Are you inviting your Mom, Aunt, etc. to your Bachelorette Party?

[MOB Karen]

Amber is inviting me and my sister (her Aunt) to her Bachelorette Party. I just curious about yours. :D

[WhiskeyGirl]

Yes, my mom and all her sisters were at my Bacherlorette party. That was when we were on speaking terms.

[AngelinLove]

Nope....we are havimg a pure romance party and I think that it would be innappropriate!!! I wouldn't have minded inviting my mom and aunt, but my mom has passed and my aunt lives out of state!!! Joel's mom would not be down for that type of party!!!

[WhiskeyGirl]

Nope....we are havimg a pure romance party and I think that it would be innappropriate!!! I wouldn't have minded inviting my mom and aunt, but my mom has passed and my aunt lives out of state!!! Joel's mom would not be down for that type of party!!!

Lol I had a similar party. It was called a "Suprise Party"...my mom and aunts were the rowdiest of them all!! lol How embarassing..however my MIL and (evil) SIL didn't come because I thought it was inappropriate with my MIL and I don't like my SIL so I didn't invite her!! Opps. LOl

[LaceyinPgh]

My mom, her best friend, my two sils, and my mil were at my bachlorette party. We just went to dinner and a show.

[Kacie_bride]

I am inviting my mom, but not my aunts. My aunts on my dad's side are very conservative. They don't like alcohol etc. The aunts on my mom's side are all out of town so that would not work. They would be fun to hang with.

[WebLady]

I didn't have one, but no I wouldn't have invited any of my family to a party where I might get drunk and/or do something they may not approve of ;)

[SoontobeMrsClark07]

We havent decided yet but I dont think that my family members will be invited. We do have a "naughty" party that family (over a certain age) and friends attend. Its where you get all kinds of naughty things to wear and stuff like that. The bachelorette party will be a whole different ball game I'm sure!

[mariaandmanish]

Everyone was invited to mine, luckily I have an open-minded family considering that we went to a drag queen club. But, my family does not live close, so they couldn't come anyway. Only my FMiL wasn't invited (my fSIL's decision) and that's good cause she would not have understood.

[nikkiana]

If we end up having a batchlor/ette party (we're having a combined party if we do), it'll just be friends and possibly any cousins who are around that are our age...

[mlm063007]

If we end up having a batchlor/ette party (we're having a combined party if we do), it'll just be friends and possibly any cousins who are around that are our age...

This is what we are planning on doing also. We will invite pretty much everyone, though.

[brewsells]

My mom is invited to mine. FMIL is not though. She is a rather religious person so she wouldn't like it anyway. My mom is another story though. Not the typical mom. :D

[KristyGirl]

I didn't have a bachette, but if I did, I probably wouldn't have invited my mother or other relatives. In the same token, they probably wouldn't have expected an invite either.

[Jena1984]

My Mom, and my Step Mom are invited. They are going to be the life of the party. We are all close enough in age that we can still party and drink and be rowdy together!!!! But I am not close with a few of my aunts and the one that I am close with is in recovery, so I don't want o do that to her. She can come to the befor stuff, but not the bar/drinking part

[cowboysbride]

Mine was just me my SIL and a great friend of ours. But I didn't care who came or what we did. Although after the Jim Beam got to working on me and the gifts took a turn for the sexual nature it was a good thing the moms weren't there...although the gifts woulnd't have bothered them but me being me and buzzed (not a good combo) wasn't something I wanted them to witness! LOL

[hummingbird521]

No way would I have invited my mother if I had had a party. We are close, but I tend to worry about what she thinks all the time. And if alcohol had been involved or anything of a sexual nature then she would have died a slow burning death.

[countrygirl]

Well, since by the time of the wedding, all of my fam will be living out of state (other than g'ma) they won't be at the bach party, or bridal shower.:bbcry:

[rainbowtreat]

I didnt have one but if I did my mom would defently be there. My mom and I have been mroe like sisters then mother and daughter. She was only 18 when she had me and now that I am grown with my own kids her and I are like sisters. She lives 7 hours from me but when we get the chance we do things together. My mom is just as crazy if not crazier then me. You should see me, my mom and my sister when we get together. I love it.

