BM question

[danni92887]

So I have a dilemma.. There's one of my girlfriends that I haven't asked yet, but still want to ask to be a bridesmaid in my upcoming wedding. My wedding is in June, and I was curious to see if anyone thought that it was too late to ask her. The only reason I haven't asked her up to this point is because we were trying to keep the wedding party as small as possible (since we are having a semi-small wedding- only about 85/90 people). I really would love for her to stand up with me, as we've become pretty close and I know that I'd absolutely regret it and feel terrible after if I don't.. We haven't ordered BM dresses yet, so that's not an issue at the moment. But we'll have to order the dresses in a few weeks or so.

Thanks ladies!! All of your responses will be greatly appreciated!!! :yesnod:

[NOTKT]

I think you should do it. If she can't make the commitment, she should tell you. Just make her comfortable enough to be honest. Go for it though!

[mj512]

I think it is fine to ask her. I'd just be careful though so she doesn't feel like she was a "plan B" bridesmaid because that might make her feel bad.

[melissa1031]

I also think it's fine to ask her.Just let her know that if it's not enough time for her that it's ok to tell you so.That you would understand.

[hmz819]

I think you should ask her. Does she know you asked all the other BMs a while ago? If she does I would tell her what you wrote above. If not just ask her and let her know that if she can't do it you understand.

[pinkbride]

I think it is fine to ask her. I'd just be careful though so she doesn't feel like she was a "plan B" bridesmaid because that might make her feel bad.

thats what I was gonna say, hehe!

I think you should definately ask her. x