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MOB Karen
07-12-2006, 11:18 PM
How do you feel about your future Mother-in-law? :bbmrgreen:

Jenn060306
07-12-2006, 11:23 PM
I am lucky enough to get 2! Mark's mom is great. Her and i get along really well now. We have had our differences but now its all good. We can talk about pretty much anything and she doesn't really pick on me at all. Mark's step mother is super nice and we get along great as well. But somthing about her rubs me the wrong way at times. I guess because i know she had an affair with Mark's dad and at one point she had been hoarding money from his dad and was planning on leaving him. It seems a little like as soon as she found out he was going to be getting some money from his divorce being finalized suddenly everything was ok. I dunno.... Don't get me wrong. She is really sweet and great to talk to and very relaxed.
I consider myself to be very fortunet in the in-laws department. It's very clear how they feel about me. They do seem to treat me as one of their own children. It's great!

Trish
07-12-2006, 11:43 PM
My FMIL is a real sweetie and so caring. I just love her!

Amber818
07-12-2006, 11:50 PM
Jason's mom past away 2 weeks before we met so I never had the chance to meet her. He always says my mom would have like you...

LaceyinPgh
07-13-2006, 08:44 AM
My mother in law hated me at first. I know that she felt I wasn't good enough for son. Seh really did and said some nasty things after Sean and I got engaged that I find totally unforgiveable. She has gotten a little better though. She did help out with a few things for the wedding and I apprecaite that. For the most part we get along now. But, because of the past incidents, I will never be close to her.

AngelinLove
07-13-2006, 09:22 AM
Joel's mom is fabulous. She is sweet, caring, and has always been kind and welcoming. We get along very well and she knows how much I love her son!!!!

bnd94
07-13-2006, 09:33 AM
I have to say Danny's Mom is more of a mother to me than my own Mom!! She is awesome and treats me like a daughter she never had. I just love her!! :wub:

hummingbird521
07-13-2006, 09:35 AM
My mother in law passed away when my husband was 17 years old.

CindySue
07-13-2006, 11:00 AM
I LOVE Brian's mom. She is the absolute greatest!!

SoontobeMrsClark07
07-13-2006, 11:18 AM
I love her eventhough she does a lot of things that really get to me sometimes. She's really sweet and has really accepted me into the family from day one. Her and I go shopping and out to dinner and movies.

There are those times that she can feel impossible to deal with but my own mother and even my best friend are like that. She's a great person and I do love her! :D

countrygirl
07-13-2006, 11:45 AM
I LOVE MY FMIL!!! I didn't think it would be possible to like her that much but I do. I have only met her once, when she stayed w us for about a week, and at the end, I didn't want her to go home. We talk on the phone at least once a week, and she tells me she loves me each and everytime.

cowboysbride
07-13-2006, 12:00 PM
Eric's mom is wonderful, I misjudged her when all this wedding planning started...she loves me like her own child and makes no difference between me and Dianna and Eric. She does everything for me that my mom would do and her and my mom are the best of friends!

mariaandmanish
07-13-2006, 12:28 PM
I love my FMIL. She does some things that truly annoy me, like rearranging my kitchen whenever she stays with us. But she is truly a kind person and I can talk with her. She accepts that I am not of her culture and that there will be things I will do differently than she would, so it's a true blessing.

asm198
07-13-2006, 12:52 PM
She is very sweet and easy to get along with. She gets a bit too enthusiastic at times, but I know she means well.

WebLady
07-13-2006, 01:40 PM
I absolutely loved DH's mother. I was devastated when she passed, and I was sad that she didn't see us get married. But in my heart she will always be my MIL. I miss her alot (I know DH and FIL do too) and it has been nearly 3 years. But we have to move on and just remember how great she was ... I feel lucky to have had a relationship with her.

Now I wish DH could have a good relationship with my mother, but she makes it hard. She and I have issues, the only time we don't is when I don't say anything. We get along ok for the most part and I do love her, but there are things she has said and done in the past that I will never forget and because of that we will never be close. It does upset me alot at times but I've come to accept that I will never change her, so I just try to roll with the punches most of the time.

Ok sorry about all that, I am done now.

Kacie_bride
07-13-2006, 03:45 PM
I like mine. She has been really nice to me, but there have been some times that she has made me really mad. For instance, 4 years ago Justin was still in college and his dad claimed him on the income tax. His parents are divorced. His mom never paid a single dime for any of his school or anything. Justin's dad at the time paid for his cell phone, truck insurance, and some other miscellanous expenses. He even lived at his dad's house part of that year. His mom had the nerve to call Justin and tell him that she wanted to claim him on the income tax that year and he needs to tell his dad. That is so wrong.

I am sure there are things that my mom does that annoys Justin too. Overall Justin's mom is a very sweet person whom I get along with very well. I just cannot say that I love her yet. Maybe it'll grow in time.

Crystal05
07-13-2006, 07:46 PM
My MIL is great. She's always treated me with respect.. just like I'm one of her own kids. Love her!

AngelinLove
07-13-2006, 08:13 PM
Unfortunately my momma passed away from lung cancer in May 2001, which was about 1 1/2 years before I met Joel...but I am sure that she would have loved him..how could ya not. Joel's mom has been soooo awesome. The first Mother's Day that we were together she pulled me aside and told me that even though she knew that she could never replace my mom...she would do her best and would always be there for me...and she has!!!

rainbowtreat
07-13-2006, 10:43 PM
I only know my MIL some what. She is a nice person though. We have met in person twice. Once was for the wedding lol and the other was just for a day during our road trip. Since we got engaged ( or rather he told her we were ) we have talked a little more often. She was upset when her one and only child moved 13 horus away for a girl he me ton the internet. But she has gotten over that. She never took it out on me or anything but I knew how she felt. She is now great to me. She will talk to me if she calls and Nicholas is not home or she will ask to talk to me for one reason or another. She has accpted my kids as her grand kids. So yes things are good. She is even talking about looking up this way for work some time. She said nothing is tieing her down down there in WV and from what she has seen this looks just like home. And Nicholas says that if we have a baby she will be here in a heart beat as it will be her baby's baby.

My mom was worried that if we have a baby that his mom would treat my kids differently. But Nicholas is just like his mom and that wont happen. They will always be her grands kids as well. She said to Nicholas this is like christmas, your giving me a dauther and 2 grandkids in one day.

WhiskeyGirl
07-14-2006, 12:57 AM
I love my MIL. But it is hard because my MIL speaks limited english. She really should speak more since she's been in canada for 7 years but I'm sure that will come. I just talk to her and if she doesn't understand she says so or asks Matt...lol. All in all she is great and I wouldn't trade her for any other MIL!!! :)

katieandalex
07-14-2006, 09:03 AM
Pretty much, I tolerate her....I try not to be around her, but when I do, I put on a smile and bite my tongue.

KristyGirl
07-14-2006, 03:26 PM
She's OK. I rarely see her, but she's nice when I do.

nikkiana
07-14-2006, 09:59 PM
I tolerate her. I think she's kinda intrusive and she's kinda got some really wacky ideas of things....

EarlyBird
09-22-2007, 09:34 PM
fmil is crazy but i love her very much. she treats me like her own child, and that includes yelling when she thinks i do something wrong. :) Its hard to warm up to her but you have to really know her- of course she drives me nuts and does sh** i cant stand. but i love her. she does stupid sh** but not maliciously

candyt2009
09-22-2007, 09:40 PM
I love my future mother in law she is the only one that been there for me and my kids:heart: