I got a minute!

[officiant-fica]

Hey, everyone. I am starting to feel like that relative that only calls on holidays or when they need something! LOL. Well, I finally have a few minutes to spare so I thought I would pop in and actually post. Things are going great as far as the wedding business goes. I've booked three weddings for '07, and have booked pretty much through the end of the summer. Life however is kicking my arse! A couple of moths ago I found an e-mail that was sent to my hubby from a girl he works with. It ws pretty graphic and needless to say I was completely blindsided as well as devastated. Of course I confronted Joe and he came clean. Then I decided to give the skank a chance to tell her side of the story and they matched up. She had set her sites on Joe and was diligenty persuring him. He should have told me, and his biggest mistake was that he didn't. (nothing physical happened, she just liked to send dirty e-mails) So now we are dealing with that. Funny how easy it is to give trust to someone with out much thought, but when the trust is violated it's hard to give it back, no matter how good the track record was!
Then last week my 3 year old daughter tells me that she was touched inappropriately by an 8 year old at her sitters. His mom (I give her credit) delt with it as son as she found out and has agreed to put him in couseling. But, that means that Maddie will not be going back there. My sitter is the boys aunt and I feel it best to avaid that situation all together. I had to take and emergency vacation this week to be home with Maddie and search for daycare. Things are turing around and I think that we found an ideal daycare that offers a pre K curriculum, help with potty training, closer to home, and we won't have to take out a loan to afford it. WOW, thanks for listening.
I told Joe that if this year doesn't get better soon I may need to be medicated ot institutionalized! :bbeek:
Send good thoughts my way. I think I may be doing too much, and not giving enough at home. I really don't know what I can do differently! I may have to cut back on the weddings so I can spend more time with Joe and Maddie......

[WebLady]

Wow, sorry to hear about all that! Well, glad to hear about your business picking up :D Hope things get better and you and Joe can work through things :hug: Hope have more time to check in with us too ;)

[AngelinLove]

I am sending good thoughts your way...and since your not that far away from me they should reach you very soon!!!! I hope that things improve very soon and everything works its way out for you!!!

[brewsells]

Hi Audrey!! Nice to hear from you. I am sorry to hear about all of that. I hope things improve for you. And about Maddie, OMG. I am sooo sorry about that. it must be very difficult for you. I am sending you TONS of good thoughts.
I am glad to hear that your weddings are taking off. Great news for you.
Check in more often, it sure is nice to see you online.

[BriansBride07]

So sorry to hear about all that is going on with your home life. Good thoughts going your way in hopes that all will turn around for you. Sounds like your buisness is taking off great, that means your home life will hopefully follow. Best of luck to you and your family.

[mlm063007]

I am so sorry these things are happening to you. I hope everything turns out ok. Im sending you my good thoughts.

[officiant-fica]

Thanks Ladies! I know where I need to be for support! Things with Joe and I will be fine. Really the only thing he did wrong was not tell me. Personally I think he was enjoying the attention...... I can honestly chalk that up to the whole having a penis thing. But the stuff with Maddie, hits hard. You want to do everything to keep your children safe and well provided for. In order to provide you have to work, and in order to work you have to entrust their safety to someone else. A regular catch 22! Thanks Again! I miss you all so much!

[WhiskeyGirl]

Thanks Ladies! I know where I need to be for support! Things with Joe and I will be fine. Really the only thing he did wrong was not tell me. Personally I think he was enjoying the attention...... I can honestly chalk that up to the whole having a penis thing. But the stuff with Maddie, hits hard. You want to do everything to keep your children safe and well provided for. In order to provide you have to work, and in order to work you have to entrust their safety to someone else. A regular catch 22! Thanks Again! I miss you all so much!

Hi Audrey!!

Did you get my email? I hope things are getting better for you!! Take care and hurry back, we miss you around here~!:)

[theweddinghelper]

http://smileys.smileycentral.com/cat/36/36_1_67.gif (http://www.smileycentral.com/?partner=ZSzeb001_ZCxdm529YYUS) I'm so sorry about all that!:( I hope things only get better from here on out!
I will def. be praying for you and your family! Good thing you caught the skank before she tried to draw the line! Tell her if she messes w/ your hubby again then all your one wed friends might have to kick her ***! I'm glad that your daughter wasn't scared to tell you and you have found a nice daycare for her! keep us updated and know that we are here for you!





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[officiant-fica]

Hi Audrey!!

Did you get my email? I hope things are getting better for you!! Take care and hurry back, we miss you around here~!:)

Yeah, Shawna I got it! Thanks! I think I am more traumatized than Maddie! LOL. I called a kids crisis center and they told me at her age and the fact that it only happened one time and it was non violent, chances are she will be fine and I will be the one with the emotional scars! Better me than her I say. We found a nice prescholl and she LOVES it. Plus they help potty train, and are accredited for the head start program. Oh and the bonus, it will only cost us $30.00 per week. This has been a sucky year! I am so looking forward to the good stuff that is coming my way!
I'm so sorry about all that!:( I hope things only get better from here on out!
I will def. be praying for you and your family! Good thing you caught the skank before she tried to draw the line! Tell her if she messes w/ your hubby again then all your one wed friends might have to kick her ***! I'm glad that your daughter wasn't scared to tell you and you have found a nice daycare for her! keep us updated and know that we are here for you!

LOL I think she is scared enough now. It's kinda sad, yet funny, about a year ago she did the same thing to a friend of mine. Well, Brie walked into her apartment a punched her in the face. So when I went to see the "skank" all she would say at first was "Please don't punch me in the face, just don't hit me in the face" I refrained, but I really wanted to! LOL

[WhiskeyGirl]

I'm glad to hear that they told you she shouldnt have any emotional trauma in the future. I'm so sorry it happened!! I hope all is getting better, it's great that you found such a wonderful place to take care of Maddie!!! :) Glad things are getting better :)

[theweddinghelper]

Yeah, it would have taken me all I had in me not to hit her too!
I'm glad she got what was comming to her!