries to use this in court. keep all your receipts from cleaning (such as supplies, professionally done or by yourself). if i have learned one thing, it is to document every thing that is done or even said. keep a little disc diary when it comes to the children and what happens while they are at your house. document when they are dirty, hair cuts, appear to be unfed, anything. it can't hurt to do this. and i wish you luck.

[AngelinLove]

I used to work for CPS...adn really there is nothing that they will be able to do about head lice. Now, if you can prove that she is neglectng the that is a differnet story. If CPS comes out to her home she will just tell them that she has done everything she can and that she can't get rid of them...so she is gonna shave their heads!!! Sad....but true!!! My recommendation would be for J to file an emergency motion with Friend of the Court and to tell her that he is doing so and that she cannot shave their heads until then. I would explain that she is effecting them psychologically by shaving their heads and trying to turn them against their dad by telling them and everyone else that they are getting lice from his house. I would keep all my receipts from purchasing bug shampoo, bombs and spray and document, document, document!!!! I would tell her that if she cannot raise the childrena nd take proper care of them and get rid of the bugs, then to leave them with you until the court date...or file for an emergency change in custody until the court date!!!

[countrygirl]

Well, we do have the receipts for the bombs, and it is documented that J took the little one to the dr the first time, and the dr gave them medicated rx for the lice. We have been documenting everything. I was acutally told that CPS couldn't do anything, and yes, she will just lie anyway. But I didn't think about an emergency motion to not cut the hair. IT is effecting the kids, because she is telling the girls that it's coming from our house, and that he is going to keep cutting thier hair short. I can't tell you how many times they told me they want thier hair long again. I will tell Josh about that, thanks Angel.

[AngelinLove]

Good Luck Heather...unfortunately I couldn't begin to tell you how many times I had to deal with crazy a$$ parents like J's ex when I was in CPS. For somereason they just don't know how to be parents and put their children first!!! I hope the best for you all!!!!

[countrygirl]

Good Luck Heather...unfortunately I couldn't begin to tell you how many times I had to deal with crazy a$$ parents like J's ex when I was in CPS. For somereason they just don't know how to be parents and put their children first!!! I hope the best for you all!!!!

Thanks Angel. It really does drive me nuts. I went to pick up the kids yesterday for thier night w us, and she refused to let me take them, and in the process of our arguing, she told me to f-off, and get off her property, with the kids standing about 15 feet behind her. I know that they heard her, and it's really not a good idea for them to hear thier mom tell thier stepmom to f-off.

As much as I hate what she is doing, I hope that she pulls more BS to hang herself in court.

BTW, last night, we found another friend who will come as a witness for us. SHe has known J and his ex for about 4 years, and still stand up for J. That is a MAJOR plus on our side.

[brewsells]

Heather, I have had the exact problem with my daughter and my ex. I don't really know what to tell you to stop it from happening. There was one time she had some serious sores on her head (and there are now scars). I had to take her to the Dr. to get presciption formula stuff. (also, next time, try some mayo on the hair and wrap tightly with saran wrap overnight. This will suffocate them, and it's cheaper)
I'm really sorry that you have to deal with all this ****, but I have a strong feeling that you and J will end up with the children and you won't have to deal with this **** anymore. I wish you both the best of luck. For your sake as well as the children.

[cowboysbride]

I have never dealt with this or had any experience at all with this kind of situation, but is there any way CPS could get involved? Call them and have them make her do the same things you are doing to your house to hers. Obviously the lice are coming from over there if you guys do not all have it. Has she even done anything that you know of to her home? And didn't the judge at one time say that she could not cut the girl's hair without Josh's permission?

That's exactly what I was going to suggest, sounds like to me she is using the kids to torment you and Josh....

[SerendipityCrafts]

I do know that lice are persistent little buggers. My friend is dealing with the same situation.

