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Amber818
07-17-2006, 11:55 PM
My friend, Mary, actually told her boyfriend that the marriage was off and she threw the ring in his face. When she asked for it back, he wouldn't give it to her. Which I didn't blame him. Their wedding is still on it was just a heated moment. lol

Have you ever called off your wedding and thrown the ring at him?

Amber818
07-18-2006, 12:29 AM
Jason and I are very passionate about our views, our love, our future...everything so I can see us having a heated argument and me throwing something at him...but NOT in a million years am I going to throw my 1.54 carat princess cut rock that I waited 4 1/2 years to get at him....umm...hello...?!?! There are so many more things to throw....like a T.V.

SoontobeMrsClark07
07-18-2006, 01:00 AM
Jonathan and I have been in fights and thought about calling it off... but we couldnt do it. I would never in a million years throw my ring at him... I think its disrespectful and something that I couldnt do.

CindySue
07-18-2006, 01:05 AM
I said yes, but thats only part right. We called it off a few times, I even did it the night before...:bbredface: , but I NEVER threw my ring at him, never even took it off during an arguement.

Kacie_bride
07-18-2006, 07:13 AM
We have gotten into arguments like everyone else does, but the thought of calling off the wedding has never come up!

AngelinLove
07-18-2006, 07:18 AM
Never. Joel and I very, very, very rarely argue adn when we do it is just little disagreements. Nothing that would lead to anything that drastic. We have never came close to calling off the wedding. Now we have seriously considered running away and having a private beach ceremony and leavinga ll these crazy people behind....but that's a different story for a different time..lol!!!

MOB Karen
07-18-2006, 07:52 AM
Jason and I are very passionate about our views, our love, our future...everything so I can see us having a heated argument and me throwing something at him...but NOT in a million years am I going to throw my 1.54 carat princess cut rock that I waited 4 1/2 years to get at him....umm...hello...?!?! There are so many more things to throw....like a T.V.


TV... :bblol: LOL!!! Good one, Amber!!!

brewsells
07-18-2006, 09:00 AM
No, that hasn't happened with us. If I did throw my ring at him, I wouldn't get it back. I would never do that anyway.

Amber818
07-18-2006, 09:27 AM
TV... :bblol: LOL!!! Good one, Amber!!!

I thought it was....LMAO!

LaceyinPgh
07-18-2006, 09:48 AM
I never thought about calling the wedding off with Sean. I thought about packing my bags a disappearing a few times, but I never called off the wedding. Besides, I never have my ring on so even if I did decide to call off the wedding, I probably wouldn't have the **** thing handy to throw anyway!

I did have a cousin when I was really little that had her fiance break up with her. He had the nerve to not only ask for the ring back but all the other jewelery that he had given her as well. So, she neatly packed it all up in a little Ziploc bag, and drove over it with the tire of her car a few times then handed it to him.

cowboysbride
07-18-2006, 09:51 AM
Eric and I have only had 1 serious argument (and it was my fault, I was being a &itch, hmmm I know that's hard for some of you to grasp:bbeek: :bbmrgreen: ). The only thing I ever said was "looks like we have a problem here" and God love him he looked like I had knocked the wind out of him...the ring never came off.

I would never throw it at him (I love him too much to disrespect him like that). The man carries me on a pedestal and loves me dearly, I would NEVER hurt him like that.

Good post Amber...I'd throw the TV but the **** things too big...remind me NOT to piss you off!:cool:

countrygirl
07-18-2006, 10:10 AM
Josh and i have acutally never really had an argument. We have had some very heated discussions, and disagreements, but we have never really argued. Both of our past relationships were very argumentative, and neither of us want to go there again. I have gotten to the point where I want to call the wedding quits, but it's been a " lets just elope' thing. I can't ever see not marrying him. I never believed in the one perfect person until I met him.

Hayz
07-20-2006, 03:53 AM
When I found out DH (then FH) had to go to Afghanistan (last year) it was a huge shock as we weren't expecting it I took off my ring and threw it at him (unfortunately, lol, it missed and went behind the couch instead) and yelled "I can't do this" then I ran out of the house and jumped in the car a drove around for awhile before returning home. I was really upset. He put the ring back on my finger once I got back and he calmed me down a bit.

WhiskeyGirl
07-20-2006, 12:49 PM
When I found out DH (then FH) had to go to Afghanistan (last year) it was a huge shock as we weren't expecting it I took off my ring and threw it at him (unfortunately, lol, it missed and went behind the couch instead) and yelled "I can't do this" then I ran out of the house and jumped in the car a drove around for awhile before returning home. I was really upset. He put the ring back on my finger once I got back and he calmed me down a bit.

