sister problems again

[Teribridetobe]

Its been awhile. But as some of you may know that i was having some problems with my sister that were eventually resolved. She volunteered to make my wedding cake. I was sooooo excited. We were to do a trial run. She told me to mail her pictures of the cake ect... Well did that a month ago. I still have not gotten a reply back. I have not heard from here since before april. Well last weekend i told my fh that i had to let it go. So i went cake shopping and picked one out. I feel good about that. However, i wish that my sister was thoughtful enought to give me a buzz and let me know that she had too much on her plate. My question is do i give up this time and not chase her for a relationship like last time?

[WhiskeyGirl]

I'm sorry Terri, I remember the problems you were having before with her and her not contacting you or speaking to you. At this point in your lives I think it's better to let sleeping dogs lie. Send her an invite to the wedding but don't go out of your way or put your self in any further akward positions to try and make things better with her. Clearly, she is having some issues with herself and can't forgive you for some reason or thinks something stupid for whatever reason! Don't bust your tail for her!! Good luck Hun! And it's good to see you again. How is your planning coming along?

[mj512]

Wow that is hard, I can't believe she would go that long without contacting you. I hope that you don't let it get you down. I'm glad that you liked the cake that you picked out though :) Have you tried calling her?

[Teribridetobe]

Thank you! Things are coming along just fine. I think i am ready just a few minor things to take care of. I am sending out my invitations today.

[Teribridetobe]

yes i have tried to call her. I have left several messages with her children. Anyways i just have to let that go. thank you though.

[Kacie_bride]

yes i have tried to call her. I have left several messages with her children. Anyways i just have to let that go. thank you though.

I think that is the best thing! Congrats on getting those invites out.

[LaceyinPgh]

You tried. That is all that matters. Like I have said before you can't force someone to be your friend. And, just because you have similiar DNA traits, doesn't make you family. Spend your time with people who love you instead of wasting it on those who don't care.

[MOB Karen]

Its been awhile. But as some of you may know that i was having some problems with my sister that were eventually resolved. She volunteered to make my wedding cake. I was sooooo excited. We were to do a trial run. She told me to mail her pictures of the cake ect... Well did that a month ago. I still have not gotten a reply back. I have not heard from here since before april. Well last weekend i told my fh that i had to let it go. So i went cake shopping and picked one out. I feel good about that. However, i wish that my sister was thoughtful enought to give me a buzz and let me know that she had too much on her plate. My question is do i give up this time and not chase her for a relationship like last time?

I think you absolutely did the right thing by going cake shopping, Teri!! I think you had to move on with the planning of your wedding. You don't want to be wondering where your cake is on your wedding day. Good luck with all your plans!! :D

[septemberbride06]

I agree. I have had some family problems as well, and it is hard, especially when you have a wedding toplan. Just send her an invite, and forget the whole thing ever happened. TRUST ME!

[Teribridetobe]

I think you absolutely did the right thing by going cake shopping, Teri!! I think you had to move on with the planning of your wedding. You don't want to be wondering where your cake is on your wedding day. Good luck with all your plans!! :D


Thank you Karen!! I feel really good about my decision to move on!! :D

[Teribridetobe]

I agree. I have had some family problems as well, and it is hard, especially when you have a wedding toplan. Just send her an invite, and forget the whole thing ever happened. TRUST ME!


Thank you aswell! I am movin right along!!