She gets the kids lice free, sends them over to her ex's house and when she gets the kids back she also gets the lice. The doctor told her that this is because the treatment(s) have to continue (despite what it might say on the box). Because her ex doesn't see any live lice when he gets the kids, he doesn't think that he should do anything but then more eggs hatch and she is back to square one when she gets the kids back, she has to start the process over again (and again and again).

BTW - my friend's dr. also suggested using the product and wrapping the kids head with saran or a plastic grocery bag. So far so good. She thinks she's finally done with them.

Is she doing anything other than cutting off their hair?

[countrygirl]

Heather, I have had the exact problem with my daughter and my ex. I don't really know what to tell you to stop it from happening. There was one time she had some serious sores on her head (and there are now scars). I had to take her to the Dr. to get presciption formula stuff. (also, next time, try some mayo on the hair and wrap tightly with saran wrap overnight. This will suffocate them, and it's cheaper)
I'm really sorry that you have to deal with all this ****, but I have a strong feeling that you and J will end up with the children and you won't have to deal with this **** anymore. I wish you both the best of luck. For your sake as well as the children.

Thanks Holly. Sorry to hear about your daughter. I didn't know that it could so bad that it scars.

[brewsells]

Thanks Holly. Sorry to hear about your daughter. I didn't know that it could so bad that it scars.

It can if they scratch at it so long without it being treated.

[countrygirl]

It can if they scratch at it so long without it being treated.

Truely sad isn't it? We have to do something to nip this now!!!

[WebLady]

I don't know what to say but I hope you guys can get this all worked out soon :hug:

[septemberbride06]

me and joe are going through a kind of similar situation, except she won't even let us see the little boy. (April was the last time) He is 4 years old. We aresaving up for an attorney to try to get custody,but make sure to write down EVERYTHING!!! I feel so bad for him. She also uses their little boy as a way to get back at us. It's truely sad!! :( :bbcry:

[countrygirl]

me and joe are going through a kind of similar situation, except she won't even let us see the little boy. (April was the last time) He is 4 years old. We aresaving up for an attorney to try to get custody,but make sure to write down EVERYTHING!!! I feel so bad for him. She also uses their little boy as a way to get back at us. It's truely sad!! :( :bbcry:

What your 'x' doesn't realize is that will totally come back on her. I have been thru a nasty battle w my x and he wanted custody, but didnt' have a job, made up lies, accused me of kidnapping, and the list goes on and on. What they do does come back!!! Turn abouts fair play.

[Valmai]

Im sorry ur going thru this **** and even more sorry for the poor kids - bless them! There are other ways to get rid of lice rather than keep putting chemicals on the girls heads, the lice will become resistant to the chemicals anyways. Try either using conditioner and leaving it on (they cant grip the hair so easily or lay eggs on there then) and combing it thru, using tea tree oil shampoo is something being pushed in schools over here @ mo too to prevent them. Also i dont know if u have them over there but u can get nit combs that send out electrical impulses and kill the nits/lice.
It seems so ridiculous that u have to keep doing this and then shes doing nothing when they are with her, try saying to the children as they leave that there is now nothing in their hair and thats why it feels nice etc they will realise in the end im sure but that doesnt make this easier on them @ mo does it. Good luck
xxx

[StaceyMc]

If you have an attorney, call him/her right away with this information and ask if you can file an Emergency Motion for Custody. How much are these children supposed to endure before the Court gets them out of there? I feel for these children. When you post about them, I can feel your love for them and it has to be breaking your heart to see them going through this. To shave a child's head because she can't take care of a problem is unbelievable!

[countrygirl]

I talked to J last night, and he is going to the courts on Monday, he can't go today because he has a bunch of meetings that he won't let out of. I really hope that he can do something before she does.

Thanks for all the support and advice. It has certainly helped.

[cowboysbride]

I'm here thinking of you girlfriend, keep us posted!

[CindySue]

Good Luck with all of that. How old are the girls? And you said there was a boy? He doesnt have it?

[countrygirl]

Good Luck with all of that. How old are the girls? And you said there was a boy? He doesnt have it?

