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70707Bride
07-31-2006, 11:34 PM
Ok, so today was my last day in the apartment with my best friend/MoH. So starting tomorrow we will be officially living together, my friend included. Any advice? Lol, thx.
WhiskeyGirl
08-01-2006, 01:17 AM
Communication!! And remember that this is the first time you're living together and that you won't do things a like! Pick your battles wisely...but don't pick too many! Remember that it is both new for the both of you...give each other space and remember to laugh and have fun together!! That's the second most important thing to communication!! :D Have fun!! I moved in with my DH three months into dating...it was great!! :D
Kacie_bride
08-01-2006, 08:19 AM
So it is going to be you, your FH, and a roomie. That is what we are doing now. It is Justin and I and his best friend. It was okay at first, but I am so ready for it to be just the two of us and our pets. It is not that I don't like him, it's more of the fact I want it to My house and I don't want any of his decorating opinons. I want to walk around the house naked if I want to. LOL. And I really do not like him having a dog because he does not care for her in the calibur that I care for my dog. She is causing my dog to have fleas and I don't like it.

Just know that after awhile it may get old to have an extra person. It'll be easier on you because it's your friend. At first it may be down right fun. We have had lots of good times here. We've lived like this for a year and 8 months now. Just don't make it as long as we have.
CindySue
08-01-2006, 09:44 AM
Good Luck on taking this step. It is a big one.
The main thing I was scared about when Brian and I moved in together was knowing that we do things different, but would that get on my nerves? Would it get on his nerves? We have been able to see both sides and work together to come up with a solution that works for both of us.
Communication and compromise have carried us through a lot!!!!!
countrygirl
08-01-2006, 09:46 AM
Good luck girl!! It's a big step, but one worth taking. Just remember to talk, alot, when things get to you. There will be times that he will drive you nuts, but talking about things tends to help, ALOT!!
70707Bride
08-01-2006, 11:14 AM
Thx ladies! I don't think I'll get sick of my friend, I mean, we've been best friends since 2nd grade now we're seniors in college! lol. I don't think there's anything that she does (she's a blonde, no offense lol) anymore that suprises me.
Kacie_bride
08-01-2006, 11:41 AM
Thx ladies! I don't think I'll get sick of my friend, I mean, we've been best friends since 2nd grade now we're seniors in college! lol. I don't think there's anything that she does (she's a blonde, no offense lol) anymore that suprises me.

You may not get sick of her, but your FH might. Like I said, Trae (our roommate and FH's best friend) is one of my closest friends and would do anything for me, but it is getting to the point where I really want to be alone with my husband to be. Defiantely after we are married I want it to be just us. It's nothing against Trae and I do not think any less of him now. Actually we are closer for obvious reasons. When I Justin and I moved back to this town it worked out well. We were able to movie into a much nicer house with a roommate. Without one we would be stuck in a little house in town or an apartment. Now we live in a 4 br, 2 bath, brick home on 1 acre with a garage and game room. We will be looking for something else in the next few months though. We have more expendable income now to make it on our own and I am graduating so I'll have after December.