Yes or No? Are you ok with FH having a stripper at his bachelor party?

[MOB Karen]

Let us know your thoughts about this topic. :bbmrgreen:

[Kacie_bride]

I don't really care wether or not there will be one. Justin does not really like strippers anyway. If his friends get him one then that's fine. I don't care. It's not a big deal to me.

[SoontobeMrsClark07]

I dont like it and I dont want him to have one, but he says its up to his guys (meaning whether we like it or not this is what they're doing).

FH is looking into other alternatives though because he's kinda over the whole stripper thing although his buddies think its the best thing since sliced bread. To FH its starting to seem kinda immature (because thats all they would talk about in high school) and he says that he's almost rather have a night out where they went to something like ESPN Zone and had food, beer, football, and games.

So though it sounds like his mind is made up, the jury is kinda still out on this one....

[WhiskeyGirl]

I didn't like the thought at all!! And neither did Matthew. Neither of us think that strippers are appropriate. So Matt talked with is GMs and they understood that that was our choice. With that being said, if they had gone to a strip bar I know that Matt would have had a few drink and then suggested that they leave. Besides only one of our GMs were single and Brennan is not that kind of dirty guy.

Matt's thoughts on strippers are:

Why do I need to see naked women dancing around on stage? If I wanted to see taht I'd go home and see my wife and enjoy it...not be repulsed by all the plastic and silicone shaking on stage!!

[darkangel090260]

if Ross wonted one i would not have a problem with it . But there is a string attached they would be one of my friend from SF that strip.AKA built in babysitter for him and his boys.. I think the only striper Ross would let me have is my best friend Tony . But that would be no fun because it would be like seen that befor.

[AngelinLove]

I don't care either way!!!! I would prefer that he not...but Joel is not into strippers and will only be going if that is what his GM plan. It is one night and I trust him...I know that he will not do anything that would disrespect our relationship. I do not agree with the whole premise of strip clubs and can guarantee you that there will be no naked men at my bachelorette party...unless of course some drunk guy at the karaoke bar gets out of hand..lol!!!

[mj512]

haha no way

[Amber818]

I do not have a problem with it at all. I have been to strip clubs with Jason before and I had a lot of fun. I know he will most likely frequent many strip clubs with his boys on his bachelor party night.

[WebLady]

I voted no, but I have mixed feelings on this. I have been to strip clubs before with former BF's and had a good time, but I am over that. I know DH has frequented strip clubs with his friends in the past (even dated a stripper before me) but he hasn't been since we've been together. He tells me he is kind of over it too.

When we told everyone we were getting married, some of his friends wanted to go out and have a bachelor party and I know they would have gone to a strip club and I guess that would have been fine. But he didn't end up going out and I am glad.

We have had talks about my feelings about strip clubs in general, if we wants to go out with his friends and waste our money on strippers then that is fine ... but he knows 'the rules'

The rules are, no touching and no lap dances, I don't care if someone else pays for it! The way I see it is that is MY space and I don't want another woman that close to him. I trust my man and he says he understands and would respect my wishes if he ever went again.

ETA - I really hope he doesn't ever want to go again. I have urge to go to a male strip club and see a bunch of half naked men!

LOL, maybe I will add to 'the rules' and say that he has to give me the same about of money he is planning to spend at the strip club and I will just go shopping ;)

[LaceyinPgh]

Nope. If my husband feels the need to degrade women by treating them as useless sexual objects, than he needs to find a wife that is willing to put up with it. I'm not that wife.

[WhiskeyGirl]

Nope. If my husband feels the need to degrade women by treating them as useless sexual objects, than he needs to find a wife that is willing to put up with it. I'm not that wife.

I agree Lacey!!

[CindySue]

Its not a big deal to me. Brians past that stage too, but it he wanted to go to a strip club, I would just go with him.

[nikkiana]

As odd as this may sound, if I'm not with him, I'm not okay with him going to a strip club. I don't think he would anyway because it's just not his sort of thing and his GMs don't like strippers either.

[mlm063007]

Nope. If my husband feels the need to degrade women by treating them as useless sexual objects, than he needs to find a wife that is willing to put up with it. I'm not that wife.

This is exactly how I feel about it

[asm198]

I wouldn't care if he wanted to go to a strip club.

[brewsells]

I don't mind at all. However the boys have chosen to take the weekend and go camping, so I don't have to worry about it anyway.

[Valmai]

It makes no difference to me either way - not sure what we intend doing for either of us yet!! xxx

[KristyGirl]

I don't really have a problem with it, because I know it would be more for his friends than anything else. DH isn't into that sort of thing.

[Jena1984]

My FH and I had the talk about what was appropriate at our party's. Because we are ok with eachother going to the strippers on any regular day, that was not an issue. But it is a good idea to have the talk with eachother about boundaries and what you are both comfortable with. I have heard of lots of brides crossing the line too.

[cowboysbride]

I could care less...Eric doesn't like them though and he went fishing with his buddies...they're country boys fishing/naked women hmmmmmm they went fishing they can get T&A that they can TOUCH at home LOL!

[countrygirl]

Thankfully, neither J or I like the stripper thing. He doesn't feel the need to pay for something he can't (doesnt want) to have. I think it's a low blow to the person you are getting ready to marry.

We are going to go out sep for the first part of the eve, and then turn into a jack and jill party at our neighborhood joint. Most of the people at our parties are couples.

[SaralovesMike]

I would rather him not go but if he really wanted to I think I could live with it for one night. He's way past that stage anyway so I don't think it will even be an issue.
One of his groomsmen is a recovering alcoholic so they are planning on an all day golf outing.