The girls are five and seven, and his son is 9. The seven year old, and his som haven't ever had it at our house. But she always insists that all three have it. She shaved his head before they went to Iowa because she said he had it so bad. I don't know, I have never seen it on him, and we check all three everytime they are over. I told J that if they have it when they are to come back,they can't because this is obvoiusly a prob, and I can't have my son getting it (he hasn't yet) and it gives more time at her house, so it will prove to be a prob at her house, not ours. Does that make sense?

[CindySue]

The girls are five and seven, and his son is 9. The seven year old, and his som haven't ever had it at our house. But she always insists that all three have it. She shaved his head before they went to Iowa because she said he had it so bad. I don't know, I have never seen it on him, and we check all three everytime they are over. I told J that if they have it when they are to come back,they can't because this is obvoiusly a prob, and I can't have my son getting it (he hasn't yet) and it gives more time at her house, so it will prove to be a prob at her house, not ours. Does that make sense?
I undertsand where you are coming from with not wanting your son to get it, but if the girls dont get to come to their dads because of lice, just imagine what their mom is going to say to them.....she already sounds like a cold hearted :censored: and those babies have been tramatized enough by her. It also sounds like at your house is the only place they get treatment......
Im not there so I dont know the whole situation, this is your life and your decision.....its just that my first thought was "what kind of c r a p will she feed them over this?"
Good luck with this girl......sounds like you need lots of it!!!

[LaceyinPgh]

I undertsand where you are coming from with not wanting your son to get it, but if the girls dont get to come to their dads because of lice, just imagine what their mom is going to say to them.....she already sounds like a cold hearted :censored: and those babies have been tramatized enough by her. It also sounds like at your house is the only place they get treatment......
Im not there so I dont know the whole situation, this is your life and your decision.....its just that my first thought was "what kind of c r a p will she feed them over this?"
Good luck with this girl......sounds like you need lots of it!!!
I am going to do something that I have NEVER done before. I am going to go against Cindy. (I'm sorry Cindy, I still love you!)

Those kids don't need there. Once you get lice in your house, they don't go away easily. If the kids had the flu or the chicken pox would you still have them over around you and your son? Probably not. Besides, if they are over there for a week or two and they aren't over the lice, and no one at your house has it or has ever had it, than you just made your case. It isn't coming from you and J.

[CindySue]

I am going to do something that I have NEVER done before. I am going to go against Cindy. (I'm sorry Cindy, I still love you!)

Those kids don't need there. Once you get lice in your house, they don't go away easily. If the kids had the flu or the chicken pox would you still have them over around you and your son? Probably not. Besides, if they are over there for a week or two and they aren't over the lice, and no one at your house has it or has ever had it, than you just made your case. It isn't coming from you and J.
Im not mad Lacey.....I DO see where you are Heather are both coming from. If it were me in this situation, I would feel the same. I just wish there was a way for Heather and Josh to talk to them and explain why, because I think they can get the girls to understand without hurting their feelings......I can just see his ex being brutal with this....:censored:

[countrygirl]

I undertsand where you are coming from with not wanting your son to get it, but if the girls dont get to come to their dads because of lice, just imagine what their mom is going to say to them.....she already sounds like a cold hearted :censored: and those babies have been tramatized enough by her. It also sounds like at your house is the only place they get treatment......
Im not there so I dont know the whole situation, this is your life and your decision.....its just that my first thought was "what kind of c r a p will she feed them over this?"
Good luck with this girl......sounds like you need lots of it!!!

Thanks Cindy. I don't want to be mean to the kids, I know that the x has told them that the lice is coming from our house, but we have talked to the kids and explained that we have cleaned everything, and they told us that thier mom never did.

And you know the part that is starting to piss me off the most is my son. And it's not just about the lice. Its about her not letting me pick up the kids, and fighting w me in front of them. They didn't get to come over, and my son was crying about it. He loves them so much and it makes him sooooo sad that they didn't come over. He asked J everyday morning now if he gets to pick them up. It hurts him, and that pisses me off. I don't want to see him sad. She is trying so hard to hurt J, that she is hurting the kids, and now my son, and NO ONE HURTS MY SON AND GETS AWAY WITH IT!! You want to see the German blood flare, that is a good way to do it!!!!!

