Your Honesty Policy

[MOB Karen]

Let us know how honest you are with your man. :)

[Jenn060306]

Absolutely. He knows everything about my past relationships and such. He also knows pretty much everything that happends. The only time i don't tell him about somthing is if it is somthing he doesen't need to know about it. ie. a health issue with a g/f etc.

[Trish]

Piggy ( my fiance) knows everything about me and my past and he STILL loves me!

[Amber818]

Jason knows pretty much everything...I honestly feel you have to leave somethings just for yourself....

[LaceyinPgh]

We follow the governemnt's adivce, "Don't ask, don't tell". I am not so foolish to think that Sean was never in a past relationship. I met him when he was 31 for heaven's sake. I do know that he was never married or never engaged before and that he had never lived with anyone before me. Hell, we had been dating a couple months and I opeded a bathroom drawer to find something and there was an old tube of lipstick (quite old from the looks of it) that wasn't mine. Sean knows bits and pieces about my past. I have mentioned old flames before. He knows that I lived with someone when I lived in DC. He also knows that relationship ended on an incredibly sour note. He also knows that I greatly enjoyed my college years in all aspects. Our theory is the past is the past don't worry about it.

[brewsells]

We have both disclosed our pasts, although, I don't think we both liked hearing it at times. But we don't want any surprises later

[AngelinLove]

I have to say that I agree with Amber and Lacey. Joel knows all the important major stuff, but not all the details. I am sure...knowing Joel..that he doesn't want to know all the details anyways.

[bnd94]

I agree, there are just some things that are better left unsaid. The only thing we don't talk about is past relationships. If he asked I would probably tell him but if he doesn't.......;)

[cowboysbride]

Eric and I know pretty much everything about eachothers previous marriage...we worked thru all that hideous **** by talking to each other instead of spending the next 20 years in a physciatrists office (I'm not kidding our ex's were horrid!)

As for our wild and wooly days, Nah! Why shock the poor man like that, and I'm not naive enough to think that my long legged good looking cowboy didn't raise his own kind of hell back in the day...

[CindySue]

Brian knows most everything there is to know about me.

[SoontobeMrsClark07]

We know everything about eachother's past relationships mainly because I was his first real relationship and he was mine. We have put everything out on the table and while some things hurt, we still got them out there and worked through them... there are a lot of things we joke about our pasts too. I have an ex-wife vent brewing so you'll know why some things hurt.

I dont feel our relationship could have survived given the circumstances. Things really get under your skin and it feels good when you can get them out there. He knows how I feel and I know how he feels. Its been great to be so honest.

[countrygirl]

He knows the good, bad and ugly. He doesn't ask very much but will listen if there is anything I want to tell him. He doesn't say too much(when it comes to past relationships), but will tell me what ever I ask him about.

[mariaandmanish]

I agree with the others, Manish knows a lot of my history and I know most of his, but the details are best left unsaid. They're in the past, and obviously didn't work out. But, for all of that, we have told each other quite a bit about the important ones of our past.

[WebLady]

DH and I have talked about all kids of things from our past. He has always been open and honest when I asked about things, and he asked alot of questions when we first got together too. I may not have given specific details about some things and I am sure he hasn't either, but I think we pretty much know everything there is to know.

The way I look at it is, I didn't want something to come up later and ruin what we had.

[Kacie_bride]

Justin knows everything-I think anyway. I know most of the details about his past I'm sure. I think I have at one time or another told him the bad things. It's not like I ever sat there and listed them all.

[CindySue]

We had a thread a lonnnngggg time ago about if we kept secrets from our men. While I will NOT lie to Brian if he asks me a question, I dont necessarily tell him everything. Its not that Im keeping stuff from him. He has his own life, he doesnt need to be burdened with EVERY detail of mine. If theres something he wants to know, he will ask and I will tell. I will tell him anything that I think affects or might affect our marriage.

[CindySue]

It's not like I ever sat there and listed them all.
Exactly.....and there are things we have forgotten about. Its doesnt mean we are keeping things a secret.

[rainbowtreat]

Nicholas knows just about everythign I beelive. We were very close freinds before we were a couple so things were laid out long before we were together. We talekd about thigns all the time when we were just freinds so he knows alot of me and I know alot of him. I am not trying to keep anything from him but we havent sat down and said ok lets talk about our pst. If there is somthing he wants to know I will tell him as he will to me.

[Crystal05]

Yeah, pretty much. There isn't much that I keep from him.

[asm198]

I'm fairly sure we know everything there is to know about the other. I know I'm not keeping secrets from him and I'm confident he's not keeping any from me.

[WhiskeyGirl]

I'm not sure we know everything, but the important things we do! If we have questions we ask and don't lie to each other. But all in all I think it's all out there! :)

[katieandalex]

Yeah, because I really don't have a past....throughout the years though we have found out some little things that we never told each other before....which is really weird that you are still learning that stuff 6 years later.