I wouldn't be able to do it either Hayley!!

mariaandmanish
07-20-2006, 01:04 PM
I got a promise ring from an ex of mine once, my "first ex"... He asked me to marry him as well, and I said no! He was a complete jerk, concerned with himself and no one else and only asked me to marry him because he didn't want to be alone, not because he wanted to be with me. Luckily for him, he was in another state when he asked, otherwise I might have thrown my "promise ring" in his face!! As it is, I still have that ring, but never wear it.

sherrybaby
07-20-2006, 02:12 PM
We had a lot of arguments before the wedding "pre wedding stress" but I have never thrown the E ring I dont have one LOL

I have made comments like "You treat me like this and you want to be my husband". Our arguments are usually because I am bitchy and want more help around the house but when he works 2 jobs, trying to start a business and barely get any sleep I can see why he doesnt. That kind of argument is one that we have begin to live with when i am stressed he knows and i know whats going on.

rainbowtreat
07-20-2006, 06:51 PM
Nicholas and I very rarely ever fight or even argue. We have disagreements and it takes all I have not to get mad and throw something or scream at him. But I have been there before and I dont want to be that person again. He ( and I ) hate to fight. We will back off and wait till the other has cooled down and then we talk. I would never throw my ring at him. I would never throw anything AT him. Just maybe go into the next room and throw something just to get my frustration out.

Crystal05
07-20-2006, 10:44 PM
No, but we had many arguments that made me think.. lol

ladymelissa
07-21-2006, 04:43 PM
No way! We have not even argued. Even if I get upset about something I force myself to cool down and think about it before I do something I will regret forever. I hope I never lose it so much as to throw anything, I feel that type of behavior is totally unacceptable.

bnd94
07-21-2006, 04:51 PM
When I found out DH (then FH) had to go to Afghanistan (last year) it was a huge shock as we weren't expecting it I took off my ring and threw it at him (unfortunately, lol, it missed and went behind the couch instead) and yelled "I can't do this" then I ran out of the house and jumped in the car a drove around for awhile before returning home. I was really upset. He put the ring back on my finger once I got back and he calmed me down a bit.

OMG!! Hayleys back!! I missed you girl:D

WebLady
07-21-2006, 09:59 PM
Yeah like Melissa said, on the rare occasions DH and I argue, I try to think before I speak/act as to not do/say something I might regret.

We did have a disagreement a few yrs ago (I honestly forget what about) and I remember thinking to myself "Am I sure this is the man I'm suppose to marry" But since I never had a ring, I didn't have anything to throw ;)

catmeo
07-22-2006, 02:17 AM
I voted No, but LOL at the TV comment :bblol:

darkangel090260
07-22-2006, 02:53 AM
i never did with Ross but one of my ex bf i throw the ring he gave me in to the Bay in SF

KristyGirl
07-22-2006, 07:21 AM
Nope, never.

katieandalex
07-22-2006, 09:26 AM
Actually yeah....it was shortly after we were engaged (we got engaged in December and it was like March or April) and we got into this huge fight (so stupid...it was all about finding an apartment in Waterloo to move there....dumb) and we were screaming at each other, he threw a throw pillow at me and I said "You don't throw **** at me!" And I threw the ring at him and I said "I'm not going to marry you if your going to abuse me." And went into the bedroom and fell asleep....when I woke up he was laying next to me and he apologized....it was just one of those things that we were both stressed out because we had like zero money, we were going to have to move and just nothing was going either of our ways at that point in time.....but never since then have I done that.

asm198
07-22-2006, 11:20 AM
I have a couple of times, but haven't been serious about it. I have a nasty temper, I'm stubborn, and I have a tendency to be a drama queen. I always feel like a childish idiot afterwards, so I've been trying to keep it in check.

EarlyBird
09-22-2007, 03:00 PM
haha fh and i both have nasty tempers and we both say things we dont mean - honestly, i dont think i have ever THROWN the ring at him but there have been times where one of us just leaves for a couple hours- "im not marrying your f**ki* stupid as*" has been said quite a few times but never really meaning it... it hasnt happened in a while though - rarely since we got engaged too! but here was an incident where i threw chair- it was a little baby chair but i threw it just into midair- not at hjim just wanted to throw something so i didnt hit him haha