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vicky_vicky
06-22-2009, 01:03 AM
I am totally freaking. Check out my counter only some days before my wedding. I have so many things in my mind.
AND I have no dj yet. Mom and dad are not talkative at all. I have arranged everything but i feel that there is still so many things to do, and maybe I am forgetting something. And i have no time.
Chubear
06-22-2009, 03:17 AM
Talk a deep breath. Go for a hot soak in the tub. do something to relax you right now.
Then, once you've had a break, come back to it. compile any lists you have.
cross off anything done already.
For the DJ, lots of ladies here have mentioned Craigs list as a good way to find people. Maybe you could try it? If not do you have/ can you borrow a stereo and burn some CDs just in case?
Look at it objectively, if you did nothing else, you would still be getting married, and its over a week away - heaps of time really:o,
try not to stress the small things, perhaps FH can give you a back rub?
I get mine to hold me while i cry ( works wonders as a stress release) and then i'm good to go again.
We're all here for you!
mitch
06-22-2009, 03:29 AM
I go to the bottom of the garden and have a good scream. :o Not that i make a habit of it. I'm normally calm. So the neighbours don't think i've totally lost the plot just yet lol.
We didn't have a DJ at our Wedding and no one really noticed. We connected the PC to the Hi-Fi and pressed "Play".
List everything that needs to be done. Plus what HAS been done. I bet there's more things done than is pending. And seeing that might give You the boost You need.
Time is still on Your side. Some little things can be totally overlooked and forgotten about. We forgot the Guest Book. But once again, no one noticed.
As long as You have a lovely Dress on. Your FH turns up. You both say "I Do" then the job is done. :winktongue:
Good Luck. And RELAX. Everything will be good in the world. :)
pinkbride
06-22-2009, 10:05 AM
Im sure everything will be sorted and when the day is done you will wonder why you stressed so much, try and relax though, glass of wine, bubble bath, chocolate, or all 3 lol xx
gwenshack
06-22-2009, 03:21 PM
Everything will be great! :) You'll be a beautiful bride and everything will get done!
Nekochanpurr
06-22-2009, 04:53 PM
No worries! everything will work out in the end hun. :)
Thalia_themuse
06-22-2009, 08:03 PM
Aww Vicky :hug: I think at this stage everyone goes a little crazy. Just remember that very soon you will be married!!!!! :whoohoo: The little details don't matter on the day really, so long as you are both there and your family gets to see how happy you are!
We're not doing a DJ either so there are other options...
All the best!! :heart:
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