[CindySue]

Thanks Cindy. I don't want to be mean to the kids, I know that the x has told them that the lice is coming from our house, but we have talked to the kids and explained that we have cleaned everything, and they told us that thier mom never did.

And you know the part that is starting to piss me off the most is my son. And it's not just about the lice. Its about her not letting me pick up the kids, and fighting w me in front of them. They didn't get to come over, and my son was crying about it. He loves them so much and it makes him sooooo sad that they didn't come over. He asked J everyday morning now if he gets to pick them up. It hurts him, and that pisses me off. I don't want to see him sad. She is trying so hard to hurt J, that she is hurting the kids, and now my son, and NO ONE HURTS MY SON AND GETS AWAY WITH IT!! You want to see the German blood flare, that is a good way to do it!!!!!
Im the same way....I can handle a LOT of sh!t, but you start messing with my kids and theres going to be trouble..........
Will Nico understand why they can't come because of the lice? Too bad the girls couldnt be treated before he was to pick them up.......

[countrygirl]

Im the same way....I can handle a LOT of sh!t, but you start messing with my kids and theres going to be trouble..........
Will Nico understand why they can't come because of the lice? Too bad the girls couldnt be treated before he was to pick them up.......

Nico will understand. I explain everything to him, and he is one heck of a smart little guy. He knows that the kids mom isn't nice to J, and that is what HE sees, not what I say. I have explained everything to him.

We have talked to the kids, and they know that it's not from us. I know that they want to come over, but like I said, J talks to them about everything. He explains why things are the was they are w out being mean about thier mom. He just tells them how it is w out the emotions. Last weekend, when we treated the girls, we did tell them that they were getting treated for dry scalp, because the little does get it bad. We didn't tell them that it was lice because we didn't want them to feel worse about them selves, and we took care of the prob, so there was no need to tell them. But sure enough, she had to open her mouth and tell them that we have bugs. All we can really do from this point is be honest w them, and keep being honest. Eventually, they will come to understand why some things happen the way the do, and I guarentee that as they grow older, they will respect the fact that we have always been honest.

Man, can I blab today or what??

[CindySue]

Nico will understand. I explain everything to him, and he is one heck of a smart little guy. He knows that the kids mom isn't nice to J, and that is what HE sees, not what I say. I have explained everything to him.

We have talked to the kids, and they know that it's not from us. I know that they want to come over, but like I said, J talks to them about everything. He explains why things are the was they are w out being mean about thier mom. He just tells them how it is w out the emotions. Last weekend, when we treated the girls, we did tell them that they were getting treated for dry scalp, because the little does get it bad. We didn't tell them that it was lice because we didn't want them to feel worse about them selves, and we took care of the prob, so there was no need to tell them. But sure enough, she had to open her mouth and tell them that we have bugs. All we can really do from this point is be honest w them, and keep being honest. Eventually, they will come to understand why some things happen the way the do, and I guarentee that as they grow older, they will respect the fact that we have always been honest.

Man, can I blab today or what??
Blab away!
I have one question and PLEASE dont take it the wrong way, I just know how thing tend to be in my state. If he doesnt get the kids for visitation because of the lice, (and this is completely understandable) will this mess up what hes trying to do with the custody thing?

[countrygirl]

Blab away!
I have one question and PLEASE dont take it the wrong way, I just know how thing tend to be in my state. If he doesnt get the kids for visitation because of the lice, (and this is completely understandable) will this mess up what hes trying to do with the custody thing?

No, because as Lacey stated, it's the same as if they had the flu. It's contageous, and they need to stay home. He is doing what he can to get them treated, and into see a dr. as they have to go on base for it and the x can't go on base. It's up to her to make sure that they are treated at home.

And I would never take anything you say wrong Cindy.

