mrs.southy
04-13-2010, 11:24 AM
My husband and I were going through a a rough time in Aug and Sept, long story. Anywho... we remained married obviously, and we worked it out. However, during those two months my pregnant cousin called and texted my husband daily and told him he could be her "baby daddy" (yes so unfortunately ghetto) and that they could raise her baby with his last name and that the baby would never have to know it wasn't his etc. She also started talking to his sister on myspace over public comments and said that she hoped he divorced me before he deployed. And that she loves him and they were going to take a road trip out to visit with the family (she only met my inlaws once and that was at our wedding where she was the maid of honor) So when we ended up working it out we got a new place and a puppy and wanted to start fresh. I stopped talking to her until right before Christmas when I knew that we would have to be civil towards eachother (I tried to blame her pregnancy hormones...) And we both let it go. Now his mom and sister have facebooks. As soon as they added him my family member saw it and she added them also. She told his sister that she misses her "first daughter" (my husband's niece) and she added my husband's best friend's mom??? I DON'T KNOW WHAT TO DO. I play nice with her because she is family and we have to be around eachother and holidays and such. We live out of state thank God. My husband ALREADY told his mom and sister that it makes me really uncomfortable that they talk after everything she said... but they obviously don't care? They live another state away. Are they just trying to be polite towards her or what?