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kheath10
07-14-2006, 09:45 AM
Well I havent posted in a while because I have been trying to just chill but i have some fustrations i need to talk about and cant to my finace cause he just want me to be happy and not even talk about crazy stuff. Which I can't blame him. Well rember the crazy aunt, the father not showing up i have gotten past all that and then some. So here we are at the bridal shower time which is 7/29/06 so any way the bridal shower is sopposed to be given and pitched in by all bridesmaid right? help me here and tell me when im wrong, well My maid if honor called a meeting witch only 2 brides maids showed up!!
My sisiter is in FlA but has done what she could, so that leaves 3 that haven't done :censored: , so my maid of honor left a message with ,my cousin letting her know when to meet and how much to have she has'nt returned her call or nothing (I mean this is embarassing this is my family and she acting jelous or something, Im sick of it. But not once have I went off am remaing so cool!!
Next then my maid of honor met yesterday to go get the stuff for the shower she met and one of my bride maids house that is doing things for the shower,
but one of my long time firends was there and she is a bridesmiad also she drove her car(My friend moh was like you don't have no gas, she like i only have 20.00 mind you each miad was sopossed to give 60.00 and they had 4 months to have it. My moh told her keep the 20.oo it crazy to put gas in the car and have to come up with your half of the money!! it get worse the :censored:
car would'nt go cause the air was on talk about crazy ****!! I was like don;t tell me nothing else. She said you know what she is gonna do everything to make it right and don;t worry about it . But i am so mad how am i sopposed to even be around them at my shower and they anit done :bbredface: im so disapointed. Im just ready for it to be over. And as for a bachleorette party i dont know if I will put my moh through this agin.

Kacie_bride
07-14-2006, 09:55 AM
I'm sorry you're dealing with this, but it just happens this way. Most of the girls on here seem to be having trouble with their BMs. I think it is just a fact of wedding life. My MOH and a friend of my mom's is doing my showers because they will get it done. Not everyone is excited about your wedding as you are and they have other things going on in their lives. Trust me, I know, I have been waiting for over a month for mine just to get fitted for their dresses! I still have one that has not gone and 3 that have not paid for them. It sucks, but in the end it will all come together. I would suggest just relying on one to really help you out. And you are probably going to have to do a lot of it yourself. In an ideal world it would not be like that. Good luck sweetie!

SueMartin
07-14-2006, 08:59 PM
plan for the best, but expect the worst of people.. then when they let you down, you arent surprised. your MOH seems like a lovely person who is trying her hardest. as for the BM's .. from what Ive seen on here & other boards, somethimes they just dont have a clue about what they are supposed to do..