[CindySue]

No, because as Lacey stated, it's the same as if they had the flu. It's contageous, and they need to stay home. He is doing what he can to get them treated, and into see a dr. as they have to go on base for it and the x can't go on base. It's up to her to make sure that they are treated at home.

And I would never take anything you say wrong Cindy.
I know Texas can be really anal when it comes to custody stuff. Make sure he takes a witness so its documented as to why, so she cant say he just didnt.
When is he supposed to get them next?

[LaceyinPgh]

You know unless she gets that lice issue under control, those kids aren't going to be allowed to start school. They won't be allowed in the doors until the school nurse says that they are lice free. J needs to call his custody attorney and get this under control.

[countrygirl]

Yeah, I told J last night that they can't start school until this is taken care of. We are suppsed to get them next week. I have a feeling that she still wants to just shave thier heads because she doens't want to take the time to deal w it correctly.

We don't have an atty, we can't afford one. The good thing is that if he gets an apt for them, they HAVE to go. She cannot refuse medical treatment. The military is very strong on making sure that the kids get in to see the dr when the conditions are chronic, and they can get into trouble if they don't. I don't think that she will with hold them from the dr. She tried to tell him that she took them to the dr a few days ago, but the prob there is that w the insurance, they have to go to the base urgent care, and even if she went to the urgent care, she would have to pay a couple hundres $$ for the visit, and she can't afford that.

[LaceyinPgh]

Yeah, I told J last night that they can't start school until this is taken care of. We are suppsed to get them next week. I have a feeling that she still wants to just shave thier heads because she doens't want to take the time to deal w it correctly.

We don't have an atty, we can't afford one. The good thing is that if he gets an apt for them, they HAVE to go. She cannot refuse medical treatment. The military is very strong on making sure that the kids get in to see the dr when the conditions are chronic, and they can get into trouble if they don't. I don't think that she will with hold them from the dr. She tried to tell him that she took them to the dr a few days ago, but the prob there is that w the insurance, they have to go to the base urgent care, and even if she went to the urgent care, she would have to pay a couple hundres $$ for the visit, and she can't afford that.

Well then get them to the doctor. It is ridiculous that this is going on. I'm sorry but today it is so easy to get rid of lice if you just do what you are supposed to do. Throw away the hair brushes and combs, was all the linens in hot water, clean their clothes, and use an over the counter lice remover.

I worked as a reading specialist for a year while working on my teaching cert. It was in an elementary school, and whenever we had a lice break out, we sent the same list of instructions home to parents.

Even if you and J get it under control. if she isn't taking care of the essentials on her end the second they get home they are going to be reinfected. what does that say about a person. I mean they find it acceptable to live with parasites?

My advice is that every time you get them take them to the doctor so that it is documented that you are treating it.

[CindySue]

My advice is that every time you get them take them to the doctor so that it is documented that you are treating it.
Awsome point!!!!!!

[countrygirl]

Well this is what we have done, and what we are doing.

First infestation: J took the little one to the dr (she was the one w it). They gave him 6 tubes of medicated conditioner. He took her to her mom's (it was her time w the kids) and gave her four tubes, and instructed her to use it on everyone in the house. She waited two days to do anything, and didn't follow the directions.

We washed all the kids sheets, sprayed thier beds, and checked everyone in the house. No one had it. The next weekend, the kids were at our house, and the little one still had it, so we used the meds.

We didn't hear about it again until about a month later when the kids were in Iowa for two weeks. During that time, she called and said that all three were completely infested, but she sent them to thier grandparen't house anyway. She said it was coming from our house but they hadn't been there in (at that time) three weeks. She said she had bombed her house three times, and they were gone. They then spent three days w thier mom.

When they returned to our house, we checked them, and the little one had it again. We washed everything, used the meds on the girls (the boys showed no signs and the girls don't go in thier rooms), washed everything, sprayed the beds again. We bombed the house (saved the reciept) and J called the dr, but couldn't get thru (weekend). We used the meds again the next day, washed everything again, and there was nothing there.