[EarlyBird]

while i really want my mom there, she feels it could make my cousins (4 of them are bms) very uncomfortable so she is not coming. So we are going to have a "lingere" party an hour before we leave for the bachlorette so that she can have some fun with us etc

[BarceloMayaPalaceBride]

We are having a girls night out in a hummer limo and are going to get pretty wild. I love my mom to pieces, but I don't think she would feel comfortable. However, I am having my 65 year old co-worker (whom I've become very close with) come with us (She's pretty wild too) hehe

[caligal85]

My mom would not be down for that. She's all about me having fun with the girls.

[saltyveruca]

Heck no! But my friend's mom said she wanted to come if we had a stripper (we didn't). Haha. My little sister (21) came, and I think she was a little uncomfortable, but she had to leave early anyway.

[RosieAngel]

We had ours be friends only, though his family found us and crashed it, then called the officiant and her family, who called the rest of the guests, aaaaaaand pretty soon all 30 wedding guests were there!

One of the perils of a Destination Wedding on a small island is that no matter where you go, you can't hide! :ooh: But it was a lot of fun!

[thetsakid]

what we did was my mom and her best friend who is like a mom to me went out to eat with all the girls and then they left after that...that way they are still included but not really..lol

[SarahPearl]

My bridal shower will be open to everyone..my bachelorette party on the other hand, is for friends that I can go wild and crazy with. :D

[sandy03]

I think my MOH said the bachelorette party is just going to be the wedding party girls.

I'm hosting my own party for all my female friends, but it'll just be friends (mostly those I went to school with) to celebrate the end of the school year and graduation for many of us, as well as the wedding. I'm very excited because it'll be "a night of wine and cheese" (lots of food, bottles of wine, and cheesy wedding movies! I can't wait!!)

My future MIL basically mandated that she, her mother (groom's grandmother), and her 2 sisters (his aunts) be invited to ALL my parties, but I figure since I'm not hosting it's not my place to say who is and isn't coming. My mother is deceased and I really don't get along with my aunt (mom's sister) so I'm pretty much flying solo on that stuff.

I didn't think the bride actually chose the guest list for parties - i know it's ok to provide the wedding list as a guideline for them to choose from, but since she isn't hosting that seems kind of rude to me. Maybe I'm just out of the loop.

[MrsFuchs09]

no, we're having a male stripper....it's just gonna be my girlfriends who are 18 and older and one of my gay best friends (who's a male attendant.) there will probably be underage drinking too...but I'm not into that stuff. but knowing some of them...they'll find a way.

[gwenshack]

I'm not having a bachelorette party, but if I did I would invite my mom. She's easily offended by things like strippers, but sometimes she can get in the spirit of things if it's a special occasion...
I don't really have a lot of girlfriends - well, I have like 3 and a sister - so if I had one it would be girlfriends of my ACTUAL friends - most of whom I don't know very well and/or am not particularly fond of.
So instead I'm having a night out with my friends the night before so that my friends (read - guys) can hang out and celebrate with me. Also, as I've mentioned on other threads, I'm so very much not interested in wearing a veil from Claire's decorated with plastic penises...:)

[Jettadear]

I offered the idea to my mom as a joke and she told me that mothers are not supposed to be at the party and that she as my mother doesn't want to see anything that happens on that night. lol

[Scrwballsgrl]

As far as i know we are just planning a get together for everyone (guys & girls alike) at someones house with music, food & drinks; so there'd be no reason why she couldn't be there. But I don't think she would expect to be there or would come if we asked her. She might say, "Thats a night for you young people:)"

[MrsBacon_092708]

My mom, my sister, my aunt and a couple of cousins showed up. Anything I would do away from them I would do in front of them. If anything they would be the ones to embarrass me anyway. :bbredface: They are all crazier than you know what!

[sjk1431]

I had all of my family there with me it was a blast.