What are you worried about??

[emmajoneswp]

Ok, so if you had to sum up the main concern or worry you have with your looming wedding day what would it be??

Stress??
Timing??
Dress??
Preparation??
Photographs??

I know its tricky to describe it in one word but give it a go........

Emma

[pinkbride]

good question!! Well, Im hoping that the whole thing goes to plan of course, but im really worried that no one will have fun at the reception, and that it will look empty and no one will have fun and dance! :sweatdrop:

also I worry that the photos wont be good or something! and the weather will be rubbish.. and and....

Oh so many worries!!!!!!! lol!

[The Proper Wedding]

I think I"m mostly worried about the weather...since our's is an outside wedding. We will have canopies for back up if it does rain, but I REALLY REALLY REALLY don't want to have to use them! It's so beautiful where we're having the ceremony. (Now if it wants to rain after the ceremony, then that would be ok ;) we're having the reception inside)

[vivchan17]

I think I"m mostly worried about the weather...since our's is an outside wedding. We will have canopies for back up if it does rain, but I REALLY REALLY REALLY don't want to have to use them! It's so beautiful where we're having the ceremony. (Now if it wants to rain after the ceremony, then that would be ok ;) we're having the reception inside)

RAIN!!! That's my greatest worry too! We're also having an outdoor ceremony on a rooftop with a skyline view of the city. The alternative is not nearly as nice or as cool - especially since it will be bare bones.

When I asked my FH what his biggest worry is, next to rain he said, "running out of premium beer." What a guy thing to say!!!!:beer:

[heather2010]

Rain for me as well! And just that it all comes together and goes off the way I have planned!

[have2bme4vr]

WEATHER for me too! We are doing a beach wedding...and I just want for it to go off without a hitch.

[Katie-ryn]

Timing I think for me. Rain I can deal with (we can just move the ceremony inside), but timing... I'm not sure how well that's gonna go. That's the part that's stressing me out. Do I try telling people when to be where, put someone in charge, bah?! My biggest worry is walking down the aisle and not everyone's ready yet...

We're also having a noon-ish wedding with a lunch reception, but I'm so not a morning person, and we're doing pics with FH and I before the ceremony! Early morning for me...

[yam102284]

Rain! The ceremony is outdoors, but we can move it inside if we need to, but the location is so beautiful and I desperately don't want an indoor wedding!

But I think my biggest worry, is walking down the aisle and the dancing at the reception and having all eyes on me/us. I don't like the spotlight and hate attention so to have all eyes on me when I'm walking down the aisle really makes me nervous.

[The Proper Wedding]

But I think my biggest worry, is walking down the aisle and the dancing at the reception and having all eyes on me/us. I don't like the spotlight and hate attention so to have all eyes on me when I'm walking down the aisle really makes me nervous.

This makes me nervous too! lol

[dodgercpkl]

Rain and photography! :P I still haven't decided for sure where my ceremony will be but the reception has been planned for my house/backyard and if it rains, than that will definitely make things interesting!

I really really want some good photos to remember everything by ya know? Whatever happens that day I know I'll still be married to the most wonderful man in the world (sorry ladies but he is to me! :D), but I still want photos and video to be able to better remember the things that happened that day. lol

[emmajoneswp]

Looks like WEATHER is coming out tops at the moment, I am quite surprised at this!!
In my experience TIMING has always caused stress (not that you need to worry if you go about it the right way).

Emma

[MrsDM]

For me it was timing of the whole day. I'll admit it, I'm a control freak and hate being late and like things to go according to schedule. I had schedule for the whole day (not with me, I was able to releax a little on my wedding day!), it turned out okay though!

[sandy03]

My biggest worry was actually the boys - getting them all to show up and be on time and wear black socks and not get stuff all over themselves and not get into stuff they shouldn't be getting into! I was also worried that I wouldn't pretty in any of my pictures.

[WBandMe]

I had 3 big worries for the day -- rain, and it ended up being 80, sunny and beautiful, I worried that my dress and veil would be wrinkled from being crammed in the garment bag (they were fine), and I just worried about how the day would go... would the cake get there on time? the flowers? and everything did. :)

[emmajoneswp]

Ok, so as I thought timing is coming through as an issue and making sure the day runs smoothly.......

One thing I would like to point out in my experience is that the the fear of something going wrong is usually a hundred times worse than when something actually does go wrong.

For example at my wedding ceremony the priest called me by the wrong name twice!! We look back on this with a smile as just part of the day.....

[~MrsRhodes2B~]

I'm worried that not many people will show up to the wedding and reception, that people will wonder where my dad is (he is NOT invited or coming, praise the Lord), and that things will be tense because of it, that the pictures won't turn out right, that people will get out of hand, etc.

I'm just plumb worried! :whoa:

[gwenshack]

I was just worried that I would have a hard time getting words out. :) Fortunately, somehow, I managed to get through it. :toast:

I didn't really have too many concerns - I knew that everything would be fine as long as two people said "I do".

[moonrai1980]

My biggest worry is that i forget something the day of. I don't know what i might forget but i'm already worried about it. whatever it is.

[Kyriel]

Money!
DJ!
Walking in heels! (lol)

[crazy8s]

Haha....I second walking in heels!! and also entertaining our guests.
It's a small wedding where majority of our guests will be family that neither one of us really know (the pressures of parents), plus we're thinking of playing music from our iPods...not quite sure what type of music to play. Can't really see old Aunt Lorraine groovin to Lady Gaga. :laugh2:

[SkippyNXC]

ok this is gonna sound uber silly but the thing i was most worried about was calling the priest and finding out we missed some crucial paperwork and could no longer get married in the church...

silly but true

thankfully i know that's not the case but shows how ridiculous my worries are... i'm fine so long as i'm there, fh is there, and by 3:30pm we're married...