They went home, and three days later, she called and said they are infested again and all need thier head shaved. Here is the thing. You leave the meds in thier hair for 8-14 hours, and then wash it. She leaves it in 20 min and washed. Hmmm, where is the prob???? DER!

He is getting her into a doc again, and filing for an emer motion in court to ask for her not to be allowed to shave thier head. They start school in two weeks, what is she thinking?

We also may call CPS to ask what can be done, even if they tell us nothing, at least it will be filed that he called.

[CindySue]

Well this is what we have done, and what we are doing.

First infestation: J took the little one to the dr (she was the one w it). They gave him 6 tubes of medicated conditioner. He took her to her mom's (it was her time w the kids) and gave her four tubes, and instructed her to use it on everyone in the house. She waited two days to do anything, and didn't follow the directions.

We washed all the kids sheets, sprayed thier beds, and checked everyone in the house. No one had it. The next weekend, the kids were at our house, and the little one still had it, so we used the meds.

We didn't hear about it again until about a month later when the kids were in Iowa for two weeks. During that time, she called and said that all three were completely infested, but she sent them to thier grandparen't house anyway. She said it was coming from our house but they hadn't been there in (at that time) three weeks. She said she had bombed her house three times, and they were gone. They then spent three days w thier mom.

When they returned to our house, we checked them, and the little one had it again. We washed everything, used the meds on the girls (the boys showed no signs and the girls don't go in thier rooms), washed everything, sprayed the beds again. We bombed the house (saved the reciept) and J called the dr, but couldn't get thru (weekend). We used the meds again the next day, washed everything again, and there was nothing there.

They went home, and three days later, she called and said they are infested again and all need thier head shaved. Here is the thing. You leave the meds in thier hair for 8-14 hours, and then wash it. She leaves it in 20 min and washed. Hmmm, where is the prob???? DER!

He is getting her into a doc again, and filing for an emer motion in court to ask for her not to be allowed to shave thier head. They start school in two weeks, what is she thinking?

We also may call CPS to ask what can be done, even if they tell us nothing, at least it will be filed that he called.
D A M N girl....wished I would have documented stuff like that back when my ex was being a butt.

[cowboysbride]

Lemme at her, I swear only 2 minutes and your problems will be OVER, although I may need Lacey to help me change my identity and move in with Cindy!

[CindySue]

Lemme at her, I swear only 2 minutes and your problems will be OVER, although I may need Lacey to help me change my identity and move in with Cindy!
:bbevil: :chair: :fear: :bb:

[LaceyinPgh]

Lemme at her, I swear only 2 minutes and your problems will be OVER, although I may need Lacey to help me change my identity and move in with Cindy!
When the hell did I become a document forger? Although, I do know a guy who might know a guy over in the Hill District.......:bbeek:

[cowboysbride]

When the hell did I become a document forger? Although, I do know a guy who might know a guy over in the Hill District.......:bbeek:

Never said YOU would do it but you seem to be in the know on lots of stuff, you were a logical choice, that and I would be hungry and in need of some fancy food before PRISON!

[countrygirl]

When the hell did I become a document forger? Although, I do know a guy who might know a guy over in the Hill District.......:bbeek:

If that doesn't work, Ellen, you can move here and we can just say you are my sister. W the heigth, you would pass.

[LaceyinPgh]

Never said YOU would do it but you seem to be in the know on lots of stuff, you were a logical choice, that and I would be hungry and in need of some fancy food before PRISON!

Tragically sometimes, I am in the know about too much stuff.

[cowboysbride]

If that doesn't work, Ellen, you can move here and we can just say you are my sister. W the heigth, you would pass.

I can't live with you silly after knocking her off, your place would be the first joint the Po-Po would look at!

[CindySue]

I can't live with you silly after knocking her off, your place would be the first joint the Po-Po would look at!
She's got a point Heather! And as much as I love her, we will definitley have to discuss this me haboring a fugitive thing.

[cowboysbride]

She's got a point Heather! And as much as I love her, we will definitley have to discuss this me haboring a fugitive thing.


I clean! And I make awesome beans, cornbread and fried taters!

[CindySue]

I clean! And I make awesome beans, cornbread and fried taters!
Shore, but Kentucky beans, conebread and fried taters aint no match fer the ones from Texas!!!

On 2nd thought........the cleaning might work.........

[cowboysbride]

Shore, but Kentucky beans, conebread and fried taters aint no match fer the ones from Texas!!!

On 2nd thought........the cleaning might work.........

Oh really????? Well hmphhhhhh then I bet our catfish has yours beat all to hell.........................and I make some mean hushpuppies!:bbmrgreen:

[LaceyinPgh]

Oh really????? Well hmphhhhhh then I bet our catfish has yours beat all to hell.........................and I make some mean hushpuppies!:bbmrgreen:
If you can make hushpuppies, you can lie low here.

[brewsells]

Oh really????? Well hmphhhhhh then I bet our catfish has yours beat all to hell.........................and I make some mean hushpuppies!:bbmrgreen:

I'm good with the catfish! I'll catch 'em, you cook 'em!

[CindySue]

Oh really????? Well hmphhhhhh then I bet our catfish has yours beat all to hell.........................and I make some mean hushpuppies!:bbmrgreen:
Hmmmmm......well now I cant argue about the hushpuppies cuz I cant make them, but on the catfish....Im thinking maybe a cook off.......?

[AngelinLove]

Hey you **** hijackers...lol...this is a custody/dumba$$ baby mama drama thread...and you ladies have managed to turn into a food thread....I swear...what are we gonna do with ya'll!!!!

[countrygirl]

I think that if ya'll are gunna collaborate on this, it's best that I go into hiding. I don't want any loose strings pulling me back up......too many people who like to gossip in this group.

[brewsells]

Hey you **** hijackers...lol...this is a custody/dumba$$ baby mama drama thread...and you ladies have managed to turn into a food thread....I swear...what are we gonna do with ya'll!!!!

Sorry, Heather!!

[CindySue]

Sorry, Heather!!
Same here.....Sorry Heather......

[countrygirl]

Um, yeah, how dare you hijack my thread. Would I ever do that to you???

Oh, wait, forgot who I am. heehee I didn't seem to notice that it even got hijacked!!

I guess that means I have a REAL problem when I can't even see hijacking right in front of my face!!!!

[AngelinLove]

Yeah.....I was being teh hijacking police today....I'm sorry...please don't get out the cattle prod or chair on me!!!!

[countrygirl]

Yeah.....I was being teh hijacking police today....I'm sorry...please don't get out the cattle prod or chair on me!!!!

I will forgive you this time Angel, just don't let it happen again.

But, I think this makes you Queen Hijacker. You have managed to hijack a hijacked thread.

YOU Rock!!

[rainbowtreat]

You guys kill me with this stuff. Keep hijacking and yelling at each other for it. It is fun to read lol.

[CindySue]

You guys kill me with this stuff. Keep hijacking and yelling at each other for it. It is fun to read lol.
Thats bad!!!!!!

[theweddinghelper]

I just want you to know that I am here for you too!
As soon as I read this I once again prayed for you, Josh, and the kids!
We'll let God fight your battle too, It's always a plus to have him on our side! :)

[countrygirl]

I just want you to know that I am here for you too!
As soon as I read this I once again prayed for you, Josh, and the kids!
We'll let God fight your battle too, It's always a plus to have him on our side! :)

I just want to tell all of you ladies how much your support means to me. I don't know that I would be able to handle situations calmly (as camley as I do-yeah right) w out you.

Thank you.

[CindySue]

Hey Heather, did Josh talk to the court yesterday about the emergency custody thing?

[countrygirl]

Hey Heather, did Josh talk to the court yesterday about the emergency custody thing?

No, they held him at work too long. They had a jet break down, and they didn't get out in time. And I think that is the way its going to go the rest of the week. He's lucky to be getting time off next week for court!!!